maid cuts off employers genital

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By dahsuon

A 35-year-old Bangladeshi maid working in Dubai cut off her 70-year-old employer’s genitals after she was sexually harassed by him, police said.The maid told police she was sick of being sexually harassed by her employer. He had asked for a massage and had begun harassing her. She said she became angry and took a knife and attacked him.

By Debs_uae• 4 Feb 2013 15:55
Debs_uae

It's obvious that taking justice into your own hands will not solve anything, in fact it creates even more than what a person needs,especially in this maids situation. She had choices and didn't use the right one, now she will suffer more than if she had ran away. NO, none of us are in her shoes, including you and this is not a debate, it's opinions, because none of us know the true facts of what and why. Debates are destructive as they present one-sided opinions. If people took the law into their own hands then anarchy would rule, I for one would not want that. The middle East is notorious for covering up things that makes the country look bad. Her contract would have ended eventually,she could then get out, or she could have fled as so many maids do, if they are abused. I'm just saying that she took it upon herself to get revenge and because of this, it could very well be that she will experience more abuse where she is now while waiting her sentence to be handed down to her for this crime. Two wrongs will never make a right.

By BlueBull• 31 Jan 2013 19:41
BlueBull

Maids should not be allowed to cut genitals and take law into their own hands.

By spybot• 31 Jan 2013 19:21
spybot

Barbaric or not...she reached the last straw tht broke the camels back and she reacted in tht way...the thing here is u not in her shoes, y take her chances in the jails and yet she could have been innocent...Yes I know life is made out of choices and she chose to do wht she did.....o so she must endure the alleged abuse....the alleged sexual harassment nd maybe one day some1 will believe her and this all for money...come on now.....

O O O and just so btw I will comment, how i feel fit too and after all tht is wht debating is abt....

By Debs_uae• 31 Jan 2013 19:04
Debs_uae

Do you think that even I as an American have had it so easy in this country Spybot? To answer that is NO, but I was well aware of the difference between my country and here before venturing to this country. Abuse does happen, I never said it didn't,however there are alternatives other than dismembering another person. If I were in her shoes, I would be smart enough to go out the door and take my chances in jail (if they didn't believe her), rather than to allow any further abuse to me. If this is a true story, the employer was wrong, but her action was barbaric and how will she send money home now and have a future? what good came from her action, please tell all of us Spybot. I didn't say go to any human rites organization, I said she could have gone to her embassy. I suggest you read my comment again and allow it to sink in before you make any comment like this one again to me.

By spybot• 29 Jan 2013 07:16
spybot

Debs u sure u American....cause a country where ppl preach democracy and equal rites...and something like this had to happen there, ppl will rally for her freedom....don't give me the story of this is the GCC nd no human rites is something we have to accept...tht is a load of hog...so is it but just a tactic tht they have human rites organizations in the GCC as u so put it....u saying they doing this to satisfy the rest of the world?????by saying we playing fair, but not to certain ppl....close ur eyes and put urself in her shoes and c how u wud like to b raped or even abused repeatedly (yes I understand 1 side of the story)...r u so blinded...by wht i wonder

By Debs_uae• 29 Jan 2013 06:28
Debs_uae

I doubt she was caged liked an animal and regarding having rights the way we are used too, it doesn't happen for any expat in the Gulf, this is something we have to accept or not go abroad. I know it's not always fair,but as a human being, she had no right to do that,and in fact she would not get away with that in any other country either. She could have ran to her Embassy, they have many maids hiding out there. WE don't know the whole truth about this, only the maids side. Her actions will not solve any thing now, she will be put to death, wouldn't it have been better to run away and take the chance of deportation back to her country?

By spybot• 28 Jan 2013 17:02
spybot

lets put u in the position Bahrain...of being deprived of local rites and being caged like an animal and u were sexually abused by ur employer....and c wht song u will sing then...

