mr Zabi, you dont have to marry if you dont want to. I hope you didnt raise this issue because you're on the verge of marrying someone whom your parents have chosen(basing fr your nationality).
It is not also the answer if you have fathered a child. If you find the right girl and decides to marry her, so be it. But basing fr everyone's comments, it's a bed of nails and roses.....that is the reality.
Just remember that as we grow older, we need somebody to cling to through thick and thin.
Nope. I don't need to be married to have someone to come home to every night, I just need to live with someone. I don't need to be married to have kids, I just need sperm. I don't need to be married to raise my kids, I just need a good job. So no, you don't need to be married.
I was married and it only lasted for 22 years. I thought it's forever, I was so naive then. I thought there's no divorce in the PI, and we thought were so in love then. Now after the divorce my view of marriage is different. Marriage cannot guarantee happiness. LOVE is more important. As long as you really love each other, married or not, you will be happy. Nowadays, sad to say that most young people marry because the girl is pregnant. The whole family is more worried about what the neighbors will say. Or if they are religious, it is a big sin not to be married. I guess it depends on your belief and what's important to you.
kids born out of wedlock are not called bastards anymore, AZILANA, I mean, no one refers to them as bastards.
I think marriage is for people who believe in it (religious marriage I mean). For me it is not entirely necessary, it would be something special, but I'm not planning my life around getting married or anything. I won't push it, it should come naturally, and we both have to agree to it and be entirely committed. Otherwise, it is just a waste of time.
But that's me, so the question is for you zabi_husaini... what is marriage for you? Is it necessary for you?
but no body have to do it before its time, if someone wants to get married he have to be ready for that, unless he will be among those suffering famillies.
and then why most of people when it comes to having kids they think about when they get old to take care of them, and no body of them think about the responsibility of sharing the creativity with god, and then raise a good familly to be proud of in theire community, its a life and sharing that will be done day by day, and not only a matter of need and selfishness.
britexpat said All depends on your personal outlook.. You can have a life partner(s) without entering into marriage.
For some , its a must. For others , its a commitment too far."
- True. But "the commitment too far" most times is because of fear... or they are simply waiting for someone better to come along. But some people are quite cut and dried and wont string partners along. Either s/he is a good potential or s/he has a snowball's chance in hell.
Yes, Stonecold. Like my priest back home says - "hatch, match and despatch."
mheljescamae said it's not necessary as long ... and if you have a good relation with your brothers and sisters... that they are willing to take care of you when you grow old."
- No, There's such a thing as a nursing home. That's what my Mum said. She said that'll take the load of any caregivers - as in old age, will need medical care and 24hr supervision anyway. Very practical, less stressful on the caregivers and less likelihood of the youngsters kicking the bucket before the parents, etc, etc.
/Hence, the reason why freeloading parasites are dumped. Will only help genuinely troubled ones.
it's not necessary as long as you think you can live by your own and you can manage to live without wife and kids to take care of you, and if you have a good relation with your brothers and sisters,including your niece and nephews, that they are willing to take care of you when you grow old.
It depends...is anybody forcing you to get married right now??? lool.. If you want to stay single forever it is fine... but sometimes it is depends on your culture... your family, your tradition, or even the society itself... I have a friend also at 30 he is still single and wants to remain SINGLE for now until whenever...but the problem evrytime there is a family gathering his mom is always trying to talk about marriage, just one look at his nephews and nieces his mom will say ..SON, if you are married see, how good having grandchildren like them, etc etc...well...IT'S LIFE ;)
yes, why would someone want to live in their parents' house forever or return every night to an empty place?↲
Its necessary to find a soulmate who would fulfil all your needs and help you to leave a legacy behind, children, who would take care of you when you're old and weak and pray over your soul.↲
saty signle and enjoy ur freedom or be ready to give in everything in ur life. like this married life has words like love, adjustment, sacrifice, Ups and downs, trust...etc................
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Gyps, I almost jump out of my skin to read your comment. Now how many of your kinds did this. Its a blessing for all man folks.
unless you want to be called the mistress of a your kids father!
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have a plan, and stick to it!
Agree with Gypsy completely. But I am married and happy. So far so good.
"Ali Baba and 40 thieves" are now "Ali Baba and 30 thieves" ; 10 were laid off.
mr Zabi, you dont have to marry if you dont want to. I hope you didnt raise this issue because you're on the verge of marrying someone whom your parents have chosen(basing fr your nationality).
It is not also the answer if you have fathered a child. If you find the right girl and decides to marry her, so be it. But basing fr everyone's comments, it's a bed of nails and roses.....that is the reality.
Just remember that as we grow older, we need somebody to cling to through thick and thin.
Nope. I don't need to be married to have someone to come home to every night, I just need to live with someone. I don't need to be married to have kids, I just need sperm. I don't need to be married to raise my kids, I just need a good job. So no, you don't need to be married.
magicdragon,that was a bitter song from a bitter man who fell out of love. Good of you to share it. I just hope you're not a bitter man as well.
22 Years i a long time and don't let it put you off marriage.
As you rightly said "I guess it depends on your belief and what's important to you."
it depens on your calling to have a SINGLE life or MARRIED life ahead of you.
do not get married if your are pushed for it or feel you are left out by your friends that they are all married.
have your own life and be merry...
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mai lain pa!
