New Muslim

Maeleka
By Maeleka

Salaam Aleikum

 

I'm new to Doha but I converted 4 years ago to Islam, alhamdulillah.

I've discovered that there is a lot of european women who are interested in Islam but often very shy or sometimes even scared to ask questions. One of the main reasons is there husband and even I have meet some europeans who was sure they would loose there job if they converted and started using Hijab.

Is there anyone who can advice me or maybe have an idea of how to help this "want to be Muslims" ??

 

Regards

Maeleka

By whoami• 17 Mar 2008 22:55
whoami

aslamtee il hamdilah.

 

My advice is to give people information on the truth.

Also make it an important issue to point out that the Quran is never changing, however interpretations can vary.

 

Point is, I'm one of those people that take the good interpretations out of it all.

 

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By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 22:24
anonymous

nadt...sure you are right 100%

By nadt• 17 Mar 2008 22:20
nadt

exactly KEEM..can you imagine if the prophet(PBUH)gave up on people anh how patient he was with the people who used to insultt and try to hurt him. He was very patient which is why he succeeded in his days..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 22:17
anonymous

please share with us

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 22:15
anonymous

then you will PM me

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 22:13
anonymous

"We need to be patient with muslims and bring out the good in them, not the worst... " you are right

By nadt• 17 Mar 2008 22:10
nadt

Eco-savy quote

one of my relative is such a pain, he thinks just sayin shahadah is enuf. never bothered to learn Quran. I really dont like inviting anyone to Islam unless they are pious ppl. InFACT i tell all the corrupt ppl to stay away from Islam.

 

Eco-savy...yes some muslims are corrupt but its not fair to tell them to stay away from Islam. We arent the ones who judge people, god does. many muslims practice islam and their niyaa isnt good, and many muslims arent pious and have good niyaa. I would do dua for them(ie your brother in law) and guide him in the right way if possible and let allah judge him. Maybe one day he will decide to take up the quran and practice it. I wasnt a practicing muslim until the last 7 years(although alhamdallah i wasnt corrupt just not dedicated)and now i am trying to be, what if someone had told me to stay away from Islam...

We need to be patient with muslims and bring out the good in them, not the worst... 

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 22:05
anonymous

salam and welcome very happy and glad to read this topic ,welldone

may God bless you

By nadt• 17 Mar 2008 22:01
nadt

Maleeka, as you found a way to be comfortable practicing Islam, im sure they will take that step when they are ready  If they have doubts.  You can only guide them, which it seems from your post that you have, but its entirely up to them, they will do it when they are ready. Places like Fanar are a good start, that you can tell them about if they are in Doha, otherwise just let them be and support them when they want it...

By princess habibah• 17 Mar 2008 17:56
princess habibah

lol pray your maghrib eco savvy

 

and I agree about sugar coating.. muslims do this far too often when talking about islam.

 

And it is very sad because were trying to win hearts and minds here based on the truth about Islam.. not some fake belief that never existed!

 

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 17:48
anonymous

Al Hamd LLah for your converting

check that site mey be it will help you

http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/MainPage/indexe.php

or for al Azer Al shareef

http://www.alazhr.com/index.htm

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 17:43
anonymous

 I am will post you one link from Islamonline sugar coated preaching

searching now you dont go away pls . Time for magrieb too 

By sajjadsa• 17 Mar 2008 17:41
sajjadsa

May Allah reward you for your effort. We are indeed of the fortunate who  are able to call ourselves Muslims,  when the end comes InshaAllah may we also go as Muslims.

By princess habibah• 17 Mar 2008 17:39
Rating: 3/5
princess habibah

Actually declaring the shahadah does not mean one is a muslim. Only in the eyes of the law.. but not in the eyes of God! Allahu Alim

 

As for me then I am the worst person to give advice sister. But I would benefit myself by reading good scholarly books and gaining an understanding of Islam. And guiding people who may be interested to scholars and people of knowledge as much as possible.

And of course always try to be pleasant, nice and kind.  I'm just not a very pleasant person and that is why no one loves me on here!  

 

The declaration of faith has 2 pillars.

1.) nafee- negation

2.) ithbaat- affirmation

 

What is meant by negate? Is to reject all divinity and worship of anything other than Allah.  And what is meant by affirmation is to affirm divinity and worship only for Allah.