By spybot• 28 Jan 2013 16:58
spybot

Linc... it is true....lol

http://www.emirates247.com/news/emirates/housemaid-cuts-off-sponsor-s-private-part-2011-09-08-1.417487

Now there is a lady with courage ...wtg

By Debs_uae• 28 Jan 2013 16:17
Debs_uae

He was 70 years of age,would can function? Well she did not have to do the extreme. Because of a older dirty birdie, she will pay with her life. She claimed she was tired of it..well, then she had plenty of time to stop employment and /or put in a complaint since it was not the first time.. How would she like it if someone cut of her hand because they didn't like the way she cleaned? Could she have been on the employers medication? You would think that they would limit a maids contact with older men employers to only with massages when supervision by family member/wife or other. I don't think we can round this off as a nationality thing, any nationality can be this stupid, if they choose too!

By britexpat• 28 Jan 2013 16:12
britexpat

Mods: Why torment us with sweet and heady memories of TheLucyShow :O(

By ninja_assasin• 28 Jan 2013 16:09
ninja_assasin

Good for the Old Pervert!

By geeldoon• 28 Jan 2013 15:43
geeldoon

i can it be fixed by a good doctor?

By alisshahid• 28 Jan 2013 14:32
alisshahid

i think its a good step she protect herself

By BahrainSalsa• 28 Jan 2013 13:17
BahrainSalsa

Yea the man got what he deserved, .. now imagine this ,... you have kids ,.. that maid is taking care of them for the night ,... they piss her off ,.. ok maybe she wont cut there balls off,.. but imagine whhat she might do ?? SLAP them ,.. kick them ,... abuse them verbally ,.. the point is SHE COULD OF SIMPLY filed a complaint to the police or family memeber ,... the vilolence thing specially with ghe BALLS ,... sorry i dont agree what so ever to any women OR MAN physically attacking the other ,... unless its in bed ( with mutual understanding,... ; ) ///

So girls who said " GOod JOB " I DO NOT AGREEE ,... now show me dat junk

By wish_well• 16 Apr 2011 17:54
wish_well

Wow...you need to be really courageous to do that. And on this occassion bangladeshi females have also proved that they are as angry as the bangladeshi mens. By the way where are those genitals? are they kpet in museum?

By Acadian• 15 Apr 2011 07:00
Acadian

A pre requisite of every maid and house help working in the Middle East should have the skills and the courage of this maid. Abuse problems have been going on for too long with little or no action from the authorities. How many employers are held to account for the abuses they inflict on these poor women?

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 21:28
anonymous

..and now they will blame the poor maid for beating and abusing the old man. Dubai seems to be a funny place where strange things happen and besides the other earlier tales of maids jumping out of buildings and perfectly fit guys of 39 dying of natural causes

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 10:57
anonymous

never thought woman can be cruel enough to start cutting balls :(

By qatar_01• 14 Apr 2011 10:33
qatar_01

If it is true.... i would say Welldone =))

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 10:16
_noms_

more chances Ethopian will do it!

By pereiraqatar• 14 Apr 2011 09:45
pereiraqatar

I read on Al-Quods al-Arabi from London which says Ethopian house-maid cut-off her employer's genital and her employer from Gulf state,so which news is true?

By Uranus1• 14 Apr 2011 09:44
Uranus1

Maybe she was EXPECTING AMAZING from this guy and could not contain her disappointment.

By stallionjr• 14 Apr 2011 09:44
stallionjr

Once there was the bobbit incident and now the Chopit ... well done maid !!

Wanting sex at 70 aint wrong at all if u get it using fair means ...

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:42
Rizks

MODS will fulfill ur wish santabanta....:)

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:41
anonymous

Well done by the maid.

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:41
anonymous

he is asking for it to do it with u..

By ratheesh83• 14 Apr 2011 09:41
ratheesh83

..

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:40
anonymous

santabanta feels like doing it with u...simple..

By slman• 14 Apr 2011 09:36
slman

who should be punished?

The old man who made the situation?

Or did the maid behavior made the old man to do this?

Or the maid who cut due to bad behavior of the old man?

The behavior of the maid should be checked first...,

If the appearance, behavior bad, then it should be handle with other members of house why letting her to be like that, Then...

What ever it is if the OLD MAN had done some thing wrong, He should be punished, and the maid should be released with proper respect.

When all these employers are making there women and girls to wear Abaya n niqab, they should do it to there maids too. Where the maid is a main non mahar (Not permissible in Islam to look by males)to that house males.

AND MUSLIMS IN GULF AND OTHER PLACES SHOULD REMEMBER....

