Depression and Suicidal tendancy
Since i am coward and do not have the guts to use my ID, so i created a new ID for this. I am suffering from a lot depression these days since last 3 months. I am now planning to put a end for this. Can anybody suggest a way to die silently without the chance of surviving. I read a forum yesterday that was suggesting'
Hook up a helium tank to a mask that you wear. Lay down and breath normally. You fall asleep and never wake up. Utterly painless.
But i am not aware where to arrange this.
Hey dear don't even think about it
why not you have nothing to loos...... it a good way to recuite in th emiddle east,,, PS bring your own vest and long coat plz
maybe we can use you????????
Your life is a gift from God don't give it up so easily. There are so many people out there that are depressed and have these thoughts (even if they don't admit it). Suicide is not cowardly it takes alot of guts to go through with it but what are you trying to prove? Remember God only puts on a soul as much as that soul can bare--no more. You can get through this.
When life gives you lemons, go for the grapefruit instead and throw them at your problems--it will hurt them more.
I hope reading all these posts has given you some perspective that everyone shares these feelings at one time or another. Its how you handle them that defines who you really are:)
Be well.
R u still alive?
whatever....
are your real??/ do you know how to fly a plane?????
I WAS TAUGHT FROM MY GRANDMUM 2 THINGS:
1. WHEN YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING AND YOU ARE IN GOOD HEALTH, ALL YOUR 5 SENSES WORKING PROPERLY (I.E. YOU ARE NEITHER CRIPPLE, NOR BLIND NOR DEAF) THEN START YOUR DAY WITH A SMILE. THIS MAKES YOU LOOK AT LIFE TO BE MORE COLOURFUL;
2. ALWAYS LOOK AT YOUR GLASS HALF FULL!!! NEVER THE OTHER WAY ROUND, I.E. HALF EMPTY. BESIDES SOME TIMES IF YOUR GLASS IS ONLY WET, CONSIDER YOURSELF VERY VERY LUCKY.
I CANNOT GIVE YOU ANY FURTHER JUDGEMENT, BUT IF YOU ARE YOUNG THEN IT IS ONLY A PHASE YOU ARE PASSING IN YOUR LIFE AND THINGS WILL CHANGE: START FOLLOWING EG 1., IF YOUR ARE BIG OR OLD, THEN YOU ARE .....
I FINISH BUT YOU UNDERSTOOD ME.
ISLAM helped me a lot to fight depression i was really hurt but Alhamdulillah ( praise be to Allah ) i know where i stand :)
you can arrange this at your own room so you can sleep peacefully. But you better think more than a million times before doing it and question yourself.
What will happen next? will it solve your problem?
What will your family feel if you die?
What will happen to your wife/kids/family if you die? Much worst if you are the only person helping your family.
Then create your conclusion, if the answer to that question are not relevant, then go. But I can conclude now, you are thinking too selfish. Think about your family before committing suicide. If that is only family problem we can talk, but if that is money problem go find another friend. hehehe!
Every body goes through what you are undergoing some time or the other, they look for solutions , seek help/Guidance and get out of problems , this is what life is all about. Life will be messerable if you have no challanges and challanges are to be faced and resolved and not have a negative thaught as you have at this moment.
The world would have less than 50% of todays population if all had your ideas of solutions to problems. You are selfish and self centered or you would not thing this way, your death may end your worry , but you put worry , suffering , agony , grief, loss etc to all others who care for you . Please think positively. God bless
Don't try an electric oven like I did. All I got was a bad tan:o(
Check this out, she's doing some research on suicides in Doha. Maybe she can help you.
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/2298098
hi darude :-p
Xena, he is looking for attention, someone who seriously contemplates suicide will not discuss it on a public forum, and become a target for everyone's opinions.This person has been active on QL, under another ID, so he knows what kind of comments to expect from QLers.
People get bored doing the same thing over and over again. Is it the same as depression? Its not.
Is kokod reading what everyone's telling him?
so many labourers work here day in and day out for mere dirhams, they are all depressed, but the thought of being with family one day, providing a decent life for their family, is motivation for them to continue working.
So kokod, what are you depressed about, besides being tired of making money?
Actually the problems you are facing, though undoubtedly painful and grave, are not uncommon among expats all over the world. They tend to feel that they are alone,overworked, that their family too only cares about their money and not about their well being etc. You need to seek help from a proper doctor and psychiatric too cos while your symptoms seem to suggest mental anguish sometimes you could very well be having a physical sickness as well.
Don't even think about suicide again! As a mother I can tell you most parents never want to live to bury their own child. Would you like that your child was to kill herself while you were unaware she was even contemplating such a horror? God forbid! And how sad would your parents be thinking they were perhaps a reason you took your life? Your wife may very well be devastated too.
I know my own hubby was terribly depressed when he first came here and was unable to take us with him. He suffered just like you did to be honest but Alhamdullilah he's faith in God and Islam prevented him from ever contemplating taking his own life.
Pay attention to all those on this forum who are advising you seriously and do what it takes to enrich your life and if staying away from your family is so painful just go back. Money is not everything your health and life is.
All the best and may God have mercy on you and guide you to do what's right!
