In fact, Marriage is a Sunnath of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and every sunnath is good to get benefit for both life
Hadith – Marriage
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 007 Book No. 062 Hadith No. 004 Narrated by Abdullah
So, we have to take care and handle well of each and every sunnath of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) then differently it will be good for us and we will enjoy in both life.
I think in general, 30 years old is an optimal age to get married for both (of course there are exceptions).
Once you have hit 30, you are probably mature enough to handle a relationship without silly insecurities. It means you have met enough people in your lifetime to be able to recognise a good soul. It means you have found a good balance between your brain and heart and won't let one dominate the other in your decision making. It means that you have lived long enough to have discovered yourself and what you want in a relationship without being influenced by others. It means you have lived long enough to have your own responsibilities and to establish yourself in the world and don't need anyone to support you. And last of all, it means you haven't lived long enough for you to have lost the childish delight that makes life so fun.
It's only about responsibility when they are sure they can be responsible and they can take care of their partner and a family, they can get married its not about age, a 25 years old man can have the same mentality of a 60 years old man
Whenever she is leagally an adult i think it's 18 where i'm from and if she actually wants to get married, not forced/brainwashed into thinking it's the right thing to do.
When you meet the right person, get married irrespective of the age.. As long as you are over the legal age of 18 for girls and 21 for boys..I am 34 and still not married bcoz I have not found the right person yet..
marry them young as they can adopt and mould much easier, compared to the try and tested and used and second hand 30 40 year olds,, Unless of course one is a millionaire..
The rock.. little clarification: the girl (of any age!) "can adapt to the change in environment easily", whereas most of the guys (of any age!) tend to keep their bach habits to the rest of their lives..
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
In another perspective, ask your self if you want to see your children getting married, and then see your grand children (and perhaps marry them too :)
And then look at the average life expectancy of the place where you live. Simple calculation to arrive at the right age you should marry assuming that the above are important to you.
I admit that this might sound stupid to some.... but i have a friend who always said would wait a few more years before marrying and another married friend who wanted to wait a few more years before having kids. I put these questions to them and they were stunned ... hadn't thought about it at all till then.
If your'e a man, then find a girl of 21 years. That's the ideal age i think. Can adapt to the change in environment easily (if required) and is also mature to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage.
I believe it's wrong to decide which age is right to get married! Many of you, guys, said "it depends on the person him/herself" and that's true! The essence of marriage is the brain (understanding each other and the responsibility marriage requires). You can find some 19 years old male and he understands more than a 28 years old man!! Yes it's rare to see that, but it exists. We can't prevent that 19 youth to marry since we saw how responsible he is. The same thing goes for the females. Age was never a scale to measure the brain's ability. The public view and opinion is that the older the wiser, true but with exceptions.
I agree to let the people marry when thay are ready, no matter what age they are. Everyone knows the best for him/her, afterall.
it depends on what time you are getting married... if you are going to marry for the first time at your 35 it's not too good... if by your 20 your were married already 2-3 times it's also not to healthy...
i would agree with gypsy on it.. if by your 40 you are on your 3d-4th marriage, you are all right...
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Still looking not easy to find especially in Doha, I am sure everyone would want to marry at the legal age within the country of residence or birth, but there are so many factors that should be looked at, compatibility, location, religion, financial status and so on and so forth. It is only when the two parties(or up to 5 parties, in some cases) are sure or partially sure that they are ready for the responsibilities involved with marriage and family life, is when they should sign the agreement. It is a very challenging, yet, some get lucky while others are not so lucky. That's why there are a lot of divorces and a lot of single people.
Gypsy, send me an application with the details of the level of wealth you need and characteristics of yourself, highlighting the advantages and disadvantages. All other applications should also be submitted by 31 December 2009 for review and/ or consideration.(Ana asif, sorry if I posted the last part in the wrong section, but it is in line and relevant to the topic)
No 2012 is the London Olmpics.. I have already started advertisng my London Properties,, Special discounts for all Qlers with more than 10000 points so start Qling now so you can reach that target by then..lol
I prefer happiness with a man of substance, character-wise. Very few and most are attached, engaged or married. But I will not settle for anything less.
Btw, I don't care for lovely clothes and handbags or any other branded stuff. All is vanity.
