Why the look at fat man

Why people around look diifrantlly to the fat guy or fat womn
i am fat people like me to be there friend (boys and girls) cause of a lot of things they found in me , but when i want to have a girl friend the look will always be diffrant
people now looks at the shape how u looks and how u dress even how sexy she is or charming
is that true
that wht i see every day
Someone who is obese(fat) is basicaly harming your own body slowly. To me, it seems like you are not taking care of yourself. Your not being smart about healthy living and living life longer that you should be. Anything over 30% body fat is harmful and over 60% your killing yourself faster.
Looking fat/skinny is basically the "cover of the book" or "first impression" we percieve in our society. Blame the media. But I'm sure you have a great heart & personality that people yet to see because of your looks.
Get in shape for yourself, not for others. Good luck
africana it is the way you wrote your first comment that was harsh i know now what you meant but maybe some people are reading only the begining of the forum that is why there are upset
@ azamat :
it would be Alexander the great if u were Diogene!
I look to see who's blocking my sunshine.
sorry dude, im already engaged...to myself! LOL.
fighting in forum is pointless! we're here to share our ideas and not to criticize others' so u guyz u better end the argument;)
engr-saeed87 ,thank you ! u have a positive thinking
dont critisize anybody we r here just
to share ideas,information and knowledge rather then blandering
i know Arab history very well. i know who are really Arabs and who are not. try to find ur roots!
I'm talking to responsible people not u!
don't insult Qatari people please.
u can get fat people everywhere..why talking about Qataris? No fat people in Lebanon?
LoL don't push ur noisy nose in Arabs business
I am not insulting Qataries , they are the best
and you are the worst in Here
Go Get a LIFE away from the jungle u used to be in !
Africana is a weird human being, maybe coming from Jungles of Guenia? lol
Anyway, listen man, half of Qatari people are fat and though, they are married and making outside relations ;)
Just have a faith
and during that time, go make some diet..eat fruit and vegetables..get away from Cola - Bread - Rice - chocolate and Chips
Regards
just wait and see
Some people have very shallow approach...
What is the proposal?
i want to propose u for him!
from my point of view its not the physical appearance that is important what matter most is your whole personality the totality of being you...how you deal with people...how u treat them...for me its better to have a good heart...being fat its only physical but people will love you with your attitude...i think its unfair to judge a person for being fat...u have to know him or her well before u can say that he or she is a good person inside out...being fat there is so many solution to loose weight but being a bad person i think its hard to change...so love yourself then everything will follow everybody will love u in return...a fat or a sexy lady will like you if ur sincere honest and faithfull with all your actions...so smile...theres nothing impossible to a person with a strong determination so if your willing to start and change your life and add more bonuses on your good personality just give yourself a break as long as your happy with your life and your not hurting other people who cares stop worrying about what people might say or think about u just be yourself...
from my point of view its not the physical appearance that is important what matter most is your whole personality the totality of being you...how you deal with people...how u treat them...for me its better to have a good heart...being fat its only physical but people will love you with your attitude...i think its unfair to judge a person for being fat...u have to know him or her well before u can say that he or she is a good person inside out...being fat there is so many solution to loose weight but being a bad person i think its hard to change...so love yourself then everything will follow everybody will love u in return...a fat or a sexy lady will like you if ur sincere honest and faithfull with all your actions...so smile...theres nothing impossible to a person with a strong determination so if your willing to start and change your life and add more bonuses on your good personality just give yourself a break as long as your happy with your life and your not hurting other people who cares stop worrying about what people might say or think about u just be yourself...
me i never looked at the shape. i grew up with my aunts who suffer obesity so i know how it feels.
many of my friends even observed that im very close to fat people...i feel comfortable with them!
people nowadays are only after the looks but don't feel bad about urself. not because ur fat, ur not beautiful! u can be beautiful on ur own way like by having confidence that can attract others. no one will ever look at u in a way u want them to if u urself doesn't believe that ur good looking.
feel good about urself! at least ur body is complete and u have no defect...that's still something to thank for! someday u'll find someone who will look at u more than ur looks;)
Forget about having a love life, social circle or whatever,these may very well be superficial and temporally regardless of how you look. Being overweight carries far more life threatening risks. You might find a woman who will love you for what you are but that doesn't mean what you are doing is right for YOU. Losing weight is important when you are obviously overweight. Do it for yourself and so you will,Inshallah, avoid many health issues and becoming dependent on others. And yes it will perhaps change your whole life for the better.
PS:Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder..anytime!
if ur a girl....inbox me i dont care what ur size is :p
One woman's fat is another woman's cuddly :O)
They are normal people of course but their bodies are not normal. when u dont feel comfortable with ur body or weight ..ur body becomes abnormal but u are normal as a person.
adnan sami went through a surgery to remove all that fat..
eat healthy, exercise regularly and enjoy everything in life :)
sorry for the repetition
africana ???you may consider a fat lady if you cannot get a normal one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! are fat ladies not normal ones( i am not fat by the way but do not like what you said because i think a big percentage of woman around the world are fat so do you think they are not normal???
africana ???you may consider a fat lady if you cannot get a normal one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! are fat ladies not normal ones( i am not fat by the way but do not like what you said because i think a big percentage of woman around the world are fat so do you think they are not normal???
If you like shopping and then your luck might change!
There are alot of women out there who will be more happy to have u . But u just need to be more strong and have self confidence in yourself . our problem is always about the way we think and see ourselves. if u need any help ,let me know!
tthank you all for the answers, but it is not about me being fat, it is about the look i dont think that every man looks like Tom Cruise or every woman looks like kim kardashian , it is the general view to another man ,woman how we fast judge them
Yeah that's good :)
Follow Adnan Sami's diet agenda :D
what a decent way to talk!
If he wants one from his homeland ,then he must go back. He shouldnt be sitting in qatar here and complaining .No many girls from his country in qatar here as they are plenty of ladies from your country here. Dont be his lawyer because he didnt ask u to be!
no not that much
Ruby you have to look at them through a concave mirror!
Man, Why don't you go for a weight loss program and make yourself desirable. Many have done this for with exactly the same aim than anything else.Take inspiration from this man called Adnan Sami. within two years or so, he transformed his stubborn fat deposits into what he his today (right)[[wysiwyg_imageupload:5999:]]
all of the above comments are so funny .....
if you look like one of the The Biggest Loser,then it will be hard for you to find a GF. very few women are attractive to fat men but i find them cute like a huggable stuffed toys.... :)
looks like you have an obesity issue.
africana , I don't think a foreign language matters to get a soul mate...and he is not asking an English lady to be his friend.
You should look for a fat GF.
look for ur level. improve ur english and be urself. u may want to consider fat lady also if u cant get normal one
I suppose if a person is Fat he should be proud of himself or herself......
not precisly , it depends on the person, the one looking at u ,they say , WHEN U FALL IN LOVE WITH DONKEY THEN WHTS AN ANGEL WOTH OF?
Because they cant play the ball well!But if ur pocket is full, u will get one soon.
Because fat men are not attractive!!!