DO WE REALLY KNOW WHAT LOVE IS???
LOVE is more complicated than the human heart. When Blaise Pascal said: THE HEART HAS ITS REASONS WHICH REASONS KNOWS NOTHING OF. He really wanted to explain what love is. Love makes people do strange things, things that may seem unreasonable. Some people talk freely about love, as if they really know what it is. We see love depicted in great artworks, in literature, and in music. We see the many different faces of love as expressed by many different people through different mediums. But do we really know what love is? Can we trust ourselves when it comes to love? Are we really sure that the love we talk about is really what it is and not what it is not?
yes jencake and don't ask me why coz i can't answer you...sorry for that...:)
thanks for sharing ur thoughts. well appreciated..
Love is a complicated word which definition varies from person to person. But to me it's when you care about something or someone. You love someone when you care for him/her, same way you love mother earth when you care for her.
"I am not a native English speaker. So don't mock me for my grammar mistakes."
- anonymous
yes, LOVE!
there's no harm in trying. anyway, it's still nice to love and be loved!
Y can't love? That is impossible. Ugh!
yes sand im looking forward to that change i hope it will be so soon..inshallah!
LOVE...???
That's final, right?
lol Boston, so be it.
hotcake, you can't teach experience (Vegas, 'cause I don't steal other members' signatures).
Sandee is always right.
well what r u doing Boston, teach the kid, wipe out that kinda milk in his lips...lol..
chinx it isn't ruined, it's just different and you can change it again to be like it was..
Boston :))
marie and hotcake are right, sandee is wrong, as always.
nephi you don't know sandees nature..i can't say anything on his behalf but i doubt it..
you think so sand?and what do i gonna do.my life is ruin since he came..hate it!
Boston you got to be in love to make love else it's just sex..
yes indeed Boston...lol
At least you seem to understand it, marie, that's a good sign.
hear, hear... daddy boston has spoken .... such wise words :)
...listen to the sound of silence....
I can only give you one advice "kids": Don't talk about love, make it. Otherwise you'll never know.
Love is nothing to be described or explained, love is about feeling it, like the chill cold wind that touch ur spine and leave a shiver behind to remember.
now, now, kids behave... sandee might think he is the man of the hour here.. well let me see him,hhhhmmmmm,hhhmmm... gosh im joining the line. :)
care to join nephi? lol
...listen to the sound of silence....
"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness".
seems he is agood lover..what you think?????lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
chinx now you are starting to think like me, it's not healthy..
you go find for yourself...i told you i can't love...
chinx..
anywayz..lets find out that true love..hope we can find in qatar..what you think?
me i will not find him anymore coz i'm totally trap hehehe...
dont mention about my love chinx..dont want to remember..its just " my hell life" out there..
if girls wanna play..so do i..after all...
if you meant each other then you are for each other..
NO MRE SERIOUS RIGHT NOW..UNLESS I FIND MY SOULMATE..
we have the same questions jencake and hope an answer from love gurus here...
who is jimmimadi..how stupid i am...huhhuhu
lols neph....i can't tell nephi but i can vouch you that he is attractive like you...i think the perfect term for both of you is HUNK?anyway neph, who's your love one now?never heard from you yet..
Rough time smoothens the edges of your character and makes you a better person...
the best person who can answer this really is Jimmimadi.. :P
i hope so sand...i'm having a rough time now honestly...
yes you havent seen any fat indian..most of them are slim but have big tummy (stomach)..is that sandeep look like?nyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Rishimba - your definition of giving more to be happier sounds more like codependence than love.
As for my definition, I'll let you know when I find one.
lol sandeep...hahaha...no one will believe me either..;)
chinx every ending points to a new beginning..
well sand maybe we are kinda different but right now my life is over, love fools...:(
Shhhhh chinx don't reveal my looks here...
ugh, that's odd!
yah i agree neph, i haven't seen a male fat indian yet..sandeep is slim and has seductive eyes.LOLZ!
nephi my love is just not skin deep...
chinx you can never feel the same way about love as me, trust me on that..
why sandeep you dont have the physique? common
indians are more body concious...arent you?
chinx- is that mean that were at the same level? huhhuhuhu....want to see sandeep and let me compare..lolzzzzz
nephi, you and sandeep are handsome..confirm!
lol 220 im in no mood to explain right now, but if she really must know, bing it.. :P
Boston...I thought even with that vitious circle I was doing better than Sandeep's 'love-suffer-love- happy-love-unhappy-love'....lol... think I got it right or may be not...
220V...lol... I am ok now...
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One life to live, live it to the fullest.
ok..bye all...tym to break my fast...\
eid mubarak to all...
lol sandeep i know you personally and i know how you feel about love...i think i do have same feeling.now i don't know how to love.
We are not rivals nephi... Anyway if you define love as per physique then you can never be my rival..
mjamille... how selfish can u get... ok ..don't say another word,,,keep it 2 urself...
i dont want sandee be my rival..is he hunkier than me?
i don't know about you, but i know what it is... now don't ask me to explain further too... :P
love is not perfect, it can make mistakes, but always tries
lol nephi...i can't tell you on air...its kinda secret but it might be both of you!;)
snessy... cute... ;)
chinx you know how to love and you are dumb, lol... No offense ;)
chinx, when you're confused it's already starting.
the your talking about the two person is that ME and SANDEEP?
marie you said you are not sleepy, you liar....
