Thank you all for the advice. From not knowing what to do, to having so many options has made me all the more confused now. Really..I am hopeless at these things.

Don't worry beast666, I have spent more than enough time away from her to know that I would be a fool to lose her or be without her. In some ways, I am glad the visa-thing came-up, it has perversely made me think more about myself and my life and the future. It really has been something I have been thinking about for a very long time now.

So maybe i'l give the Sheraton a call today. But I also found a nice outdoor spot, an outside restaurant on the seafront of the Diplomatic club. It seems like a quiet spot for dinner, then some bubbly followed by an after dinner walk along the waters????? What do you think?