@LP nice suggestion :-/
@colt r u really worried that he doesn't know how to swim? hehe
kokod u dont have to be depressed. QL is here to cheer u up! talk to LP & Colt and am sure u'll change ur mind :)..am not very sure about Rizk tho, Colt said to stay away (just kidding Rizk)
well everyone has a problem in thier life but suicide is not the solution. The solution is to make that person commit suicide who is giving u all these problems :))
wellsaid!
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Please update me if your suicide is succesful, as i want it too today :( Just Kidding!
I am also facing a not so good month but i think i am too stubborn for hell so i think suicide is not an option for me :) Chill out my friend (*hugs*)
I know how you feel, no family and true friends are around and it is truly depressing but hope, solution, and new beginning is always around the air., so take a gasp of it and stop thinking about suicide.
I might Agree with the majority of people that some threads might look stupid or non sense ...
but before we attack others and humiliate them , why don't we look into things from a different angle .
Not everybody might have the same level of thinking of maturity we have and we should be thankful for what we have and use it to help others not the opposites .
KOKOD .. through checking ur profile you miss your family and you seems you hate your work and wants to leave but you have no chance since you have some commitments to your family or your facing a problem with your sponsor .
if your wife is not helping you or ready to be next to you , trust me she s not worth for sacrifices and if your having a problem in work the world is open for you .. check for new opportunities .
for people who contemplate suicide....
Posting it here means you are looking for attention.... I have a niece who regularly takes tablet overdoses and then runs to her mom to tell her relishing the fact that her mother fusses over her and panics...takes her to the hospital and sees to her needs.... my niece is 34yrs - married with one child....
Have you been to a doctor to check if you are perhaps Bi-Polar?
is in the block so nice to see you ;P
Why if you wanna die then showing others depressed or complexed people way to suiside. Look tell u what ! no problem in this world exists which hasn't got solution to deal with.
Greatest pitiful is not you lose is when u lose confidence and urself.
Ok tell your problem or if you like discuss with me i'll let you out i'll show you the way.
Trust in you and you'll be the ALEXANDAR of your world........
kokod, I know you are depressed and dont see any way out. But consider how badly it is going to affect your loved ones. Your act can change their lives, may be you have earned enough for them, but do you guarantee their future. Money can be robbed or lost, what then?
I would suggest you meet new people, make new friends and take days off from work and reunite with your family and friends. Believe me you will find that they depend on you, they value you. It is not only your life, but so many others are living because of you.
Forget what is happening now, try to recall the good things that have happened to you.
May Allah give you strength to overcome this and I know you can do it. All QLers are with you.
by the way....you are not done with making the money for your family....if your parents would have given up, they would not be enjoying what you are trying to send to them.............
and dont assume that everyone wants to earn more money than the others.......everybody wants to earn more for himself or herself to make their own and their family's life better.
what you earn or do not earn makes no difference to anybody other than you and your family.if you act like a nut, its your family who will be crying for ever, wondering what they did wrong. no one else will care.
stop comparing yourself with others.
get a life... !!!!
you have already started the process for your treatment.
you have acknowledged that you are depressed. now instead of looking for the easy solution, go to a doctor who can help you.
its all within you, its all a mind game...........and stop looking at others and assuming that they are happy.........they may be more miserable than you are,.....but try to put on a happy face to feel good.
instead of repeating to yourself that you are depressed and want to end it all..........keep repeating to yourself that you are perfectly fine and can overcome this feeling.
are you the only one in the world trying to make money and support his wife, child and parents......thats life.
oh...did you see your daughter's photo this morning, or your wife......or your parents.......who have struggled hard to bring you up.
are you sure that you are depressed and not just bored? the fact that you are admitting to suicidal tendencies actually shows that you might not want to do it and you are seeking attention.........just seek it from the right place.
Consult a Psychologist immediately they can help you to give mental strength then you will be alright. Pray to God there is no more to say.
post this on fb. there r millions f userz der n surely u'll find classy ideas for a quite suicide...
u r a coward but u def r more brainless to ask fer social opinion on suicide attempts inspite f fighting n finding a reason 2 live..
Listen, you are not a computer so that you can reboot the life game you are playing now. Once it's gone that's it and remember death will come to you when it is the right time for you.
For you what importnat now is to find a way to solve your problems and I hope there will be a way for it. Spend time with some of your good friends, go out with them, read good books, pray regularly and eat good food. Think of your daughter, wife and your parents who are relying on you.Once you take your life, there is no coming back.If you are considering something as drastic as ending your life then you must speak to counselor.
May God bless you!
Why don't you try for a change, go somewhere... not with your family, if you are tired of them, any of your good friend... spend some days, relax your self, hope you will be out soon from the current situation.. but Dead/Suicide is not the solution... when there are alot ov other solutions, then why trying Suicide option....
You just need a break. Go home for a month vacation and relax with your family. Seek a doctor as well to cure your depression.
just think of your family, your wife and daughter, who will protect them if you'll end up your life? why not share your problem/s maybe qlers can help you... but whatever your problem is, im sure it's not the worst!
DONT DO IT BROTHER!
may God give you strength to overcome your problem...
