Learn to spend some quality time with him. DON'T push hm so much about the marriage issue else he'll think u're desparate. And don't create so many 'conditional items' like ''I'll only spend the night with u if you ......''!
He's not using you.... you both enjoy it...and maybe u get more than he does! It's mutual
In a country like this and for EXPATS like us- the very first thing to do is to find out that if HE/SHE is NOT MARRIED BACK HOME. And from there lets start the ball rolling for that lovely/dovey thing we called LOVE. And for the question: to find out whether the GUY is "serious" with you or not is just like solving a crime- INVESTIGATE. If you just stare on his handsome face and thick wallet, its either youll end up in PRE-NATAL CLINIC or end up singing "CRYING IN THE RAIN".
Ooh, usual problems of women who cannot be married by the Muslim guy because of the tradition. Thats the reality, even if he is already serious with you, take into consideration that love is not enough, nor his sincerity because in the end he must follow the tradition. Thats already his mindset. Its up to you to risk being hurt. Life is short, you may be hurt or not hurt by serious or not serious guys. Get into the mind and the end goal of the guy, hope both ur goals in life will meet.
It’s not about married or about if he is willing to marry you or not ,, is not about if he really miss you or not,, it’s about that deep feeling inside him which sometimes even him cant know that he loves you this much or he doesn’t... so :
make yourself busy and get a bit far from him,, then meet him after a week and see what he will ask you in the first place >> the first thing he will be missing about you ..
see if he will say ( I miss going out with you , I miss talking to you , I miss your laugh, I miss ,,etc etc,, you can’t make sure that he loves you but at least you have hope ,, but you can be sure that he doesn’t love you if he say:
I miss making(Physical Contact)with you . Trust me he will be just a man following his ......... with no love.
yes u are surely right...he is just using me for fun... tnx for the good advice i get here in this site....im happy to hear all your advice and comments...i am new in this site...tnx a lot guyz....
how to know that he is not serious? when he refuses to think concreate about the future and does not want his family to know that he was just playing and not able to carry the responsability for the woman he realy loves.
love is much more than what the people can afford nowdays. ''so better to call it only fun not love ''. ( did you get it?)
that's a tough one.well I guess when he decide to spend the rest of his life with you(marry you) thru bad and good times,without being force.He must do it bcos thats what he wants an not bcos of others.
there is a syrian guy who is my suitors now...i go for a date like dinner at the restaurant...he is so nice and sweet....but he told me cannot marry me bcz of his family tradition...like he is not allowed to marry other nationality bcz his father wants him to marry his cousin?
and also he told me that he really like me and love me but only here in doha while we are here and he dont like to talked about future....it means he not serious with em right?
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Learn to spend some quality time with him. DON'T push hm so much about the marriage issue else he'll think u're desparate. And don't create so many 'conditional items' like ''I'll only spend the night with u if you ......''!
He's not using you.... you both enjoy it...and maybe u get more than he does! It's mutual
In a country like this and for EXPATS like us- the very first thing to do is to find out that if HE/SHE is NOT MARRIED BACK HOME. And from there lets start the ball rolling for that lovely/dovey thing we called LOVE. And for the question: to find out whether the GUY is "serious" with you or not is just like solving a crime- INVESTIGATE. If you just stare on his handsome face and thick wallet, its either youll end up in PRE-NATAL CLINIC or end up singing "CRYING IN THE RAIN".
Ooh, usual problems of women who cannot be married by the Muslim guy because of the tradition. Thats the reality, even if he is already serious with you, take into consideration that love is not enough, nor his sincerity because in the end he must follow the tradition. Thats already his mindset. Its up to you to risk being hurt. Life is short, you may be hurt or not hurt by serious or not serious guys. Get into the mind and the end goal of the guy, hope both ur goals in life will meet.
I can tell you one thing about that ,,,
It’s not about married or about if he is willing to marry you or not ,, is not about if he really miss you or not,, it’s about that deep feeling inside him which sometimes even him cant know that he loves you this much or he doesn’t... so :
make yourself busy and get a bit far from him,, then meet him after a week and see what he will ask you in the first place >> the first thing he will be missing about you ..
see if he will say ( I miss going out with you , I miss talking to you , I miss your laugh, I miss ,,etc etc,, you can’t make sure that he loves you but at least you have hope ,, but you can be sure that he doesn’t love you if he say:
I miss making(Physical Contact)with you . Trust me he will be just a man following his ......... with no love.
better to forget him, look for somebody who can fight for ur love.
u ll never know untill u both get married and live for at least 2 years ...
yes u are surely right...he is just using me for fun... tnx for the good advice i get here in this site....im happy to hear all your advice and comments...i am new in this site...tnx a lot guyz....
tess_916 is right
I agree with her
Good Luck
If only life was so easy
how to know that he is not serious? when he refuses to think concreate about the future and does not want his family to know that he was just playing and not able to carry the responsability for the woman he realy loves.
love is much more than what the people can afford nowdays. ''so better to call it only fun not love ''. ( did you get it?)
that's a tough one.well I guess when he decide to spend the rest of his life with you(marry you) thru bad and good times,without being force.He must do it bcos thats what he wants an not bcos of others.
How to know if a guy is serious about you?
1.) When he introduces you to his family.
2.) When he pampers you not only with gifts but with so much attention.
3.) When he talks about the future with you.
and lastly...
WHen he proposes marriage. (but it will come much later!)
there is a syrian guy who is my suitors now...i go for a date like dinner at the restaurant...he is so nice and sweet....but he told me cannot marry me bcz of his family tradition...like he is not allowed to marry other nationality bcz his father wants him to marry his cousin?
and also he told me that he really like me and love me but only here in doha while we are here and he dont like to talked about future....it means he not serious with em right?
exactly
tell him : lets married officially
lol
we he is ready to sacrify and doing effort to win you, not just speak about love.
once you stop being an attention wh0re