I was married and it only lasted for 22 years. I thought it's forever, I was so naive then. I thought there's no divorce in the PI, and we thought were so in love then. Now after the divorce my view of marriage is different. Marriage cannot guarantee happiness. LOVE is more important. As long as you really love each other, married or not, you will be happy. Nowadays, sad to say that most young people marry because the girl is pregnant. The whole family is more worried about what the neighbors will say. Or if they are religious, it is a big sin not to be married. I guess it depends on your belief and what's important to you.
kids born out of wedlock are not called bastards anymore, AZILANA, I mean, no one refers to them as bastards.
I think marriage is for people who believe in it (religious marriage I mean). For me it is not entirely necessary, it would be something special, but I'm not planning my life around getting married or anything. I won't push it, it should come naturally, and we both have to agree to it and be entirely committed. Otherwise, it is just a waste of time.
But that's me, so the question is for you zabi_husaini... what is marriage for you? Is it necessary for you?
The problem is sometimes love only means sex. Do it now, damage repair later.
but no body have to do it before its time, if someone wants to get married he have to be ready for that, unless he will be among those suffering famillies.
and then why most of people when it comes to having kids they think about when they get old to take care of them, and no body of them think about the responsibility of sharing the creativity with god, and then raise a good familly to be proud of in theire community, its a life and sharing that will be done day by day, and not only a matter of need and selfishness.
just like to marry a 100 yrs old millionnaire flan. Everybody knows the plot
only if your partner to be has a large life insurance policy, no point otherwise.
britexpat said All depends on your personal outlook.. You can have a life partner(s) without entering into marriage.
For some , its a must. For others , its a commitment too far."
- True. But "the commitment too far" most times is because of fear... or they are simply waiting for someone better to come along. But some people are quite cut and dried and wont string partners along. Either s/he is a good potential or s/he has a snowball's chance in hell.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
All depends on your personal outlook.. You can have a life partner(s) without entering into marriage.
For some , its a must. For others , its a commitment too far.
Agree with PM..
There is nothing like sharing life with a well-matched partner and having a family.
I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM
She hates my mama
She hates my daddy too
She loves to tell me
She hates the things I do
She loves to lie beside me
Almost every night
She's no lady she's my wife
The preacher asked her
And she said I do
The preacher asked me
And she said yes he does too
And the preacher said
I pronounce you 99 to life
Son she's no lady she's your wife
And I can't remember
How I met her
Seems like she's always just been hanging here off my right arm
And I can't remember
How I ever
Thought that I just couldn't live without a woman's charm
And even though
She loves the smell of French perfume
And even though
She walks around in high-heel shoes
All I know
Is I'm the one who pays her price
Man she's no lady she's my wife
And I can't remember
How I met her
Seems like she's always just been hanging here off my right arm
And I can't remember
How I ever
Thought that I just couldn't live without a woman's charm
Yea she hates my mama
She hates my daddy too
She loves to tell me
She hates the things I do
She loves to lie beside me
Almost every night
She's no lady she's my wife
(Lyle Lovett)
I think this guy clearly understood. BTW, he suffered from a 3 year marriage with Julia Roberts and then he wrote the song!
Yes, Stonecold. Like my priest back home says - "hatch, match and despatch."
mheljescamae said it's not necessary as long ... and if you have a good relation with your brothers and sisters... that they are willing to take care of you when you grow old."
- No, There's such a thing as a nursing home. That's what my Mum said. She said that'll take the load of any caregivers - as in old age, will need medical care and 24hr supervision anyway. Very practical, less stressful on the caregivers and less likelihood of the youngsters kicking the bucket before the parents, etc, etc.
/Hence, the reason why freeloading parasites are dumped. Will only help genuinely troubled ones.
- Yes, because would like company.
//Geez! Really talking like a 90 y.o here!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Ofcourse it is necessary..Atleast for me if i wasnt married to ma hubby i would die wdout him...about u well ask urself:P
Yes Yes Yes, No NO No, Yes Yes Yes
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Why not. There are three important dates a life time. Your date of birth, your marriage and your death.
it's not necessary as long as you think you can live by your own and you can manage to live without wife and kids to take care of you, and if you have a good relation with your brothers and sisters,including your niece and nephews, that they are willing to take care of you when you grow old.
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thalga......!!!
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u mean child marriage..............
up to you really....
yes!!
CELIBATE
It depends...is anybody forcing you to get married right now??? lool.. If you want to stay single forever it is fine... but sometimes it is depends on your culture... your family, your tradition, or even the society itself... I have a friend also at 30 he is still single and wants to remain SINGLE for now until whenever...but the problem evrytime there is a family gathering his mom is always trying to talk about marriage, just one look at his nephews and nieces his mom will say ..SON, if you are married see, how good having grandchildren like them, etc etc...well...IT'S LIFE ;)
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Yes and no
yes, why would someone want to live in their parents' house forever or return every night to an empty place?↲
Its necessary to find a soulmate who would fulfil all your needs and help you to leave a legacy behind, children, who would take care of you when you're old and weak and pray over your soul.↲
So when you're ready, go for it!
saty signle and enjoy ur freedom or be ready to give in everything in ur life. like this married life has words like love, adjustment, sacrifice, Ups and downs, trust...etc................
of course its nessary in life , why didnt your pearnts get married to have you ?
not necessary stay single be happy
ask ur parents
what did they do to bring u into this world
did they got married or not?
their answer will explain everything
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stupid question and arguments are symptoms of low knowledge
Till U & your would cross the legal age of 21... :)
Cheer'z
Which marriage? :P
not necessary for you :P
Not necessary if u r child.lol
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