...when you're hurt...

perfectly said!

Sure chinx, just don't hurt anyone else in the process :)

I like your subject

Rizks...still trying to find out "he" or "she" with the color of UW...:)

Anyways, now let me also not get branded as a hijacker...back to topic...:)

what's new arien?if rizks is around?

yep i agree to that flor....actually this is the countless time that I ever experienced and I want to get over it..so far I am on the right track even i do these diversions.i keep myself safe and sound..there is no way i will destroy myself...i just want to enjoy my life to the fullest than being bitter for the rest of my life..

ok Doc !! :(

Over and OUT !!

Rizks, stop misleading people with your translation and come back to the original topic.

lol happy...Majaak karing mere laal....

Englihs: How am i suppose to know tat u r wearing Red underwears ? :)

Happy/Rizku .. done

chinx sorry fo rthe lil hijack

Rizks...ek saal mein yeh bhi nahi maloom ki happy 'he' hai ki 'she' hai...itna time QL mein rehene ka kya fayeda...:)

(English: Rizks you dont know whether 'happy' is 'he' or 'she'....did I ever flirt with you...:))

even when you're happy, you do these things, meaning whatever your mood is, you do these things. But when you're hurt, there's a tendency that you overdo it, having that defense mechanism that you're just doing a diversions, a way to throw away the hurt inside. That's why I say, whether you're happy or hurt, you owe someone or not an explanation, when you do these things, put a limit in a way you know you won't totally destroy yourself unknowingly!

i know where to stand avvid..i don't take anyone on a rebound...thanks pal..

doing crazy things are the outlet of anger and frustrations.

Arien...my pleasure..let's fix a date...:)

drmana...no issues...just wanted to know what in your opinion could be bothering me...:)

I am so over this phase...

Ariel wat do u mean tat u r straight ? did i tell you tat u structure is like a ZigZag tower ? :)

i dont know happy, how can i bring over ?

by the way, is happy "he" or "She" ?

If its "she" i can bring her over......lol

When your soul is sucked out, and your heart has been stamped on, you need all the diversions just to go along.

But beware, that you do not take your hurt out on an innocent, just so that you hurt no more.

Rizku sorry , am straight

lol, you can , anytime. you knows the den bring happy too. :)

ArieL can i pop in too to have a lollipop ?:)

Happy, Everyone have their own perspective to view things or situation. There is no compulsion that your perspective should match mine or vice-versa.

Happygo.. lol only after 6pm, pop in for drink one day :)

Arien...waiting for the poem to come out of you now...:)

chinx lady chillax!! wow that rhyms :)

flor it is not crazy after all...it is just a simple diversion from your old self...you became fool when you're in love and get hurt so a little escapade will help not to the point of ruining yourself of course...don't go far beyond the limit mah friend.;)

Nope drmana....just trying to see things in perspective...:)

Happy, are you tempting me to hijack?

drmana...in your opinion what could be bothering me...:)

Happy, though I don't understand which "late" is bothering you, we will agree to disagree in this. This topic is about one's reaction on being hurt, on which I agree with OP. Thats it.

i do flor..but can't tell you the extent...

Happy.. :)

Chinx, You silly !! :)

drmana...dont think that, that traffic slogan applies here..... seems out of context...:)

rms_000...you think QL can ever be out of daily dose of love and hurt... it can be possible for only that many days you dont login on QL...:)

Happy, I will still say, its never too late. Late is always better than never.

being "really" hurt. Yours is a diversion. That's why I said, crazy things because, without limit ('cause you don't owe anybody an explanation), these things you mention may or may not make you whole again. Worst it will destroy you completely and never recover.

I say again,......if you're hurt, put limit in these crazy things! Lol!My next post will tell you why!

rms please give this room a favor will you...?

drmana...I will repeat my first post "depends on what kind of relationship you are with the person who hurt you". Now do you think sometimes it can be just too late...:)

Oops, I thought QL is out from this Love and Hurt..

-Never !!! ;=(

lol guys I am choosing the right person to buzz and geez thanx for the offer! *chuckles*

happy, its never too late for anything. Oh! stop it before I go off topic.

"Gosh, why Lord has created their women so sensitive? why Lord has created their men so rubbish?"

Because, we need women in our lives to show us the sensitive side, and women need men to protect them from the rubbish side...

happy possible, but thats "to hate" :)

Rizku u fork :L

chinx

this is 100% true ...

drmana...sometimes it may be just too late to stop....what say...:)

Arien...me thinks she has already buzzed someone...:)

Flor, try the above things once, you will feel the difference. You will know when to stop ...don't worry about that.

ArieL plz buzz off ! :)

crazy things ?

with things are those flor ?

Chinx please buzz me when you are hurt :P

how long you will do those crazy things? Until you're wreck? and become irreparable? How can you be whole again?

I say, ......when you're hurt, put limit on those crazy things! Lol!

oh really drmana...hmm i guess i am the only one who envelops this feeling right now..

chinx,i said I WISH IF I COULD..I have yet to encounter such terrible trauma..lol..And i don't think it would come..so don't worry..

when you get hurt, hurt others you will feel good

hahaha don't you dare soniya ...;p

Gosh,so true input..I wish if i could get hurt in future and could utilize my freedom as mentioned above..lol

chinx_lady, I am so over with it ;-)

gudone you must be..promise you will feel better afterwards..

on the contrary QS men are also sensitive they just can't let anyone see them in pain emotionally..:)

drmana we are on same feathers...;)

thanks 4 tht thought.. i will surely adopt it...

absolutely right!

QS...it is other way round too..:)

Depends in what kind of relationship you are with the person who hurt you.

sure.. no one else can get hurt, but..

Gosh, why Lord has created their women so sensitive? why Lord has created their men so rubbish?

I agree totally, completely.

is it ? ;)

hmmm...