Is casual sex a stress buster?

Dohaman007
By Dohaman007

Anything and everything is fair in the name of 'sex'… casual sex to be precise! One-night stands many believe have the potential of possessing a feel good factor. Be it a sexual encounter with a stranger or just a wild act of passion to kill boredom, casual sex induces a high in people often making them forget the drudgery of their lives. The pressure of urban life, loneliness and boredom in relationships often leaves one feeling adrift and sidelined. In such situations, casual sex becomes an easy way out for them to forget their daily routine problems. While the sex maybe immensely gratifying as it often comes with no strings attached, such casual sexual encounters may end up causing emotional turbulence and feelings of guilt in the person concerned. Is it right to say that sex on-the-side provides the much needed kick? Can having sex with a stranger lift your mood or does it bear grave psychological side-effects?

This debate is going on in timesof india.

Source:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/debateshow/3581403.cms

What's your opinion?

By Stone Cold• 18 Aug 2009 21:26
Stone Cold

casual sex...aaah all that licks..sucks...lots of extras

By LeisaF779• 18 Aug 2009 18:06
LeisaF779

I'd say yes lol

By mmyke• 18 Aug 2009 15:26
mmyke

thinking about this one???

By kareristang pinoy• 18 Aug 2009 15:26
Rating: 2/5
kareristang pinoy

hmmmm i will try it tonight... lol

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KEEP MOVING!!!

By Intelligent• 18 Aug 2009 15:20
Intelligent

Not sure how affective it is but sure about the side affects.

Peace

By yv2r• 18 Aug 2009 15:16
yv2r

yv2r

please think twice before getting in to action.

some time back we used to hear that every copy taken from a copier will have numbering device just to denote how many impressions are taken for next maintainance,where as in human beings no such numbering for evey time they have sex to know how many times it is used may be legitimate or with neighbour partners.

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 15:16
anonymous

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 15:14
anonymous

you get some extra income back home as well.........

By yv2r• 18 Aug 2009 15:12
yv2r

yv2r

A person out from family in another place or country just to have casual sex to release his/her stress, imagine for a minuite, if their partner back home also try for some casual sex with the neighbour what happens for the family bondage,love affection etc etc, will it not collapse

By marie_2• 18 Aug 2009 15:10
marie_2

you said it already...Just a wild act of passion.

Guilty but stress-free ha..... well, it happens a lot nowadays. Not debatable anymore. Don't agree though, but It's personal choice

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 14:49
anonymous

Casual sex reduces self-esteem and it is a 100% truth.........................and I am extremely against gay marriages in India as I don't want more competition in our Dowry market.I mean if a woman doesn't pay dowry, you can burn her. But man to man, the question is who will kill whom?You see Indian society is not ready for it.

By Mandilulur• 18 Aug 2009 14:41
Mandilulur

I prefer a little recreational shopping.

MAndi

By blippy• 18 Aug 2009 14:38
blippy

casual sex is a temporary stress buster with consequences that can be lifetime stress giver

By britexpat• 18 Aug 2009 14:28
britexpat

You devil you... Don't worry, your secret is safe with us..

By dashingwhitesergeant• 18 Aug 2009 14:01
Rating: 4/5
dashingwhitesergeant

If I was working in my home country 100% of the time where my wife, kids, parents, brother and sister all live; if I was home every night and had most weekends off work and could spend time with my family; if I was thoroughly integrated into the society as a member of a society, club or organisation etc; if this were the case it's most likely staying faithful to one's partner is much easier. The problem is when you work away from home in foreign countries for long periods of time. You get bored, lonely etc. In some countries there are many opportunities to meet people of the opposite sex. Under all these circumstances it is far more likely you will flirt with the opposite sex or end up having a sexual encounter. The only thing is to make sure your partner doesn't find out.

By GodFather.• 18 Aug 2009 13:34
GodFather.

This thread is not for the underage.. Rizks.. Now go back to sleep..

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By Rizks• 18 Aug 2009 13:31
Rizks

So Much of Sex in this Thread.

M feeling HOT !!! :(

By GodFather.• 18 Aug 2009 13:29
GodFather.

BritExpat..

I thought casual Sex = a quickie

Formal Sex = all the above you wrote plus, playing before the big entry?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By mjamille28• 18 Aug 2009 13:24
mjamille28

lol britex, i almost choked on fries :P

By britexpat• 18 Aug 2009 13:23
britexpat

Casual Sex - shorts , t-Shirt, sandals

Formal sex - leather trouser, whip, studded belt, mask,

By Davidtaylor• 18 Aug 2009 13:22
Davidtaylor

casual sex a thing of the past ahhhh

By GodFather.• 18 Aug 2009 13:21
GodFather.

What is Casual Sex and what is formal Sex?

Sex is Sex right?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By Gypsy• 18 Aug 2009 13:19
Gypsy

I guess I like to see shits everywhere. :P

By Straight Arrow• 18 Aug 2009 13:11
Straight Arrow

Casual sex outside the marriage cricumstances will lead to a very bad sad hard ending and finally break the nearst person to you mother, father, wife, husband, brother, sister or all of them.