 

"That is because Allah is the true Deity to be worshiped, and whatever else they invoke besides Him is vain falsehood." (Soorah al-Hajj 22:62)

 

This is far greater than just saying Ilah (or God) because it does not negate divinity and worship to any other God.

 

So the conditions of the Shahada are:

 

1.) Knowledge of its meaning. What it negates and what it affirms. If a person recited it without understanding its meanings then it is like a person who speaks in a language they do not understand!

 

2.) Certainty (al-yaqeen) which means to have complete surety in it which leads to repelling any doubt of suspicion.

 

3.) Exclusively worshiping Allah sincerely (al-ikhlaas).And la Ilaaha illalaah points towards this.

 

4.) Truthfulness (as-sidq) which prevents hypocrisy (nifaaq). Indeed the hypocrites uttered it with their tongues but did not inwardly believe it what it signified.

 

5.) Love (al-mahabbah) for this kalimah and having love and pleasure for whatever it neccessitates. This is also contrary to the state of the hypocrites.

 

6.) Submissive compliance (al-inqiyaad) by fullfilling its rights- which are obligatory actions-- with sincerety to Allah and seeking his good pleasure (this is a requirement).

 

7.) Acceptance (al-qabool), which prevents rejection. This is achieved by acting upon whatever Allah has commanded and abandoning whatever he has prohibited.

 

Scholars have deduced these conditions from those texts of the Book and Sunnah which are pertinant to (understanding ) this great Kalimah; and which explain its rights and restrictions and that it is not merely a word that a person utters.

 

All info taken from the book "The declaration of Faith" by Shaikh Saalih ibn Fawzaan al-Fawzaan.

 

 

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:56
anonymous

 yeah bro but dont forgot the person is Muslim when he declares the shahadah after that his deeds will be accountable so its upto him or her where he takes the next step...so dont bother.

 

but dont get tired to advice and help as much as you can . you know you are getting part of the share.

 

 

 

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Where there is respect and justice...there is peace..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:53
anonymous

ppl hve reasons to revert back, some they do it bcos of bf/gfs as you must have heard it in last khutbah.

one of my relative is such a pain, he thinks just sayin shahadah is enuf. never bothered to learn Quran. I really dont like inviting anyone to Islam unless they are pious ppl. InFACT i tell all the corrupt ppl to stay away from Islam.

 

Maeleka are you New to Doha? 

 

 

 

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:43
anonymous

 and may allah bless u

 

U Cant change ME and dONt EVen TrY

 

By mohaly73• 17 Mar 2008 16:39
Rating: 4/5
mohaly73

you can go to Qatar Islamic Center 

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:31
anonymous

lol me 2 ? 

 

U Cant change ME and dONt EVen TrY

 

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:30
anonymous

 lol I have no idea about that bro.

 

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Where there is respect and justice...there is peace..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:28
anonymous

hay bro i wrote there sallam and some 1 rename it and wrote (u cant)??i cant really understad?

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:24
anonymous

 Mohammedirfan what is it bro?? didnt got that?

 

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Where there is respect and justice...there is peace..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:23
anonymous

 I witnessed 40 new Muslims earlier saying the shahadah in friday in this Islamic Center...it was so emotional we had to hug all of them.

 

They also provide Islamic and Arabic classes for free... and they have counsellors who can help anyone who has questionsa about Islam.

 

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Where there is respect and justice...there is peace..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:22
anonymous

realsom1 help can u tell me who did that

By sky• 17 Mar 2008 16:22
sky

that if someone is really attracted by Islam and want to convert himself / herself to Isalam would find their own way.   If they fail to find their way to get themselves converted, it means they are not dedicated for that change.   Hence please do not worry on that ...

 

There are lot other ways to help people.

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:21
anonymous

hay every 1 i wrote there sallam and some 1 rename and wrote u cant ??ohh what the hell who did that??????????????????????????????

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:20
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

 masha allah welcome sister, yes you can go to Qatar Islamic Center  (Fanar) near the Souqs, with the twisted Manara, they have nice service.

 

and they are all english speaking, check out there.

 

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Where there is respect and justice...there is peace..

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:20
anonymous

sallam  

 

U Cant change ME and dONt EVen TrY

 

By anonymous• 17 Mar 2008 16:20
anonymous

Alhamdulillah, u got in to right way and if u want anything plz call me

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