On person advised you to go to Dubai if you have the choice - DONT unless u plan to be in debt before u even begin ur married life...

Doha is an easy country - its not hard to live here.. but as others have said - one of you at least should have a job they are coming to and the other will find a job easily no problem. If u get a good package then you have nothing to worry about. Life is ok and not so expensive (like in dubai) the only thing that can cause problems is accomodation and if ur lucky enough to have a package that includes it then ur fine.. or if both of u are working and have a good accomodation allowance you can find something nice and small to begin with..

Good luck.. and congratulations..