"May he's so busy with his work... or or or he was in a meeting the whole day.... and and and attended some kinda of convention during the evening and got so tired.... maybe he lost his mobile or something...there's alot of reasons.... "
Basically, his girlfriend is not important enough. I am extremely busy with work, I work 6 full days a week and sometimes on weekends too. I'm in meetings all day sometimes, etc.etc. BUT I have 60 seconds to call or text to say Happy Birthday - if very busy, a very quick call to say I remembered. It's the thought that counts. Don't justify with weak excuses.
But then again, I'm a girl. And we multi task bloody well. So what does that say for the sorry excuse of a man? GAL!
/Having said that, it doesn't mean that a person can't change for the better so Yvonne, I hope he learns to appreciate you more. Certainly, give him another chance but if he always does this and takes you for granted, there must be a limit. And once that limit is reached, action needs to be taken. Good luck.
//If I meet him at one of the socials, no worries. I generally won't remember what I said. I have too much info overload to remember petty things like which moron did or said what.
you do 1 thing.. next time, call him on your birthday ... wish him a "Happy Birthday" .... give him a nice gift, make it a special day ... trust me, he will remember it forever !
As flanostu said , men are hopeless to remember the dates . Still , my sister reminds me when my mom's or dad's birthday comes . Give him anoter chance , it is not a big deal
for us guys (at least my people).. birthdays, valentine and Anniversaries doesn't really matter..... it's just like every other weekend.. ain't nothing special about em..
i don't know why girls get mad when we forget..
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few weeks ago.. my ex girlfriend called on my birthday..
that was cool..
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i remember her birthday was sometime in Feb.. but don't know the exact date..
I just try to figure out if there's a kind of behavioural pathology in this case, like reversing scenarios or something (I should seek for a professional opinion, I know).
What I mean is that no other normal human being would do something like this. At least this is the rule on Earth planet...
well wrap me up in red ribbons and throw me on Yvone's door step if its about the present she didnt get for her birthday ;)
Now i dont know what it is about women and importance to such details it really doesnt mean anything. I actually did that when i was with my ex, i mean i sent her an sms wishing her at 12.00 and told her i'd call her in the morning coz i was too tired...omg she almost ripped my cute head off!! And on my birthday she didnt even call me or sms me at 12.00! i didnt care one bit...oh wait we had already broken up by then lol!
A wise old kitty kat once said..."Do not wait to fall in love with the perfect person...but look at the imperfect person perfectly" :)
MY advice...let it go...doesnt matter...go hug your bf now...and if that dont work u know where to find me ;) meow meow
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
He is unlucky not to care about someone so caring and loving... I am sure he will realize very soon ! Thats why they say.... If u love some one don;t hold them tight let them go if they come back they are yours if the ydon;t they nevwe were !!! TC n Keep smiling... The world looks better this way !
when was your birthday? what day? may he's so busy with his work... or or or he was in a meeting the whole day.... and and and attended some kinda of convention during the evening and got so tired.... maybe he lost his mobile or something...there's alot of reasons.... or maybe he's with somebody else that day and night... (whole day & night).. joke...
life is not a destination, it always had been & always will be a journey.....
did you asked why he did not call you? was the reason valid?... and because of this you think that his love is already SICK? is this a VALID issue for you to fight with him? ...just asking you back questions to make you realize something..
good morning...
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Did I touch a nerve you old Thai man? Wisdom never hit your age, didn't it? One more proof that some Asian males suffer from severe emotional disruption...
If everything's alright between you and him do you wanna really throw it all away for a birthday call. perhaps it's important but men have a very weak memory in that field.
If things aren't all well, then should this birthday thing be the highlight of the relationship breakdown?
Naa...Dont worry about her dumping me... I trust her n so does she... tis been a strong relation for 3 yrs now.... So... I dnt mind evn if u do call...lol ;)
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janey, you know how big and could almost tear my smiles to your message. LOL!
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Murder, I've read your comments all over QL, I'm now a fangirl. LOL
The internet is our revenge machine
Nice one parizeh! Quite far-fetched anyway...
Lost in Doha -
"May he's so busy with his work... or or or he was in a meeting the whole day.... and and and attended some kinda of convention during the evening and got so tired.... maybe he lost his mobile or something...there's alot of reasons.... "
Basically, his girlfriend is not important enough. I am extremely busy with work, I work 6 full days a week and sometimes on weekends too. I'm in meetings all day sometimes, etc.etc. BUT I have 60 seconds to call or text to say Happy Birthday - if very busy, a very quick call to say I remembered. It's the thought that counts. Don't justify with weak excuses.
But then again, I'm a girl. And we multi task bloody well. So what does that say for the sorry excuse of a man? GAL!