Hmmm, mortals with insatiable need.
My advise dude; take a trip to refugee camp in Somalia, spend sometime with dem refugees,let them share their experience with you then take a trip to Paris or Hongkong or Maldives, any Island will do.
Compare the places you visited with the grace u had to move around, spend that money you made.
Don't be a loser and a coward. There's nothing more pathetic than giving up on yourself. Taking your own life, no matter how painless you want it to be, will not solve anything and will only cause your loved ones problems and grief. Talk to someone..a close friend, relative or maybe a professional. It helps to let your feelings out, clear your head and try to solve your problems...Cheer up! Life is short so enjoy it anyway you can:)
why dont u try to hook him up to one of those ladies you know... :-)
@Colt45...good advice
LoL Colt !
Why Thailand ? go visit Ramada Parking lot after 08:00pm and u will be happy for the rest of ur night ! :)
I feel suicidal every time I hear a Celine Dion track
that was fookin hilarious :-))
Himalaya whatever you're taking is BS. You need professional help and prescription meds that will stabilize your mood.
Why don't you go on a roll and start spending that money you earned. Spending makes people happy too, go to Thailand, get yourself a hooker, go sky-diving, scuba diving... whatever makes you happy dude.
if you do this,is halo on the head included?
http://www.kalamullah.com/Books/purpose%20of%20life.pdf
Dear Brother - I ask Allaah to bless you peace with Guidance and truth. and to solve your your hardships and I ask Him to show the meaning of life / Purpose of life.
If you can spend 10 mins to read this link i would really appreciate. atleast think the care we showing to u even if we dont know you in person. so please read. It is about purpose of life.
http://www.kalamullah.com/Books/purpose%20of%20life.pdf
Please go through this link.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “No pain, hardship, sickness or grief befalls a believer, not even worry that befalls him, but some of his bad deeds will be expiated.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5642) and Muslim (2573).
A person should ponder and realise that he is not the only one in this world who is affected by calamity and hardship. Calamities befell the greatest of mankind, namely the Prophets, Messengers and the righteous.
The believer has to be patient and to seek the help of Allaah, may He be exalted, and understand that no matter what hardship befalls him in this world -- no matter how severe it is -- the punishment of the Hereafter is worse than it. It is not acceptable according to anyone who is of right mind to run away from the heat of the desert and throw himself into the fire. How can he flee from temporary hardship and difficulty -- which inevitably will come to an end -- to an eternal punishment which has no end?
Al-Tirmidhi (2399) narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Calamities will continue to befall believing men and women in themselves, their children and their wealth, until they meet Allaah with no burden of sin.”
http://www.islam-guide.com/purpose-of-life.htm
Da have you seen the cues at Qtel? He just needs to join one of those and his soul will leave him just as fast there.
go jump from qtel tower by the time you hit the ground your soul would have left you.
i do not know what to write, but if i try to go to city center or tlak to my office mates, i feel more depressed i see them happy. I do not feel like eating so my heath and work is also affected. i tried himalya ant-depression medicine also but i think since i cannot share the vows it is eating me inside. More than the problems i feel tired of making money. i know my daughetr, wife and parents will be sad but i have dpne my part of making money for them and i thik thats want eveybody wants to earn money more than other is making.
Agree with elishamzo
Lolz - LP
troll
honestly man,i feel you as if there's nothing left from you to stay in this kind of world we live in....
now,take a deep breath and ask yourself is this really what i want to do,end my life? aren't you're lucky that u were here,there is a purpose for that.
whatever problems u are encountering now try to analyze each of it,i just don't get it,why it takes 3 months for u to decide this... :(
try to visit any Psychiatrist available here in Doha.
yes u said it right TINKERBELL10..i hope he will be able to find the solution in his depression thru your message..Life is good,enjoy it! Have some fun with friends,family & gain new friends..
I have no idea which relegion you follow....but ending your life like this is going to give you more pain even after death....in Islam if a person commits suicide then after his death he will be asked to keep repeating the suicide attempt till eternity....nothing can be more painful than that.
This life is going to end anyway u just have to deal with your problems for few or more years but if eternity will suck than u will have no other way to go.....think about it
There is help available go to Rumailah Clinic near the Jeddah Flyover, they know how to deal with this very well and are extremely kind. They can put you back on your feet again within days and they are professional.
but what if he doesn't know how to swim? :-(
LP has been watching Titanic again
Lmao LP ! with even one eye, u give nice suggestions....:)
You can swim out in the sea. After one hour you will get colder. Your brain will lack oxygen because the blood will concentrate in the vital organs, and you will die peacefully. And with this you can contribute as food for the endangered sharks, too.
but stay away from Rizks :-(
Dont call urself a coward, instead find ways to solve your problems/issues...there aint any problems tat a person can find a solution to ?
Go out, make some new friends or ask some suggestions from your friends. Spend some time with your parents,wife kids etc...M sure you will change ur mind !
Cheers man.
Since You where searching hard to find a way to die silently ..
why Dont you search hard for a way to solve your problems , and bring back happiness for your life ..
find some friends to help you and discuss your problems ..
there are meds that you can take to make you feel better you know that right?