Just sharing-- LOVE : CHOICE OR CHANCE !!!!!
LOVE : CHOICE OR CHANCE !!!!!
When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance. The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mates is still a matter of choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love. BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly..." Beautiful ain't it? Doesn't it give us something to ponder about? Whether we end up with our present loves through love, chance or choice? If it was the right chance, was it the right choice to make? Interesting =)
I'll let u reason it out on your own..................
well all i can say is that i had all the chances but i made the wrong choice :(
"Whether we end up with our present loves through love, chance or choice? "
Mine was Chance - By chance, the silly bint fell pregnant :O(
love by choice is better, you can't blame your parents or family if something wrong happens in your marriage life....
love this post n like this line:
"We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love. BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly..."
“Every person, all the events of your life, are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.”
- Richard Bach
luck by chance...rose
love by choice is better then love by chance
I'm not a pathan :-))
Colt just prefers everything backwards :(
It's just that i was always good with FIGURES :-P
I thought the air gets thinner the higher you go ;-) I was always bad in science.
Hands up...Pants down... thats the complete sentence Officer :)
That is my motto, "Never say Die"... ;-)
oh btw, i only wanna go 6ft deep, the air gets less the deeper you go :-P
burnt already huh?? ;-)
you wanna get "a head" of me? :-P
be quick, or be dead ;-)
like the OP said, "Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice"...
we're a 3some caught in the moment... no hijacking here ;-)
LOL tinker.. Now you are really thinking the right way ;o)
We are talking about Love, no hijacking :P
This is officer NGTD...can u three hijackers (wk, tinker, colt) hands up!! :)
Tinker wanted you to kick me so that i get a head ;-))
I've got Friends in low places, where the whiskey drowns and beer chases, my blues away... ;-)
Ok now that's settled, Jack is giving Colt a head. That leaves you and me tinker :))
i admire your profound knowledge in such matters of getting A HEAD ;-))
LOL tinker ;)
I prefer getting a "head"... LMFAO!!!
when i have friends like y'all, who needs enemies :-P
Tinker - I like your knowledge of bondage ;-)
Guys dont kick him from behind... he might go ahead in life...lol
a li'l bondage??? smack my a55 kinda thing??? :-P
Why ara y'all after my bum???
Colt ...yeah ... that guy was from Mahim too ...he he he
Ok Colt I will kick you in the bum, that physical enough :(
Is he still alive and keeping well?? :-P
Let's get physical, physical... I wanna get physical... ;-))
I knew a couple in my college days... the girl was a (Zorastrian) Parsi who can only marry inside their sect.
The guy, my friend was in "True Love" with her and wanted to marry her..
One day they had access to a friend's house. She told him ...you can have anything with me except marriage. He would not touch her unless they are married.
The very next day the relationship ended...and she wouldnt speak with him..... I had a very difficult year consoling him.
Sex is over-rated
Tinker ... they are testing the limits...
What I consider TRUE love is ...what remains AFTER the sex aspect...
As long as sex is not involved in the relationship it is not tested for the truth...
It is only after sex the "what now?" question comes into mind.
It should only be physical attraction, it hurts so much otherwise :(
You dont choose love....Love chooses you!
share it and it will blossom, keep it and it will explode!
Love itself is a choice.
do I get a choice to choose? or do I take the chance. hmmm
have you ever thought of the other way around?