Anyway let all the comments come in then will summarize...
Boston I will take that as a compliment...
what do you mean sandeep?you confuse me?:(
happygolucky...i am sorry for u... and ur loss...
That's a vitious circle, happy.
Quote from a child... "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."
*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****
Love is when you are no more yourself..and even you know that you are not yourself you can do nothing about it because even if you try to be yourself you cannot be yourself...
Yes...I think that is what is love...lol
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One life to live, live it to the fullest.
sandeep, i'm too sleepy to read and analyze. what was that?
...listen to the sound of silence....
That's so cute, sandee.
there are only 2 people that i love but aside from them is no place in my heart...im so mean!
"i dont know how to love..."
ive sayed it a couple of times to her...and she got impressed...
ok beautiful ladys and gents... have fun enjoy ur eid holidays... thanks to jencake...it was nice to meet u...and remember.. to listen... "love comes again" by tiesto
peace.
chinx I know you that's why saying you do..
why not here 220?i dont think i'm capable to love a person..i only care that's all..
220v, you wouldn't understand what I'd tell you.
No, she doesn't, sandee!
no sandeep u knew me well...:(
i can explain chinx...(but personally) lol
you do chinx..
i dont know how to love...
nobody asked u boston... if u still wanna say...feel free..
I know what it is, but I'm not gonna tell you!
jencake I think you misunderstood my post, I am not bitter, I actually posted a quote from one of my fav celebrities and 90 % of the people find it funny..
NO coz im loveless now...lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
true... something that happens... something that u can't make... however or wenever u feel like...(except for luv making..lol)
don't be too bitter!
no, not wrongly - it will just come. believe me! :)
Yes, agree with you!!! Love will find it's own way. :)
yeah jencake....lol
have been looking to every nook and cranny to no avail. maybe i defined it wrongly? ")
...listen to the sound of silence....
khawaga...there are some other 'feel-good' hormones associated with love but these really dont carry any meaning to us...
lets hear your version of love..i am inquisitive to know what you think about it..
for me, love is essentially.. GIVING.. all you have for the happiness and welfare of the person you love..
the best part in love is that the more you GIVE, the more you are happy and satisfied..
if one has the above feeling on a consistent basis towards someone... he or she is in love.
difficult to find?
"We know what we are wiling to do when we love someone/something..."
perfect...
"wen the heart starts resting is wen the brain starts working..." so luv is essential in moste cases... wether its for someone or something...
...no.
love is a word i can try to define but a difficult thing to find...
...listen to the sound of silence....
We know what we are wiling to do when we love someone/something...
Ofcourse we know what love is even if we don't think so..it may be hard to write it down though..Plus it has its own look for each of us..
sandee ... r u high?.. u make sense though...like we all know... love is not stable for vivid word as it is...
rishimba - I did. Specifically the bit about its effect on rats... a species I don't normally associate with emotions like love. However, you are the resident expert in this field, so I defer to your expertise.
To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.
- Woody Allen
the best i've heard is ...
love is an extacy...(i luv extacy as it is..finally there is a replacement called luv in doha..lol)
the worste i've heard is...
love is a depression...(which happens in rational cases)
thats left up to us to let u know... and findout right jen?
thanks! but i don't think i am interesting!
there's always love - explore!
Jencake...
u r interesting... not ur topic... but ur topic is fun overall... not for all though...
ouch, i know the feeling! moving on is the best thing to do.. i know love sometimes is very complicated. :) eventually, i will know the real definition of it.
sorry, i really dont know what love is....
to be honest i just wanted to know ur perception about love... just go on!
"I think the more we talk about love the more we make it complicated and shallow"
agreed again...
but leave some room for the ones who wants to share wat they think about love.. maybe something i or even u din't know about...so let there be no Full Stop.
220v . I think the more we talk about love the more we make it complicated and shallow. khalas, its a feeling that u cant desribe by words. Full Stop
LeBaNeSeMaN defines love as a dream... agread...
i wudn't hesitate to say... i luv my mum,dad,bro,sis,friends,,, but wen it comes to her....
i am still confused...
love is just an unstable feeling... sometyms it even confuses u with hate...its that misunderstandable...
i've always been alergic to luv since i last brokup in 2004...for how much i have understood this word...
it was perfect at 1 tym that turned out to be nothing in the end.
for those who r still in luv..be dedicated & be strong.
moste importantly.. be URSELF.
Yalla , a new thread about "LOVE"
Grow up guys and wake up from dreams :D
khawaga,
i just read the page you are have referred... please read it fully.. and not just the first line..!!
check out some other sources..khawaga, i have read these in our course books..
rishimba, it seems I am always disagreeing with you. Really, I am sorry about that. But according to this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin these hormones would also make a woman "in love" with going into labor. Hmmm...
If you analyse love like that then you will always be confused about it.
cant say..what is love but let me tell you what happens in us when we are in love..
love is a 'feel-good' feeling in the brain of a person when there is a secretion of love hormones known as oxytocin and vasopressin. the levels of these hormones increase in the blood if somebody is said to be in love.
it has been proved that the level fluctuates and mostly increases when the loved one is around..
Yes and NO..
Don't ask me to explain it further..