MAIDS, SERVENTS & EMPLOYEES ARE NOT UR SLAVES. THEY ARE DOING A JOB FOR A SALARY. U ALL NOT PAYING THEM FOR NOTHING TO TREAT UNHUMANLY....

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 09:36
happygolucky

Some people and their thought process is just amazing...

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 09:35
seantrump

LuLi. ah now it explains why you are so talented. i said "Lilli, what is a wEl, da, becareful?my english is kinda old fashioned.been tryin to search meanind of the words but can't"

and you replied "seaNtruMp da sAme pLace wHere U wiL fiNd dA meAning 0f siiigghh..:P"

ROFLOL.

you musta failed school terribly.

By metaphor• 14 Apr 2011 09:34
metaphor

I wish all the maids are tough like her.

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:33
anonymous

let me try my hands on writing a super x novel...Like Jilly Cooper or something else...I think i m pretyt good now on these things..wild wild imaginations..this topic is going be like that men underwear with filling in it post.....heeee heee..I still remember people suggesting keeping potatoes in the underwears...lol...

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 09:33
_noms_

TLS: you qualify to enter my Scriptwriting Workshop! :D

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:31
Rizks

Wow Lucy wat a wild thought ! :(

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:29
anonymous

I think he was lying on big stone or metal dining table near to the kitchen..He felt like having it there only..He must have seen maid working in kitchen from back side.He felt like having it and lied down on the dining table and than the maid felt furious and grabed a knife from the kitchen top and chopped it like a soft vegetable like rotten tomatoe....eewwwwwwwwwwwww

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:24
Rizks

and why was she crying out Loud ? :(

By Lili.Rochefort• 14 Apr 2011 09:23
Lili.Rochefort

rIzks u dUmbo sHe iS a d0mEstic w0rKer f0r cRyin 0ut l0ud.

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:21
Rizks

now where the hill did she find a Knife ? :(

Was she giving massage in a butchery shop ? :(

By Lili.Rochefort• 14 Apr 2011 09:21
Lili.Rochefort

seaNtruMp da sAme pLace wHere U wiL fiNd dA meAning 0f siiigghh..:P

By Lili.Rochefort• 14 Apr 2011 09:19
Lili.Rochefort

RiZks, reAd agaIn iT cLeary sTates a kNife!

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 09:19
seantrump

well my dear Tinkerbell ..siiigghhh

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:17
Rizks

Question : Which tool did the Maid use to cut it ?

a) Knife

b) Fork

c) Spoon

d) Hammer

e) Saw

f) Laser Gadgets

g) Fingers...OR

h) Nails

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 09:16
_noms_

TLS: eeeewwwww... keep it with the girls & bi gays!! :P

I can't even think about it!!! yyuuucckk!!

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:14
anonymous

I m just thinking of maid holding a loose and soft polythin type of thing and cutting it...eeeewwww..oowaaaaaaa

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 09:14
_noms_

Rizks.... & this happens when you eat Forbitten Foods!

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 09:13
seantrump

Lilli, what is a wEl, da, becareful?my english is kinda old fashioned.been tryin to search meanind of the words but can't

By Lili.Rochefort• 14 Apr 2011 09:10
Lili.Rochefort

c0Z uR 0ld?

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:09
Rizks

Lilli why should i bee care fool for ? :(

I dont have any Maid....:(

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 09:08
seantrump

Tinkerbell, feelin sorry for the poor lady/ladies.many a times life ain't fair at all.well a lot could be said, but would go in vain.so better not say and conserve energy.

By Lili.Rochefort• 14 Apr 2011 09:08
Lili.Rochefort

wEl d0ne t0 dA mAid, RiZks beCareful

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 09:05
Rizks

noms when a person is hungry and if food is kept in front of him, he will obviously eat at TAT momemnt....not go to a Hotel and order for a food and wait for 10-15mins to get the order....:(

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 09:03
_noms_

If this old perv can afford a maid,,,he couldv afford a ticket to Bangkok! he couldv got plenty of massages anywhere he likes! Wrong catch!

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 09:00
anonymous

is he supposed to play Marbles :-?

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 09:00
_noms_

oh,,so u'ver referring to the post chopping situation!! aha! then, its not damaged,,,,he Dosen't HAVE IT anymore! ;)

Question is,,,did the maid put the chopped piece in her Purse?!

