I think everyone wants to live the child in him/her often..and what better way to find the "mother" sometimes ..Only if the man is willing to play the "father" at other times...

The thing about swinging and trying to look interested seems fine once a month or year...but if one has only a club or bar to go every night to socialize..then I guess that life has no meaning (A very personal opinion..not meant to open any can of worms..)...If someone is doing that every night despite the lady at home..then I guess she is not there...