There was a recent news from Israel that the 14 year old divoced his wife of same age after two years of marriage.. They said they did not understand each other any more.
There are no limits on age in Isreal to get married
Well, if you want luxury and you put that before happiness, expect lots of lovely clothes and handbags, but sex that you don't like or want and a life on the knife edge.
Lol! Means I haven't met ... and possibly may not ever meet someone I cannot live without... Gonna be a question of wants vs needs.. I don't need but I want... so he's not gonna be a necessity but a luxury. hmm... oh dear! :-0
It all depends... Just 2 side of the same coin actually,
1. If u r a family man, the type tht loves kids & takes care of each and every detail at home and knows exactly how to balance his life between work and home -> 27-29
If u r a family woman (With the above deals) -> 25-27
2. If u r some behind a career, who wants to focus on work first and later think abt having a family -> 30-32
If u r a career woman -> 27-29
3. If u r just that person who doesn't like much of responsibilty & also takes life as it comes -> 32-34
Hmm.. then I've got quite a bit of catching up to do. How about if I get married and divorced every year, like an annual affair. ... Maybe end up like Elizabeth Taylor or Zsa zsa Gabor - with a house from each divorce - wealth creation strategy - makes good investment sense, no?
Right.. 35 yo should marry a sweet 16 gal. Better have minted money by his 35 years cos will need it to float 16 yo's shopping sprees. But hey, pros and cons to every situation, right? You win some, you lose some - hopefully, not lose everything and be up to eyeballs in debt. Lol!
Also depends on whether male or female and for what purpose the decision is for . If its for breeding purposes only I would suggest that it be when the female is at her physical ane reproductive peak ,and for the male , at an age when he would be at his physically strongest and most potent stage.
It would be different based on waht the criteria is .
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In fact, Marriage is a Sunnath of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and every sunnath is good to get benefit for both life
Hadith – Marriage
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 007 Book No. 062 Hadith No. 004 Narrated by Abdullah
So, we have to take care and handle well of each and every sunnath of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) then differently it will be good for us and we will enjoy in both life.
Sorry & correct me if I am wrong
Help people, the Allah ( God) will help you
Weneva u find the right person!If luck is in your favour, it wouldnt be too late!:)
for
guys- 26 to 35
gals- 24 to 28
I think in general, 30 years old is an optimal age to get married for both (of course there are exceptions).
Once you have hit 30, you are probably mature enough to handle a relationship without silly insecurities. It means you have met enough people in your lifetime to be able to recognise a good soul. It means you have found a good balance between your brain and heart and won't let one dominate the other in your decision making. It means that you have lived long enough to have discovered yourself and what you want in a relationship without being influenced by others. It means you have lived long enough to have your own responsibilities and to establish yourself in the world and don't need anyone to support you. And last of all, it means you haven't lived long enough for you to have lost the childish delight that makes life so fun.
its the age u feel u must have somebody u like to share bed, life, and the wild world
There is an 'optimum' age. It's when everything fits! No idea though when it is.
"Optimum" LMAO...there's no optimum age to do anything. It just depends on u.
Not decided yet Omar, we expect too much from getting married that's why the dispointment is more big when it doesnt work,
for women, above 30 for men.
It's true that had working hadn't killed anyone yet, but why to take risk?
We don't need to marry at all...
Yep! and it's right about time :) lol
Life is Beautiful...Indeed!
We should all marry ofcourse.... why? dont u want to marry?? Katy
"To marry or not to marry that's the question" again
Most people cannot be faithful for their life to one person anyway....especially in Qatar :)
Never forget the things that really do matter...
for guys: when they had their own car
for girls: when they know how to cook well
LOL
It's only about responsibility when they are sure they can be responsible and they can take care of their partner and a family, they can get married its not about age, a 25 years old man can have the same mentality of a 60 years old man
Whenever she is leagally an adult i think it's 18 where i'm from and if she actually wants to get married, not forced/brainwashed into thinking it's the right thing to do.
Lets see....the optimum age to get married...huh... when u feel like it.
"Ali Baba and 40 thieves" are now "Ali Baba and 30 thieves" ; 10 were laid off.
hahaha .. ur right... lol
then at least I can blame them if the marriage does not work...lol
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I am just waiting for my parents to find the right suitable girl for me... I am only 46..
