What do u believe in, and why???

casanova
By casanova

 

 

          What do u believe in?????? 

  • To be loved the way u are ....

                           or

  • To be changed for the one u love...

 

          ??????????????????????????????????

By casanova• 2 May 2008 14:53
Rating: 3/5
casanova

Cornellian, I think what you believe is true....

 

now fly away... 

 

"I dont Drive fast, I just fly slow..."

By Cornellian• 2 May 2008 14:23
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Cornellian

I believe...

I can flyyyyyyyyyyy

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

By casanova• 2 May 2008 13:43
Rating: 5/5
casanova

Baloch,

 

I didnt mean to ask love but change...

I want to know why people want them to be loved the way they are...

I want to know why is it so difficult to say "i was wrong"

I want to know why is it so difficult to change yourself until you have your neck underneath a sword...

WHY... Why not to change youself and whats wrong in accepting your mistake...  

 

"I dont Drive fast, I just fly slow..."

By baloch• 1 May 2008 15:21
Rating: 5/5
baloch

you mean to ask the quest

what is love?

love is god

 

pyar bina kia bashaar kia khodaa

pyar binaa pyar binaaa

junoon

By dandy0510• 1 May 2008 15:15
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dandy0510

hard question... hehe. (nosebleed)

 

but i prefer that we both love each other and vice versa..

 

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By swissgirl39• 1 May 2008 15:12
Rating: 4/5
swissgirl39

please post a new one.

thanks

 

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Jurga

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By keziah17• 1 May 2008 15:06
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keziah17

 i agree with SG, sometimes we change out of love and respect to our loved ones not just because they want us to change.

well, of course, one must weigh the type of change first and a discussion is sometimes vital.

our loved ones are our mirror, they tell us what has to be changed.

 

By casanova• 25 Apr 2008 21:27
Rating: 4/5
casanova

Well…. I have discovered from life, the only person in this world welcomes the change is a baby in wet diapers. Rest of us waits, until the pain of remaining the same becomes greater than the pain of changing... 

 

Innit Sad??    

 

Change for our comfort is threatening, change for our comfort is frightening but change for a better life and a better relation is an opportunity....  

 

So I prefer to change myself, for someone I love, I prefer to change myself for a better and happy life...  

 

Pure Love...

 

By nadt• 25 Apr 2008 09:41
Rating: 5/5
nadt

If you have to change for the one you love, then its not really going to last long, as eventually your true self will come out sooner or later and you will resent them. Its best to be loved for who you are and i believe compromise is the key from both sides...

By Ducks• 25 Apr 2008 09:34
Rating: 4/5
Ducks

yep, same as swissgirl for me...a partner helps you to become a better person (I think) so you change anyway...

 

 

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By ERMA KHAN• 25 Apr 2008 09:19
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ERMA KHAN

Good morning to all. In positive relationship u do not try to change each other. change should be spontaneous. something that happens when u feel happy, but induced change is never welcome. bc it deteriorates the actual personality.  

By swissgirl39• 25 Apr 2008 09:00
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swissgirl39

first good morning to you dear  ;-))

then sometimes you change yourself because of love and respect of your partner.not because he wants it,but because you want it to do for him.

and it is not always a bad thing to change some things in your life.

i did and i will not regrett nothing.

:-))

 

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By Scarlett• 25 Apr 2008 08:55
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Scarlett

If someone falls in love with you, its because of who you are at that time..NOT what they prefer you to be.  You can't make someone change when you marry them...that's not right, nor is it healthy for either party concerned. When people change to suit another person, that's not good because you are changing who you are and as everyone knows...we can't be something we are not...Always be true to yourself.

 

When two people love each other deeply..then they learn to "grow" together...not change completely, but to complement each other.

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)

By swissgirl39• 25 Apr 2008 08:38
Rating: 5/5
swissgirl39

thats my opinion.

:-)

 

*When hands reach out in friendship, hearts are touched with joy*

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By chingkay• 25 Apr 2008 03:30
Rating: 5/5
chingkay

 

 they said love conquers all  so if she/he loves u truely he /she accept the real you who ever u are

 

 

 

 

try and try until you succeed

By dreamandsmile• 25 Apr 2008 03:18
Rating: 5/5
dreamandsmile

I'm sure that there is someone out there who will love you just the way you are.  

 "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. "

Ralph Waldo Emerson

By azilana7037• 25 Apr 2008 02:57
Rating: 5/5
azilana7037

 I could no longer change what i have become. I made mistakes in the past that i paid dearly. though there is no regret in whatever i did, i know i won't be this strong if i hadn't overcome it.

For who ever would take or love me for what IAM...I am HIS....

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" -Eleonor Roosevelt 

By dreamandsmile• 25 Apr 2008 02:48
Rating: 5/5
dreamandsmile

I believe that balance is the key to a healthy relationship.  Of course, we all want to be love  for who we are, but sometimes we also have to make changes within us for our love ones and for the relationship to work out.  But if someone that I love wants to change me, then that's a different story. 

 

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. "

Ralph Waldo Emerson

By yousri• 25 Apr 2008 02:13
Rating: 5/5
yousri

My Love makes me to belive each n evrything in this world.

 

Like,Love for God, makes me understand every inch of this world is made by only ONE, there is no any THEE who brings Moon at Night and Sun in Morning.

 

Like,Love for Parents, Ill be a Loyal son one day.

 

and Love for Her, makes me belive there is no any word like "I CANT" for me in this world. I should not stop from Ups and Down of life.

 

This is what I think. So for Me, LOVE IS ITS A BELIVE ON EVERYTHING, EVERYTING!!

YousrI

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