/Having said that, it doesn't mean that a person can't change for the better so Yvonne, I hope he learns to appreciate you more. Certainly, give him another chance but if he always does this and takes you for granted, there must be a limit. And once that limit is reached, action needs to be taken. Good luck.
//If I meet him at one of the socials, no worries. I generally won't remember what I said. I have too much info overload to remember petty things like which moron did or said what.
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you do 1 thing.. next time, call him on your birthday ... wish him a "Happy Birthday" .... give him a nice gift, make it a special day ... trust me, he will remember it forever !
As flanostu said , men are hopeless to remember the dates . Still , my sister reminds me when my mom's or dad's birthday comes . Give him anoter chance , it is not a big deal
I assume he forgot and greeted the other one. LOLs!
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The internet is our revenge machine
happy birthday :)
DITCH HIM
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for us guys (at least my people).. birthdays, valentine and Anniversaries doesn't really matter..... it's just like every other weekend.. ain't nothing special about em..
i don't know why girls get mad when we forget..
..
few weeks ago.. my ex girlfriend called on my birthday..
that was cool..
..
i remember her birthday was sometime in Feb.. but don't know the exact date..
.
so i keep an online alarm at a some website..
..
smart haaa..?
I just try to figure out if there's a kind of behavioural pathology in this case, like reversing scenarios or something (I should seek for a professional opinion, I know).
What I mean is that no other normal human being would do something like this. At least this is the rule on Earth planet...
get him Ginkgo Biloba as a birthday gift. give it one year and find out if he improves. if not, then he is a hopeless or chronic case
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well wrap me up in red ribbons and throw me on Yvone's door step if its about the present she didnt get for her birthday ;)
Now i dont know what it is about women and importance to such details it really doesnt mean anything. I actually did that when i was with my ex, i mean i sent her an sms wishing her at 12.00 and told her i'd call her in the morning coz i was too tired...omg she almost ripped my cute head off!! And on my birthday she didnt even call me or sms me at 12.00! i didnt care one bit...oh wait we had already broken up by then lol!
A wise old kitty kat once said..."Do not wait to fall in love with the perfect person...but look at the imperfect person perfectly" :)
MY advice...let it go...doesnt matter...go hug your bf now...and if that dont work u know where to find me ;) meow meow
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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He is unlucky not to care about someone so caring and loving... I am sure he will realize very soon ! Thats why they say.... If u love some one don;t hold them tight let them go if they come back they are yours if the ydon;t they nevwe were !!! TC n Keep smiling... The world looks better this way !
when was your birthday? what day? may he's so busy with his work... or or or he was in a meeting the whole day.... and and and attended some kinda of convention during the evening and got so tired.... maybe he lost his mobile or something...there's alot of reasons.... or maybe he's with somebody else that day and night... (whole day & night).. joke...
life is not a destination, it always had been & always will be a journey.....
Absolutely brilliant, you tess! How come I never considered that? Gosh!
I have to change the topic now: from sick love to sick people...
love sick
I'll add a defiant and self-centered one...
The best thing to do is forget the birthdays of your own...
.wonderful boyfriend?
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.id rather say, an insensitive and a thoughtless one..
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You have a wonderful boyfriend. I am going to turn my phone off on that fated day on which I am going to get an year more older.
did you asked why he did not call you? was the reason valid?... and because of this you think that his love is already SICK? is this a VALID issue for you to fight with him? ...just asking you back questions to make you realize something..
good morning...
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Buy us a blackberry whenever we forget ... tempting
Did I touch a nerve you old Thai man? Wisdom never hit your age, didn't it? One more proof that some Asian males suffer from severe emotional disruption...
give him some money to buy some prepaid card!
boyfriends should never forget birthdays! gosh!
cheers,
paul
men are hopeless at remembering dates, buy him a blackberry.
Blame it on QTEL! Let Vodafone come and see the difference.
Junx is right. we do forget such matters alot ... sometimes
I dnt think she has broken up... She just needs a comment i presume....well..Vyone....
We do forget such matters sometime u know...Got to accept the fact...
If everything's alright between you and him do you wanna really throw it all away for a birthday call. perhaps it's important but men have a very weak memory in that field.
If things aren't all well, then should this birthday thing be the highlight of the relationship breakdown?
Don't get me wrong i'm just wondering.
Naa...Dont worry about her dumping me... I trust her n so does she... tis been a strong relation for 3 yrs now.... So... I dnt mind evn if u do call...lol ;)
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.junx, call her quick, before ill ask her to dump u, lol.....(J/K)
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mall leave him alone :)
dumb him, I agree with Mallrat 100%
just wish her :) behalf of me
Today at 12:00 is my gals birthday.... lol.... Me gonna call...
Did you call him on his birthday?
Maybe it's tit for tat.
.that 'tard, ditch him...right now. that's an order....
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