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I agree with you Kareena ... nice :)
Cheers !!!
When you meet the right person, get married irrespective of the age.. As long as you are over the legal age of 18 for girls and 21 for boys..I am 34 and still not married bcoz I have not found the right person yet..
marry them young as they can adopt and mould much easier, compared to the try and tested and used and second hand 30 40 year olds,, Unless of course one is a millionaire..
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The rock.. little clarification: the girl (of any age!) "can adapt to the change in environment easily", whereas most of the guys (of any age!) tend to keep their bach habits to the rest of their lives..
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
before you die. The magic will still be in your marriage before you leave this planet...
In another perspective, ask your self if you want to see your children getting married, and then see your grand children (and perhaps marry them too :)
And then look at the average life expectancy of the place where you live. Simple calculation to arrive at the right age you should marry assuming that the above are important to you.
I admit that this might sound stupid to some.... but i have a friend who always said would wait a few more years before marrying and another married friend who wanted to wait a few more years before having kids. I put these questions to them and they were stunned ... hadn't thought about it at all till then.
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Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur.
If your'e a man, then find a girl of 21 years. That's the ideal age i think. Can adapt to the change in environment easily (if required) and is also mature to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage.
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Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur.
I believe it's wrong to decide which age is right to get married! Many of you, guys, said "it depends on the person him/herself" and that's true! The essence of marriage is the brain (understanding each other and the responsibility marriage requires). You can find some 19 years old male and he understands more than a 28 years old man!! Yes it's rare to see that, but it exists. We can't prevent that 19 youth to marry since we saw how responsible he is. The same thing goes for the females. Age was never a scale to measure the brain's ability. The public view and opinion is that the older the wiser, true but with exceptions.
I agree to let the people marry when thay are ready, no matter what age they are. Everyone knows the best for him/her, afterall.
28 for me
36 for the guy
:)
hmm..
25 - 30 for guys..
20 - 25 for girls..
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Don't do it!! Or marry a millionaire with 3 months to live..............
As long as she does what she is told!
a piece of paper and ceremony should not mean a thing at all!
Joke by the way! lol
When Both are Ready to handle each others
without killing one another.
it depends on what time you are getting married... if you are going to marry for the first time at your 35 it's not too good... if by your 20 your were married already 2-3 times it's also not to healthy...
i would agree with gypsy on it.. if by your 40 you are on your 3d-4th marriage, you are all right...
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
But who?(In Arabic laakin miin?)
Still looking not easy to find especially in Doha, I am sure everyone would want to marry at the legal age within the country of residence or birth, but there are so many factors that should be looked at, compatibility, location, religion, financial status and so on and so forth. It is only when the two parties(or up to 5 parties, in some cases) are sure or partially sure that they are ready for the responsibilities involved with marriage and family life, is when they should sign the agreement. It is a very challenging, yet, some get lucky while others are not so lucky. That's why there are a lot of divorces and a lot of single people.
Gypsy, send me an application with the details of the level of wealth you need and characteristics of yourself, highlighting the advantages and disadvantages. All other applications should also be submitted by 31 December 2009 for review and/ or consideration.(Ana asif, sorry if I posted the last part in the wrong section, but it is in line and relevant to the topic)
UkEng.. Sigh! I'm doomed!
nauticalnomad - "Both time and marriage are false and should not be a considering factor in bringing 2 people together!"
Lol! Ok. This is what some of my friends think and they simply cohabit and have kids. Not tied down by a piece of paper.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
eagle the man with all those qualities already has a boy friend...lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
No 2012 is the London Olmpics.. I have already started advertisng my London Properties,, Special discounts for all Qlers with more than 10000 points so start Qling now so you can reach that target by then..lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
Get married asap... 2012 is the end of the world...
Man is animalistic,
The attraction that brings us together is animalistic!
All Religion has done everything possible to take the animal out of man so as to make us easier to control!
You should never put something so fake as a marriage/ownership ceremony onto anything/one to entrap 2 people together in fear etc
Age is a number invented by someones imagination, Many moons ago!
Without this intitial thought there would be no such question as to what is the correct age to get married!
