Relationship Help

ariannaterrance
By ariannaterrance

I am a Christian woman living here in Qatar and I fell in love with a Muslim man.
He says that he does not care if I convert to Islam or not, but I feel that it would show that I truely care and love him if I did.
What should I do?

By phoenix2009• 29 Dec 2009 17:43
Rating: 4/5
phoenix2009

i have a new software rligion_converter 2.012 issue 2009-2010 updated online freeware

to convert from any religion to any other religon.

you can find it on www.extremereligionconverter.com/marriagetomuslim

Yalla!

By simplyJC• 29 Dec 2009 17:13
simplyJC

it all depends on your decision Ariann...and let love work its mysterious ways...

"there are no mistakes...just lessons learned"

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 16:57
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

I think you should convert to muslim or he should left the Muslim religion and convert to Christian. its better to have the same religion with your partner in this way you will have the same faith.

By lilBoPeep• 29 Dec 2009 16:57
Rating: 3/5
lilBoPeep

If you love him, follow ur heart. From Christian to Muslim is a huge change. You will be marrying the man, not the religion.

Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.

By Phoenix_Rising• 29 Dec 2009 16:46
Phoenix_Rising

i'll say, religion is non existent long time ago.

on when it did begin, i have no idea whatsoever.

only thing i am sure, it makes simple things complicated.

can't we live a life without religion?

By Victory_278692• 29 Dec 2009 16:41
Victory_278692

Does religion really matters to you then why at the first place enter into a relationship!

It is your personal call....mutually agree or compromise decide before marriage.

By schlaunik• 29 Dec 2009 16:05
Rating: 2/5
schlaunik

Pray to god for guidance and trust your heart. Reflect on what marriage means and give a thought to your future if you do not convert and have children. This seems to be the biggest problem in these relationships. You may both be secure in your individual faiths, but your children may suffer.

Sorry to bring in a down point , just want to be a sincere advisor to you.

By [email protected]• 29 Dec 2009 15:44
Rating: 4/5
roseesocta@yahoo.com

RELIGION IS NOT THE BIG PROBLEM AS LONG YOU LOVE EACH OTHER AND BOTH OF YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION.RESPECT BOTH OPENION AND BELIEF THATS IT.

By twenty• 29 Dec 2009 14:25
twenty

FU

ur previous avatar was better :)

By Colt45• 29 Dec 2009 13:35
Rating: 3/5
Colt45

You mean snuggle upto her?

By DaRuDe• 29 Dec 2009 13:32
DaRuDe

Kaput is looking for snuggies help her.

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 13:31
anonymous

On a serious note - Ask yourself this question - Is he worth it? If yes;it really doesn't matter what you can or cannot do to be with him.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Colt45• 29 Dec 2009 13:29
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

I was not thinking those... so make that 25 million and 2 :-P

By DaRuDe• 29 Dec 2009 13:27
DaRuDe

like walking on a ramp doing cat walk??

or jumping from Qtel tower?

By Colt45• 29 Dec 2009 13:25
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

"would show that I truly care and love him if I did"

and you think converting to Islam is the only way of showing it?

There are 25 million other ways of showing it.

By twenty• 29 Dec 2009 13:00
twenty

azilana7037

well said

By Hasan-QTR• 29 Dec 2009 12:50
Rating: 5/5
Hasan-QTR

If you really love him, marry him.

It is as simple as this.

You can converter if you wish, however it is not a must….

Just follow your hart,

By zthman• 29 Dec 2009 12:45
zthman

if he loves you to be his wife that is alright religion doesn't matter but before going in process of marriage u both have to understand each others cultural respects and make predecision of where u both have to live.

By azilana7037• 29 Dec 2009 12:40
Rating: 4/5
azilana7037

Converting BECAUSE YOU'RE IN LOVE with the SOMEONE is NOT REALLY a valid point. It is your belief and faith that should be the major factor why you want to convert.

Ok, let's say you converted to your BF's religion: what if in the long run, you guys broke up? You mean, you will go back to your former religion?