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:56
Milky_BarKid

noms_ accordiny to the above op it is clear that his tools got damaged in the act!

"A 35-year-old Bangladeshi maid working in Dubai cut off her 70-year-old employer’s genitals after she was sexually harassed by him, police said"

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:55
anonymous

that hurts!

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 08:54
seantrump

Tinkerbell well, guess there is a new requirement for looking for maid advert.P.S. "One that do not chop of members after a massage".

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:52
Rizks

other important parts of the body get wrickled too ? :(

Tats new to my ears.

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 08:51
_noms_

Milky,,how you know this old employer has damaged tools ? :P :P :D

...& yeh,our Britexpat is busy fetching a good soothing cream to take along during the upcoming WWE...he's expecting the buxom women :D

Britexpat himself declared it ;)

http://qatarliving.com/node/1752993

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:49
anonymous

what a brave maid...!

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:45
Milky_BarKid

tinkerbell yes and it has to be white chocolate, coz dark black chocolate has great calming effect!

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:43
Milky_BarKid

noms_ you forgot to mention the Old wrinky man on QL our very own Mr Briexpat, even though he might be young at heart but his wrinkles are a crowd puller at the Ramada parking lot!

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:41
Milky_BarKid

Ok lets get back on track.

The thread is about a dirty old man trying to get her maid to indecent acts with him.

If he wants a younger women I am can get one. But saying that after the damaged tools which woman would want him. Maybe a fairy can only fix him! Tinkerbell do you have any pixie dust to fix his tool?

By _noms_• 14 Apr 2011 08:41
_noms_

I see lots of comments on sex at 70! I don't think there is any retirement age until you CAN DO IT... the best examples are Hugh Hefner,,Silvio berlusconi :D

By britexpat• 14 Apr 2011 08:34
britexpat

I hope that my Cuban Shotputter does not hear you say that. Further more, I hope that one day you will find love (Like Hugh Hefner) in the arms of an older man and realise that the wrinkles are only skin deep .. :o)

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 08:32
happygolucky

Kareena... reel life and real life are very different...try to get out and face the real world sometimes to get a feel of it .. idiot box isnt the true reflection of the real world....

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:32
Milky_BarKid

Kareena74, lol.

Now imagine Smantha and this poor old maids sitution. There are only two options, either you do a runner like Samantha or you stand your ground and teach the old pervert a lesson! I hope this maid becomes a symbol for other abused domestic workers in gulf!

By Kareena74• 14 Apr 2011 08:31
Kareena74

I am not saying wrinkly old men should not have sex... Ofcourse they can and they should.. But with only with wrinkly old women..

By Kareena74• 14 Apr 2011 08:30
Kareena74

He had a facelift to hide his wrinkles on HIS FACE but what about rest of his body and other important parts.. What about the wrinkles on those parts?

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 08:30
happygolucky

Rizks...I had Ratan Tata in mind when talking of 70+ years guys who he can put to shame many a teenagers at his age and he is touching 75 now....:)

By Kareena74• 14 Apr 2011 08:29
Kareena74

Well he was definitely a wrinkly old man.. I remember an episode from Sex and the City in which Samanth has an affair with an old man in his seventies.. The moment she sees him naked, she runs away..

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:28
Rizks

agree with Happy....

for example take our britexpat, at the age of 70 he is still a handsome man....:)

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:27
Milky_BarKid

Happygolucky. I hope I will stay handsome too at the age of 70. O yes the OP forgot to mention he was handsome man who just had a face lift to hide his wrinkles..:)

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:26
Milky_BarKid

LincolnPirate now that could have been possible giving his age! one word for the old man. Pervert!

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 08:25
happygolucky

No where it says that he was a wrinkly old man.... thats a presumption...may be he was a handsome guy...

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:24
Milky_BarKid

wrinkly old men should be seeking pleasure at the many paid locations across the UAE rather than trying it on with their domestic workers?

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:24
anonymous

She had no choice. If she'd given him the massage he would probably have died of a heart attack, and then she would have been charged for cold blooded murder!

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:23
Rizks

Maid had balls ? eh ? :(

Than how come its harassing ?

Isnt it called something else ?

