No probs! Just i do not think like that and the shock factor is well and truely over as i find that afro has a point we do at times look like we are stuck up our own bums as you have to be soooo to the point as in not interested get the point and they don't we come across as rude maybe for example i was out at the weekend dancing having a laugh (with male friends) and i had to move at least six times but he still did not get the point and the fact i was dancing with men did not dawn on him one might of been the other half!!!!!