Who Pays for the Date?
You're on a dinner date with a woman. The check arrives. Who pays?
Do you (the man) always pay?
Do you split it?
Does the person who initiated the date pay?
Does it depend on how long you've been dating?
Does it depend on how well the date has gone?
Does it depend on other factors?
Does it really matter?
Depending on the following factors, it will decided who pays the bill.
If she is a student or unemployed the bill is on me.
If the conversation was a good one, the bill is on me.
If she was dull talker or she spent more time answering her cell phone, or fixing her makeup, or talking about her past boyfriend, then I will pay for my consumption and the rest of the bill is hers.
My check please!
if she is beautiful man should pay, if not let she pay :O
following the 3 dates, there will be one of two possibilities:
Either they get married and the guy keeps paying and will discover that it was better to restrict himself to dating,
OR there will be no more dates.
Problem is. Guys as well as gals tend to multi-date and it is difficult to keep track of the date counts with each of his/her buddies;)
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Friends out for fun,
Guy pays, unless she offers and insists
Other wise,
in all other cases He pays,
unless she wants to for a special occasion, like his birthday
Come on guys, be gentalemen
Math 4 All
Whoever does the inviting...
not so easy, it all depends, most of the time it should be the guy. But sometimes the girl insists on paying, so be it.
TO BE OR NOT TO BE,THATS THE QUESTION!
It doesn't really matter to me... :)
Good girls go to heaven,
bad girls go everywhere
nice one icelee!
" if we are not part of the SOLUTION, then we are the PROBLEM "
hahaha... my husband can't do anything about me overspending... especially when we're out on the mall... that's why he prefer we stay home... :D
HappY and In Love!
Errr no we have a joint bank account so I decide lol
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
when you're committed to someone... money eventually becomes a conjugal property. so if you and your wife/gf decides to go out... you both decide who pays...
but it is still up to the person... whichever they believe in.
HappY and In Love!
I agree with Icelee, the guy should pay first few times, then just take it as it comes :)
nah if ur married you need a joint account and make sure he has no access to the bank details....i've learnt that today when hubby found out how much my hair cost lol
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
hard to tell??
:)
" if we are not part of the SOLUTION, then we are the PROBLEM "
having a girlfriend? hard to tell ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
...must pay.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
This time he pays, next she does :)
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
Are you married or have a girlfriend atleast?
HappY and In Love!
harry... let the ladies spend the money they earn on shopping.. lol..
Ladies want equality, yet where money is concerned chivalrey is the answer!
KE what, god forbid if they have a joint account mmmm?? who pays then??....
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
comes from the guy ... so he is the on who is supposed to pay ... some of them got a bad weird habit of inviting the others and then ... I have no money, I forgot my money, or can you pay for me this time?
If it would be just a friendly invitation like let's have dinner, it would be my treat then the one who initiate the invitation had to pay ...
If both of them were just bored and ... what shall we do? Let's have dinner then everyone if both agreed on the idea should pay for him/herself ...
If they are a husband/wife, a bf/gf then the guy should pay ... can't imagine a guy asking his wife or gf to pay for the food or for what is he eating ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
the man pays..
i think it's just proper that a man should pay for their first 3 dates... then when they're really getting to know each other and at ease... the girl should at least offer her contribution.
But if the guy insist... then so be it!!! :)
HappY and In Love!
nope sorry go halfs then he won't expect to get in ur knickers at the end of it......never let a man pay, its as good as being a prossie...
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
i've forgotten what a date is.
Whoever does the inviting pays for the date.
Honey, do you have some money with you?
The MAN Pays !!
thanks for being the first one....
" if we are not part of the SOLUTION, then we are the PROBLEM "
thread also? Hmmmmm, don't worry just enjoy your date and leave it in the end to the man to pay for you ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)