Why Shall we get hurt to learn ???

majedhas
By majedhas

In summary ... I want to ask if i am wrong or not to leave my GF .. I asked her not to go with stupid friends also her boss ( no need to mention his F*** nationality ). But she accept his invitation once to his home , and it was the disaster . He tried to court her and ask making love . I dunno wat happen exactly after , but all wat i know i picked her up and know the story after 2 days .
Am i wrong to leave her ???

By flor1212• 17 Aug 2010 20:23
flor1212

Give her the benefit of the doubt! Look for signs. If that tummy remains flat, then it should not bother you. But if she start getting bigger, then that should not also worry you, because you alreadt LEFT her!

By gtim• 17 Aug 2010 20:20
gtim

She come to her boss house? If she is alone then, it's a big question...

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 20:10
anonymous

I guess dey got bored of pens and pencils in d office. Wanted sum thin extra ordinary

By rEzyz• 17 Aug 2010 20:08
rEzyz

make her his pa than secretary, you meant to say... thats not the way, either he offered to drop her at home or invited her to have lunch at his home stating that he is staying with the family...

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 19:57
anonymous

Guys u made her gf a prostitute ? Aw so bad. U know dude, a girl won't do anything until she her self wants to. I'm sure d boss wud hav given her an offer to make her his personal secretary Dan just secretary :p jokes apart , wen I was in 8th grade v had a lesson. D chapters name was NEVER TRUST A LADY. U get me?

By flor1212• 17 Aug 2010 19:47
flor1212

you mean threesome? Lol!

By flanostu• 17 Aug 2010 19:47
flanostu

mention his nationality, then i'll give you an answer.

By rEzyz• 17 Aug 2010 19:46
rEzyz

yeh, leave her for others... :)

By nite_rider• 17 Aug 2010 19:43
nite_rider

so ur the boss ...lol

By britexpat• 17 Aug 2010 19:36
britexpat

She obviously had wild s3x with him, so you should leave her..

By nite_rider• 17 Aug 2010 19:34
nite_rider

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By flor1212• 17 Aug 2010 19:22
flor1212

now whether that is right or wrong, you'll know in a couple of days or weeks. If you're at peace, then it's okay, but if it bothers you, then it's wrong! Simple!

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 19:15
anonymous

If indeed she has other relationship and she confirmed it to you, cut and cut it short (your relationship)and have peace of mind....

It is very easy to forgive and hard to forget but you should not prolong your agony and pain ...don't play martyr..

By avvid• 17 Aug 2010 19:02
avvid

So you better leave her. The incident happened once. Ask her to change jobs, and see the response. If she doesn't want, then leave her, bços you will always be No.2 to the boss.

By shapil• 17 Aug 2010 18:52
shapil

You were wrong to be with her in the first place...but do give her a chance to explain since you are not sure of what exactly happened and maybe a second chance to mend her ways.

By Dracula• 17 Aug 2010 18:24
Dracula

Leave her now!

Before being a proud father of a son with blue eyes and yellow hair! :)

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 18:22
anonymous

IF she went to his house...then its obvious they wanted something more comfortable ...than the office desk & the crappy office chair...

By drmana• 17 Aug 2010 18:05
drmana

Was she molested? If so, she needs you more than anyone at the moment. Get all the facts straight before making any decision. She may have ignored your suggestion but she must be regretting it more than anyone else. Even if you decide to leave, make it mutual by talking with her.

By Visper• 17 Aug 2010 18:03
Visper

Duh.. Again, our opinion don't matter.. It's always your decision.

By Nishadan• 17 Aug 2010 18:02
Nishadan

What an amzing statistics. Wow...

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 17:58
anonymous

actually, it depends how much you love her..if you really love her and want to be with her..just dont dig into the incident much...let her tell you about it later at her will and i am sure, she wont lie to you...

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 17:57
anonymous

Leave her. Every seventh person you meet is a woman in Qatar.

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 17:45
anonymous

Depends how much you trust her

By ruby29• 17 Aug 2010 17:44
ruby29

guys have a little faith you don't know the whole story. perhaps she doesn't want to mention the whole episode coz nothing happened and she doesn't want any trouble since its about the boss very tricky situation. its normal to socialize outside your relationship give her some room. don't be so quick to judge and blow things out of proportion. you know her better than all of us give her another chance.

By bubblymom• 17 Aug 2010 17:44
bubblymom

talk and settle things with yourselves. if you can't bear such matters and she is not trustworthy enough, you should make a decision then.

By Khawaga• 17 Aug 2010 17:37
Khawaga

If you don't trust her, the two of you are better off being apart.

By baldrick2dogs• 17 Aug 2010 17:36
baldrick2dogs

Yeah, leave her.

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2010 17:32
anonymous

she will leave u somehom....even if ur not leave her ..................

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