Wierd Propositions

Tyler
By Tyler

Why is it that beng an American I have not had any issues with excessive unwanted GAY propositions except while in Qatar? 

 These mostly come from non arab non western men, with 2 Aussies being the exception.  These guys are persistent to the point of being utterly disgusting.  One even asked about mutual masturbation. 

 Have any other Western guys had to put up with this or am I just special?  I am starting to become paranoid.

And ladies I now know how you feel and I am deeply sympathetic with the plight you face every day from guys.

By Privateer• 24 Dec 2006 22:04
Privateer

all I can say is that my wife was thrilled we were moving to Qatar (due to the lack of females). Now she is having seconds thoughts (due to the lack of females & abundance of men)

:(

By dweller• 17 Dec 2006 11:50
dweller

Any queers.......off with their nuts..............problem solved!

By honey• 17 Dec 2006 07:43
honey

i have few gay friends, well male one, they are fun and funny, being gay doesnt mean they are bad people, right?

By expatbrat• 17 Dec 2006 04:39
expatbrat

Sat in a bar a couple of weeks ago, getting relatively late into the evening and I am chatting to a female friend of mine. Some middle aged American comes over and introduces himself, so I figure he wants to chat up the girl i'm with. Instead he ignores her and talks to me for five or ten minutes and leaves. Then a few minutes later he comes back and asks me to dance. I'm thinking to myself ... you what? I politely declined and watched my back every time I went to the toilet after that.

Makes you feel uneasy. I couldnt believe it. Been here a long time and nothing like that has happened before.

By Tyler• 6 Dec 2006 14:36
Tyler

Not angry just terribly disgusted by the idea. Perhaps we have now found the resident homo by your assumption of me being homocidal you have taken my dislike of unwanted propositions and misconstrued it as hatred. I have gay friends, friends who do not make unwanted advances nor do they discuss the perverted activities in which they participate.

I don't believe anyone on this forum mentioned killing or even attacking any homosexual. The only comment that was made was towards any UNWANTED advance especially those of a disgusting nature. In that case the comment was made of stopping the unwanted act by force.

This may be a warning to anyone who makes unwanted advances. There is always the chance of a adverse reactions to an unwanted advance. Just any guy who has had a few too many drinks resulting in being slapped in the face by the object of their advances.

By lpd8f• 5 Dec 2006 17:41
lpd8f

yeah, i agree

u seem angry, u wanna kill homosexuals.

By Tyler• 5 Dec 2006 16:02
Rating: 3/5
Tyler

Who cares if you think there is a difference both behaviors in the west, especially in the intolerant conservative South of the US will still call a FAG a FAG and leave it at that, and it doesn't matter what you call them (or yourself) the point of this discussion was that the UNWANTED advances are obnoxious, disgusting, and inappropriate. Just as that of many men towards women.

IF SOMEONE DOES NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO YOU OR FINDS YOU REPULSIVE THEN LETS RESPECT BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS OF LEAVING THEM ALONE

That was the point not wether its blue or lapis, it doesn't matter if what you call it.

By lpd8f• 5 Dec 2006 13:57
Rating: 5/5
lpd8f

i guess there is difference between homos & gays.

not all gays r homos, yet not all homos r gays.

Homosexuals might imitate the behavior of females in a sexual way like loving & desiring men sexually.

Gays might imitate the behaviour of females in the way females dress, talk, & eat, they might have sexual desire toward men.

....

By Tyler• 4 Dec 2006 21:07
Tyler

they do like their circles.....wonder where the roundabout came from.....they can all stand around one and have their fun...at least they won't kill anyone using the rounabout that way, only get hairy palms and disgust many of us, but for the others they are very friendly and open join in the will welcome you with open hands.....

By drake• 4 Dec 2006 20:49
drake

Emmmmm. C'mon Tyler let's please give all the mutual masturbator's a break here.Imagine being a mutual masterbator in this country, probably would be quite a handful...

By lpd8f• 4 Dec 2006 13:21
lpd8f

we all know u not gay,

gay people like hetero, bi & homo guys

people stop talking about that topic

By Tyler• 4 Dec 2006 09:14
Tyler

Not judging anyone but don't force your's or their lifstyle on anyone else. This is just like certain religious groups knocking on doors on Saturday morning at 0800. I am entitled to be annoyed and bothered by unwanted advances, especially indecent ones. You would not have anything to say to a woman who was being harrassed by unwanted, indecent propositions from a man. I would bet you would be the first person to become upset if some guy asked you wife if she wanted to enjoy mutual masturbation. So pleae refrain being so self righteous as you have just come up with a great double standard.

By Charlene• 2 Dec 2006 21:11
Charlene

Emmmmmm. Seems to me that some people are quite insecure. I mean really give the gay people a break. Imagine being gay in this country, that is if you are able for one second to put yourself in someone elses shoes....Grow up, we are all intitled to live as we choose, gay or otherwise!

