i would like to relax you to get a nice uf apartment it costs around 4-5000 i got one two months ago quite big as well you just can not take the first one you see! Woman can do what they like to a certain degree (don't wear hot pants to the mall) work driver smoke drink compounds are nicer but more expensive about 10-12000 for a three bed but usally get the swimming pool and gym within the compound and usally a good community.