Do you know any backbiters in your office?

shajijahs
By shajijahs

Barking Dog Never Bites, but Silent one. Do you think its right? Do you have any experience in your work environment? Just share it. At least some of us can save our job.

By addictedsalman• 22 Mar 2010 18:16
addictedsalman

dude i am doing the first two points but the third i can't control... :(

coz new to qatar and and dont know arabic.. so lill bit problem for me..

any ways i work my best.. since i try to finish the work quick and without any sort a mistake...

so can we ignore 3rd??? ;)

and on fourth i will try to tell them in english... lol

..there is no rule in the game of life and death..

By anonymous• 22 Mar 2010 17:59
anonymous

I was recently bitten by my puppy "Justine", when i was feeding him with my hand. I had vaccinated because of that of course. I'm glad vaccine was formulated!!!

Anyway, with that incident, I have realized there are people (i'm sorry for those who are not...)who are like dogs. That even if you treat them like more that friends, help them with everything, and share them everything but still bite you unexpectedly. I have lots of experience on that and i have learned my lessons.

Never trust anyone of your personal life as someone has suggested earlier. And in case you have entrusted your personal life and later on you were treated as such... then don't worry cause you are glad you have known their true colors. Besides it is not your lost, it's theirs. coz they have lost a great person and a friend like you. Someone deserves your love and friendship. In addition to that, don;t worry/cry when someone or something is lost in your life because there is someone/something worthy is coming.

Experience is a good teacher. Don't take it for granted. Instead learn from it.

By anonymous• 22 Mar 2010 16:37
anonymous

i prefer frontbiter, it makes me happy....

By laurana• 22 Mar 2010 15:51
laurana

If someone is laughing, laugh with him,

If someone is singing, sing with him,

If someone is working, let him work!

By happygolucky• 22 Mar 2010 15:48
Rating: 4/5
happygolucky

and never disclose that you are QLing from office, it may come in handy for the backbiters...:)

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By Visper• 22 Mar 2010 15:41
Visper

i know there are backbiters here in our office.. and they are talking in front of the person using their own language..

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By Victory_278692• 22 Mar 2010 15:35
Victory_278692

a big list of back stabbers and got killed many times :(

Part of life, people loves hunting for survival...

By HABIBMDH• 22 Mar 2010 15:32
HABIBMDH

They are everywhere ,in Gulf it s the way of living..

By dashwoot• 22 Mar 2010 08:48
dashwoot

Snakes snakes snakes... i used to give a shit in the beginning...but i felt like im the one whoz feeding them. so i quite caring about all that shit...they called me a drug dealer, sale stolen cars, an alcoholic...etc.

Just keep your smile all the time and keep laughing in their faces on anything you hear even if it’s not funny lol...that would drive them crazy

By shera• 22 Mar 2010 07:32
shera

if they are making a story which is not true and can destroy me and my work offffff i'll have all her teeth remove....let's see if she can still bite... worse is she can not open her mouth at all...lol

By shera• 22 Mar 2010 07:26
shera

im happy with my life and maybe they're not..maybe they're just jealous..ouch!!!!

By anonymous• 5 Mar 2010 00:24
anonymous

in my previous office.. no DOGS but SNAKES... hizzzzz....

you'll never know when they will bite you...

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People's criticism and sarcasm can show the other side of you.. it tests your true attitude and character.

By azilana7037• 4 Mar 2010 23:38
Rating: 4/5
azilana7037

whatever nationality you are surrounded with in your place of work.

So, be wary....and MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS :)

By lost• 4 Mar 2010 09:13
Rating: 2/5
lost

there are lots of 'em here in my office and and they act as if they own this company... they are really good in making up stories about you to the boss! :)

By Joel Legaspi• 4 Mar 2010 08:41
Rating: 5/5
Joel Legaspi

1. keep yourself busy with work. don't mind your others as long as your boss is happy with what you are doing.

2. less talk less mistake. never disclose any of your personal things. the more they know about you, the more they have something to talk about.

3. avoid having too much personal calls and chatting during office hours. they can also look after this.

4. if you want to join with their chats during break time, give them a good story on what happened to your former officemate whom you slammed after you knew she / he was backbiting you. scare them. Show them you are not tnat kind and better for them to be very careful with you.

By somwerNdmiddle• 4 Mar 2010 07:46
Rating: 4/5
somwerNdmiddle

be sure to have anti-rabies vaccine

www.live365.com/stations/thevault85

By chinx_lady• 4 Mar 2010 06:54
chinx_lady

yep they flood here but i don't mind them.i have a life to live..

By azilana7037• 4 Mar 2010 06:30
Rating: 5/5
azilana7037

your officemates may be friendly to you and you to them but that does not necessarily means you're friends. It is much better if you keep your personal life PRIVATE...no need for them to know where and what what you and your other friends (or GF/BF) did the night before or over the weekend.

2nd tip: DO YOUR JOB and work...you're being paid to do so...why mind your officemates. You came to Qatar to work...

By drmana• 4 Mar 2010 06:24
drmana

If people are back biting about you, it just means you are doing good for yourself and they are jealous. So nothing to worry about.

"It is better to be hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not."

By anonymous• 4 Mar 2010 06:15
anonymous

back-biting is more of a girls' thing...be this in office or elsewhere..

By mjamille28• 4 Mar 2010 04:43
Rating: 4/5
mjamille28

no, i bite them first before they could even try..

By shajijahs• 4 Mar 2010 00:29
Rating: 5/5
shajijahs

I think if you are not noticed, you can go long in the position otherwise you will get bite automatically.

Dot.com, you are right! I got bite, but I don't care. If you have talent. Nothing to worry about.

By anonymous• 4 Mar 2010 00:25
anonymous

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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc

By anonymous• 4 Mar 2010 00:20
anonymous

There are no Dogs in my office.

"Live with passion, Die with style"

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