Maybe u could HELP

microsillica
By microsillica

Loving her are enough reason to leave my own family....?//?//coz i feel thaT way right nOW

hElp before is to late.......

By rodgie76• 26 Oct 2009 14:19
rodgie76

Its not worth it to leave your family in replace of this woman....

True, it's only lust not love...............

Think a million times my friend.....after you decide..........think again.....

By fRanCisM• 29 May 2009 00:54
fRanCisM

the love you are feelin' right now is because of your togetherness with your "someone", i've been to that relationship before, my dear friend, and it did a remarkable part in my life, please do not pursue, please. Ms. beautiful & bubbly is right, you are focusing on the missing 10%.

"Sometime in life we are all looking for the missing 10% .. life is never perfect and there's no such thing as 100% .. Most of all, we are far from perfect too !!

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But 
faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have. But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life! 
" taken from an e-mail The Missing 10%

PM me and I'll tell you what happened to my career & family when I entered in that relationship & what blessings I received as I leave that relationship and give more focus on my family.

By FranElizabeth• 29 May 2009 00:44
FranElizabeth

There is never an excuse to leave your kids OR your wife. Everyone can look elsewhere.. just think how you would feel if she did that to you. Find your bollocks and be a proper man. Stick with your family and see it through. What you going to do when the next pretty one comes along and you have failed 2 women?

By shoeaddict• 29 May 2009 00:28
shoeaddict

cutter only?id use a plier to sever it.......

By janei62• 29 May 2009 00:28
janei62

you are not going to get any where in your life.plus the people who are saying be a man realy be a man its not a thing which a real man even think of if he is al ready have a wife.

By Dracula• 29 May 2009 00:26
Dracula

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gimme a cutter!

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By shoeaddict• 29 May 2009 00:18
shoeaddict

he needs castration......lol:)

By Dracula• 29 May 2009 00:16
Dracula

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Idiot!

There is an old-fashioned view which says you should 'stick together for the sake of the children'

I am sorry you (several) feel the way you do, but this is what I mean that people need to spend a great deal of time looking realistically at people and relationships. If you make bad choices up front some of this stuff is not fixable.

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The honest answer is that there may not be a fix to the problems you created.

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By britexpat• 29 May 2009 00:08
britexpat

Be a man. Leave your family!

By Jaryz• 29 May 2009 00:07
Jaryz

specially if you already have kids...

LOVE & LUST is the same 4 letter word that start with L...sad to say men thinks and feel its the same....

i'm sorry to say this but try to ask yourself... which of these two words you really feel....

GO BACK TO YOUR FAMILY WHERE YOU REALLY BELONG... TRY TO think BACK BEFORE when u 1st met your wife... what are the things you see with her that you make her your wife... open your communication with her,if she is not what she is before then ask yourself again WHAT WENT WRONG???

By shoeaddict• 28 May 2009 23:37
shoeaddict

the feeling of leaving people you love for your personal satisfaction?

grow up and smell the industrial strength soap you are usiing right now.

By lionel888• 24 May 2009 08:35
lionel888

Appreciate what you have NOW, your family, you've been with them already and whoever you think you're with now, think ahead, consequences, etc. You're probably in lust, longing and pretty much the same as someone on the rebound. It may be okay to flirt around but hey, think man..use your head not the one down below..

By bubbly1975• 24 May 2009 07:55
bubbly1975

MISERY starts when a person looks at the 10% MISSING and overlooks the 90 % blessing...

the 10% that u might be looking for is distracting you from APPRECIATING what is already yours...

***BUBBLY hugs MICRO***

By microsillica• 24 May 2009 07:47
microsillica

all the advice & opinion i realy appreciated guys

By mariam-mar• 23 May 2009 20:03
mariam-mar

Your reason is not right to leave your family, you love this girl because she is new to you... family is no comparable to anyone new, this girl will not last like your family...don't forget that you married your wife because you liked her if not loved her, if your attitude is to leave your family because of this girl, there will be no end, next time you'll find another lovable girl and so on...be contented with your family, this girl will leave you too if time comes she know you are married or when times come that you are not satisfying her in her needs.Don't ruin your family because of your wrong thoughts....lusts never lasts...

 

 

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."

By SwanLake• 23 May 2009 19:08
SwanLake

Why cant you see your wife in a new light and love her instead?

If you are having problems in your marriage life talk to your wife.If that doesn't work see a counseller.

Get Help!!

Your new found love isn't worth wrecking your marriage life.

By mjamille28• 23 May 2009 19:07
mjamille28

only you can help yourself..

By fan_ni_sarap• 23 May 2009 18:36
fan_ni_sarap

May be its just a lust not love.

By Anne Windsor• 23 May 2009 18:31
Anne Windsor

Ask yourself,what is it that is wrong with your marriage first.Why are you dissatisfied and what is it that you want with this girl that you don't already have?There are so many of us who forget why we got married to our partners in the first place. We all get in a rut from time to time,but it's up to us to put something special back into our relationships. You have to invest before you can reap the rewards.

By starfaith25• 23 May 2009 16:34
starfaith25

never wreck your home over any girl. u have a family, stick with them, sure u can sleep around but think about what could happen if u leave them over a new love... its never worth it... ur affair could only last for a few months, years maybe but what if ur new girl would want to leave u for a new found love in the future???

By anonymous• 23 May 2009 16:33
anonymous

You are not 'free' to fall in love with somebody else. Be a man about it and work on your relationship, don't run away from it.

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God does not believe in Athiests.

By plumkiwi• 23 May 2009 16:14
plumkiwi

"""Loving her are enough reason to leave my own family""

------ no one could help you here . . . only you could help yourself. . .

" In my opinion only. . . nothing personal"

By britexpat• 23 May 2009 16:11
britexpat

OK.. So, should you not be trying to work things out with the family, rather than "loving" someone else ??

By microsillica• 23 May 2009 16:10
microsillica

Yes

By britexpat• 23 May 2009 16:06
britexpat

Are you already married ???

By anonymous• 23 May 2009 16:04
anonymous

stand on what you have promised before sight of GOd..think of it a hundred times..okay

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