We were considering going private, but a doctor friend persuaded us to go to Hamad - he said that's where he would go if it was his wife. They have the best equipment, and we had excellent service, although my wife she didn't feel as informed as in the U.K. I believe you have to tell the doctor what painkillers you want in advance.

It was hard not being present at the birth. I think it was two or three hours before I could see my wife and baby. I brought my mother-in-law over to accompany my wife. I don't think even women are supposed to stay thoughout the birth, but perhaps because of our friend in Hamad she was allowed to.

Good luck!