By Speedysid• 14 Apr 2011 08:23
Speedysid

Just wondering, if U had an option to date someone at the age of 70.. would it be that era's Ranbir Kapoor or AK Hangal??

By britexpat• 14 Apr 2011 08:21
britexpat

I must take exception to your remarks, forthwith and even fifthwith..

Even , we "wrinkly old men" need loving ...

By Uranus1• 14 Apr 2011 08:21
Uranus1

She should deny the whole thing and claim that he "slipped and fell". Isn't that what abusive sponsors routinely do when questioned about their dead maids?

I hope a local charity helps her out if she has to pay blood money.

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:21
Milky_BarKid

The paper states

A police source, who asked not be identified, said the fact that the woman did not attempt to escape gave an indication of the credibility of her claims.

So the moral of the above story is that when you do something like this do not run try to escape!

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:19
Rizks

RofL LP !

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:19
Rizks

unless the law doesnt have a proof ? :(

Was the genital in her hand when the cops came ?

Was she filmed, while slashing his genital ?

Unless proved, she is a free bird...:)

By Kareena74• 14 Apr 2011 08:17
Kareena74

Yuck.. Imagine a wrinkly old man wanting to have S with a young woman.. The idea itself is so repulsive.. Why can't he go and try to have it with someone his age..

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:17
anonymous

The best part of this thread is that it was posted in "Other work related issues." Anybody has similar work related issues?

By britexpat• 14 Apr 2011 08:17
britexpat

http://www.thenational.ae/news/uae-news/maid-cuts-off-employers-penis-after-being-sexually-harrassed

By FathimaH• 14 Apr 2011 08:16
FathimaH

Guess the o'l man will not be needing anymore massages now! Seriously what a perv..However its sad the maid had to take such a drastic step..will the law view this as self defense?

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:15
Rizks

but seriously - how did the maid got hold of his genital ? Was she massaging it ? :( OR she was massaging his body ? :(

Preety strange ?

By Arien• 14 Apr 2011 08:13
Arien

Accolades!!

By seantrump• 14 Apr 2011 08:12
seantrump

next day news add "cocker spaniel needed for lost item"

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:11
Rizks

at the age of 70, one can only have diabeties pills/Cadio pills etc. etc. ...:(

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 08:11
happygolucky

Whats about age, limits, viagara etc etc... if I can get it through fair means I dont think I have to think of all those things... some people just need to get real...duh!!!

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:11
Milky_BarKid

So according to the Lucy Show the problems is with Viagra! If the man did not take viagra he will not be so hyper?

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:10
Milky_BarKid

Kareena74, The question is that will he able to do anything at his age anyway, unless he is high on the blue pills?

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:10
Rizks

Speed can i have the maid's address, i bet u were here victim too....:)

By Uranus1• 14 Apr 2011 08:09
Uranus1

I wonder if a local charity will assist her.

By britexpat• 14 Apr 2011 08:09
britexpat

Well done that woman.....

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:09
anonymous

Game set and match b-)

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:09
anonymous

There are persons who eat viagra and feels like doing it all the time...they dont care about their age and limits..Good job done by a maid...

By happygolucky• 14 Apr 2011 08:08
happygolucky

What is wrong with men wanting sex at 70 if can get it the right way...

By SPEED• 14 Apr 2011 08:08
SPEED

go to the maid, she will show you how she did ;-)

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:04
anonymous

Some people have dirty minds, Rizks.

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:03
Rizks

i think he asked for Massage at the age of 70 not Sex....:(

By Kareena74• 14 Apr 2011 08:02
Kareena74

When will men accept their age and retire gracefully.. HE wants sex at 70.. Crazy man and Clever maid

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:02
anonymous

I dont want to appoint a Maid

she removed a "High Valuable" Iteam

By anonymous• 14 Apr 2011 08:01
anonymous

Cool, if true.

By Milky_BarKid• 14 Apr 2011 08:01
Milky_BarKid

ok warning to all Employers, Do not I say do not hire a Bangladeshi maid, stick to the Filipinos, Indonesians, Ethopian and Sri Lankan maids.

On a serious note I guess he deserved what he got!

By Rizks• 14 Apr 2011 08:00
Rizks

source ?

By nomad_08• 14 Apr 2011 07:59
nomad_08

Ouch!

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