Oh and before you start blasting me, I am married and straight, however, I manage not to judge those who choose another lifestyle!

By drake• 2 Dec 2006 19:34
Rating: 5/5
drake

Tyler, I think it's time to ask yourself some serious questions. If you can relate to any of the signs below, you might be closet brokeback.

Top Ten Signs You're a Gay Cowboy:

10. "Your saddle and beltbuckle are Versace"

9. "Instead of 'Home On The Range', you sing 'It's Raining Men'"

8. "You enjoy ridin', ropin', and redecoratin'"

7. "Sold your livestock to buy tickets to 'Mamma Mia'"

6. "After watching reruns of 'Gunsmoke', you have to take a cold shower"

5. "Native Americans refer to you as 'Dances With Men'"

4. "You've been lassoed more times than most steers"

3. "You're wearing chaps, yet your 'ranch' is in Doha"

2. "Instead of a saloon you prefer a salon"

1. "You love riding, but you don't have a horse"

By anonymous• 30 Nov 2006 13:13
anonymous

Making jokes about people who suffer from homosexuality & bisexuality might be a great sinful act.

We could thank the Creator that we are heterosexuals.

By Tigasin321• 30 Nov 2006 09:55
Rating: 2/5
Tigasin321

I went there too but graduated in 1987 many years before you. Well as a fighting Gator I am sure you can fend off this unwanted attention without any problem. Good luck

By Tyler• 29 Nov 2006 14:57
Tyler

You would think

By novita77• 29 Nov 2006 11:16
novita77

Your photo no way showing people that you are a gay ... But who knows :P

By Tyler• 29 Nov 2006 08:44
Tyler

The majority of the issues I have had are SMS messages. Figured it out that i was my own dumb mistake. I posted my mobile on here weeks ago when my computer was dying and I could not find an adapter for the power supply. Luckily one user used the number to assist me, now I have had multiple users who spam my phone with this crap. As for the Aussies, I believe that just like any guy who is drunk and obnoxious to a girl, so can the gays be towards guys.

My own dumb fault. As for a photo....try my myspace page

www.myspace.com/tyinfl

This might be just as dumb...but I hope not, I still have faith in humanity.

By anonymous• 29 Nov 2006 03:36
anonymous

Are you enjoying this crazy debates.

By novita77• 28 Nov 2006 22:58
novita77

Tyler ... post your photo please :P

By qd06• 28 Nov 2006 22:49
Rating: 2/5
qd06

Boy I bet someone really wants to give you an ear full. I assuming they are too scared of being outed on this forum :-) huh huh he said queer... You would get your butt kicked in Houston if you made that comment.

Novita our husband must be good. I thought I could to until I moved to Houston.....

Tyler... I think you like the attention :-).

Act your age not your shoe size

By novita77• 28 Nov 2006 21:53
novita77

My husband can tell if a guy is a gay from the way he walk, talk and act :-)

Tyler maybe you should act more 'macho' and 'man-ly' lol :-)

By Tyler• 28 Nov 2006 14:45
Rating: 3/5
Tyler

Now of course we know how the ladies of the world feel when they get around men. Unfortunately I feel that it may be the whole Karma biting us in the arse as men have been this way to women so often, perhaps it is God's way of smiting us. The GAY PLAGUE of DOHA. And from the persistence of some of these queers they are about as hard to get rid of as locusts. Hmmmm- Like horny college guys in a bar coming up to a cute gal...darn karma

By the truth 321• 28 Nov 2006 14:44
the truth 321

I agree there are a lot over here but thank god none have gone that way with me!!

As for murdering one of them, give me a shout would love to help lol

By Henners• 28 Nov 2006 14:38
Rating: 2/5
Henners

It might be frowned upon here but so are most things. I've met more gay men here than I've ever known anywhere else! Lack of anything else to do?

By Tyler• 28 Nov 2006 14:38
Tyler

If I did not already have a high and tight maybe I would have some hair to work with, however most the gals I know hate the short haircut anyhow. As for dress I think a pair of Carharts and the belt buckle would work like they do in the states to say "Not up for salad tossing" or perhaps the snuff in my lip? Nope nothing coming off as gay that I see, just a bunch of repressed sexuality in these guys and they want to get their rocks off without women.

Perhaps if they were allowed around or to see the female anatomy more then they would not be so F***ing annoying. If you see a post of an American in Qatari jail for killing some of these guys it may just be me.

By the truth 321• 28 Nov 2006 14:26
Rating: 4/5
the truth 321

Not actually been propositioned by men over here, blatantly homosexuality is frowned upon here more so than in the west. It is said that GAY men go for something they think is gay, try changing the way you dress or get a really bad haircut.

Not taking the micky at all, and you have my sympathy! Perhaps a good hard kick where it hurts could be the trick!

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