Both time and marriage are false and should not be a considering factor in bringing 2 people together!
Justmoi, lol! You misunderstood my post.
I prefer happiness with a man of substance, character-wise. Very few and most are attached, engaged or married. But I will not settle for anything less.
Btw, I don't care for lovely clothes and handbags or any other branded stuff. All is vanity.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
depends on the person...
i think i would agree with ALSBOY.
Sad isn't it? 14 and married fgs!
There was a recent news from Israel that the 14 year old divoced his wife of same age after two years of marriage.. They said they did not understand each other any more.
There are no limits on age in Isreal to get married
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HE WHO DARES WINS
Well, if you want luxury and you put that before happiness, expect lots of lovely clothes and handbags, but sex that you don't like or want and a life on the knife edge.
Those are the wrong reasons to get married.
Lol! Means I haven't met ... and possibly may not ever meet someone I cannot live without... Gonna be a question of wants vs needs.. I don't need but I want... so he's not gonna be a necessity but a luxury. hmm... oh dear! :-0
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Justmoi said ...Say, 'could I live without this person for the rest of my life'?"
oh oh! .. :-0
/But I still want to get married... and divorced with matrimonial house and alimony... a couple of times...
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
and that means what?
What has age got to do with it? Marry when you fall in love.
Don't say, 'could I live with this person for the rest of my life'?
Say, 'could I live without this person for the rest of my life'?
At any age if you marry the RIGHT person being married is the best thing ever.
Good comment Alexa, Strike While the Iron is Hot
I am thinking to get married after 80...lol
"Drink Beer Save Water"
Almost my thoughts. Not that I abided by them though..:)
Salam
It all depends... Just 2 side of the same coin actually,
1. If u r a family man, the type tht loves kids & takes care of each and every detail at home and knows exactly how to balance his life between work and home -> 27-29
If u r a family woman (With the above deals) -> 25-27
2. If u r some behind a career, who wants to focus on work first and later think abt having a family -> 30-32
If u r a career woman -> 27-29
3. If u r just that person who doesn't like much of responsibilty & also takes life as it comes -> 32-34
If u r a woman -> 29-33
Good luck....
The 16 year old will try to get patched up with a 19 year old....
Optimum,After u get good and secured job..Male 26 and Female 24.
Of course it does. I currently on the lookout for husband number 4. I'm thinking wealthy Qatari. :P
Optimum..
30 year old male with 18 year old female..
Hmm.. then I've got quite a bit of catching up to do. How about if I get married and divorced every year, like an annual affair. ... Maybe end up like Elizabeth Taylor or Zsa zsa Gabor - with a house from each divorce - wealth creation strategy - makes good investment sense, no?
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Marry only when you can afford to be married. That is afford physicaly, financialy & mentaly
Right.. 35 yo should marry a sweet 16 gal. Better have minted money by his 35 years cos will need it to float 16 yo's shopping sprees. But hey, pros and cons to every situation, right? You win some, you lose some - hopefully, not lose everything and be up to eyeballs in debt. Lol!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
You are definitely old enough to get married.
By 40 you should be on your 5th ot 6th wife/husband easily.
Optimum age 9 ... but a 40 year old guy has the mental age of a 9 year old anyway... How??
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
best age:
male= 35
female = 16
lol
40. Life begins at 40. - for women.
/Not really.. 60 or 70 also can, if just want companionship. By then, hopefully the guys would have been a bit more matured. :P
//For guys - any age. Like wine, they get better with age. But preferably after 40 also cos the young studs ain't done with sowing wild oats yet.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
9 people the optimum age is 9!
Also depends on whether male or female and for what purpose the decision is for . If its for breeding purposes only I would suggest that it be when the female is at her physical ane reproductive peak ,and for the male , at an age when he would be at his physically strongest and most potent stage.
It would be different based on waht the criteria is .
Depends on what type of culture u follow and what type of person u r.
if u r a family person get married.Age...after getting a solid education and well earning job.
if u wanna have freedom and flirts ...STOP dont get married.
Should have gotten you younger then MD.
Too late! I started thinking about sex with 6!
ideally as soos as one reaches puberty :D
9. Get em young before they start thinking of sex and get up to illegal sex and all.