What is BF doing to prove his love for you?

JM28 asked you a Question whether THIS BF has any plans of marrying you. or maybe he's just using you.

Be wise...like they say, love is blind.

By blablabla• 29 Dec 2009 12:39
blablabla

convert if you think it pleases him. This is part of anything you do to please him. At the end religion doesn't matter but your peace and happiness....

By Qatari-femme• 29 Dec 2009 12:32
Rating: 4/5
Qatari-femme

He loved you the way you are, you don't have to change a thing about you!

However; I recommend to read about Islam to get to know it,even if you don't convert, you'll learn how things works for a better long-lasting relationship!

& I'm happy for you!!! Real love nowadays is kinda rare to find !

''Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. 'Discover''

Mark Twain

By twenty• 29 Dec 2009 12:27
twenty

are you crazy!!

By Richierich• 29 Dec 2009 12:20
Richierich

Arian, Ask your uncle for advice..coz believe me he have

the best solution on this matter.

__________________________________________________

The one who stays calm is the one who is in control

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 12:13
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

They will exchange "colors", arainnaterrance.

By ariannaterrance• 29 Dec 2009 12:11
ariannaterrance

Who said anything about being Egyptian Boston?

What would happen when a Red Quark and a Green Quark love eachother though?

By sajmarhab• 29 Dec 2009 11:58
Rating: 2/5
sajmarhab

please do not revert for love, marriage or friendship. if you want to convert into any religion, take your time, study about that religion, once you satisfied yourself, then you can proceed for reverting to Islam.

Otherwise dont do it.... as your thread it is very well known that, you are in deep love with him... in my opinion religion doesnt matter at all...

wishing you a successfull marriage life...

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 11:53
anonymous

Especially not, when he is an Egyptian!

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 11:53
anonymous

Even if he plans to marry doesn't mean that he is going to marry you!

By greentea• 29 Dec 2009 11:51
Rating: 5/5
greentea

before you think of converting, ask him first if he plans to marry you and ask him to let you meet his parents... from that point you can think of converting or not

By kinimoto• 29 Dec 2009 11:49
Rating: 5/5
kinimoto

anyways, in true love, religion should never be an issue...

boston is correct, just show him that you really love and care.

By Straight Arrow• 29 Dec 2009 11:49
Straight Arrow

If you convert you will please yourself first and you may marry this man.

By Straight Arrow• 29 Dec 2009 11:47
Rating: 5/5
Straight Arrow

He has the right to ask you to convert and you have the right to accept or no.

If a christian woman fall in love with a muslim man then they can marry and the Muslim man should not force her.

But really if you love him you should tell him that you are willing to know about Islam, then you can marry him and who knows maybe you will convert.

You can marry him and he should not force you at all.

By ariannaterrance• 29 Dec 2009 11:46
ariannaterrance

Because you dont deserve to be pleased by me.

By DaRuDe• 29 Dec 2009 11:43
DaRuDe

to please every one???

yet you havent pleased me here on QL why??

By ariannaterrance• 29 Dec 2009 11:42
ariannaterrance

I dont care about pleasing people . I know I have the ability to please everybody , it's just if their worthy of being pleased or not is the question.

By Hasan Shaikh• 29 Dec 2009 11:41
Rating: 3/5
Hasan Shaikh

Do not convert to please people. Religion is not about pleasing people. Its about pleasing GOD!

By DaRuDe• 29 Dec 2009 11:40
Rating: 5/5
DaRuDe

Get him. Marry him.

You convert or you dont convert thats upto you.

By ariannaterrance• 29 Dec 2009 11:38
ariannaterrance

He knows I care.

And hes open to Christianity. I dont really care about the religion aspect in relationships .. Its not quite my forte

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 11:38
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Convert if you believe in Islam otherwise plenty of ways to show that you care.

By kinimoto• 29 Dec 2009 11:37
Rating: 5/5
kinimoto

have u asked him if he would want to convert as a Christian to show that he truly care and love u?

By anonymous• 29 Dec 2009 11:37
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

Show him in other ways that you care!

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