I would like to suggest you when you get your domestic helper/nanny not to live your little girl with her 100 percents. They can do the houseworks and you can look after your baby yourself. It makes me cringe some of my girlfriend who don't work, looking for a maid so the maid can look after the 2 mths old baby full time while they can go shopping or coffee without the baby.

But i think you already know anyway ... when i met you, you seems a very caring mammy to her :-)