Butterfly your suggestion about waiting is nonesense. It implies that once you have nothing left to wait for the relationship has run its course.

In which case you'd better never have sex or it will all be over.

Whether you wait a week, month, two months eventually you are going to have it and then what? My point being that witholding it to sustain the relationship's spice is futile as for the relationship to last another level must be involeved anyway.

There are plenty of normal lads in Doha let me assure you.