In my opinion Casual sex outside the marriage cricumstances is a shit and who support it is a person who likes to see shits every where.

By Stone Cold• 18 Aug 2009 13:04
Stone Cold

For some this casual sex with stranger will comes by hard. Try mastubation. Sometimes it gives same result and satisfaction

By fhranzis067• 18 Aug 2009 12:59
fhranzis067

guys are starting comin' out of the closet... here they come!! ahahaha

"Just because it is... IT DOESN'T MEAN IT SHOULD BE.. "

By SHAJIV• 18 Aug 2009 12:55
SHAJIV

Khalid saw the aswer from Britexpat, he couldn't sit for a week after the act, this makes him start talking about gay/lesbian thing!

By Gypsy• 18 Aug 2009 12:27
Rating: 2/5
Gypsy

I'm not a big fan of casual sex myself, and definitely finds it creates more stress then in relieves. But hey, if it works for you I suppose it's better then cigarettes.

By mjamille28• 18 Aug 2009 12:22
mjamille28

lol why has this thread into a gay/lesbian thing... :P

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 12:19
anonymous

Oh Khalid, you will NEVER get it. I pity your existence.

By Straight Arrow• 18 Aug 2009 12:17
Straight Arrow

Why so many people are aginst nauture or what is called common sence?

Why some people want to allow man to man sex and woman to woman sex?

If we consider any man is a positive charge and any woman is a negative charge, then the positive will be attracted to the negative and vice versa.

Then which charge shall we give any gay / Lesibian?

If we consider it neutral then nothing will be attracted to it.

From chemistry point of view it is possible to change the neutral charge and make it positive or chemical by some special chemical processes or reaction.

By kinimoto• 18 Aug 2009 11:51
kinimoto

yeah sure... but it can't be applied to all. case to case basis... I have friends doing this deed but they are so well.

"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"

By yv2r• 18 Aug 2009 11:46
Rating: 4/5
yv2r

yv2r

Casual sex with whom is very important,if it is with their legal partner it will stress release, if with an unknown or stranger Stress is increased with fear,guilt,as britpat said side effects for one week,why unwanted invitation,many ways to release

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 11:37
anonymous

..the reactions of so called 'sexually liberated' folks from the west on the issues related to sexuality and the debates in India. Talk about stereotyping...lol...

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By GodFather.• 18 Aug 2009 11:35
GodFather.

Modernising India at what cost?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By britexpat• 18 Aug 2009 11:34
britexpat

Gay parades, legalizing gay sex, now casual sex for stress relief..

What is India coming to ???? This would never have happened in the days of the Raj !

By leilany2• 18 Aug 2009 11:31
leilany2

If your middle name is "D.W.B.H."(Don't Worry Be Happy with A.I.D.S.,Hepatitis,etc...)go for a one night stand and release your stress until you die with the disease.

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 11:14
anonymous

different societies will definitely have different views about it. In my view, casual or not, it's still sex! Is there another one?

"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"

By dev.in.doha• 18 Aug 2009 11:09
Rating: 3/5
dev.in.doha

Everything desirable is not advisable.....

dEV,

eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)

By smoke• 18 Aug 2009 10:59
smoke

Casual cheques always seems to work wonders for me at times of stress. Anyone?

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By FriedChicken• 18 Aug 2009 10:57
FriedChicken

I am tense today!!!!!

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Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedChicken - Vol II (September,2008)

By GODSGRACE• 18 Aug 2009 10:53
GODSGRACE

Belive me it is........

It feels relaxed, no more hyper bahviour. Stranger, non- stranger any one.

dont take me wrong guys..its not my hobby to relieve stress in such a way on a regular basis....

By fhranzis067• 18 Aug 2009 10:20
Rating: 2/5
fhranzis067

pinoyaccountant is right.. risks is everything dude! and brit.. why don't you try a lady next time?? that way, sitting wouldn't be a problem anymore!

hey, just kidding... :D

"Just because it is... IT DOESN'T MEAN IT SHOULD BE.. "

By anonymous• 18 Aug 2009 10:13
anonymous

..proper precautions...

EDITED: Let me add - I would not do it. but for those who are into it. ;)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By pinoyaccountant• 18 Aug 2009 10:12
Rating: 4/5
pinoyaccountant

come on. It is just for a thrill seeker!!!

If you do it, you must be ready for the consequences.

"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."

By britexpat• 18 Aug 2009 10:04
Rating: 4/5
britexpat

It can have dire side effects or even behind effects..

Last time I had casual sex with a stranger, I couldn't sit for a week :O(

By fhranzis067• 18 Aug 2009 09:59
Rating: 5/5
fhranzis067

Well.. sex isn't the only escape goat we can get, we can enjoy with some other things, besides... having sex with a stranger/s needs a lot of guts and risks of course.

The bottomline is... anything you do..you have to be responsible.

"Just because it is... IT DOESN'T MEAN IT SHOULD BE.. "

By mjamille28• 18 Aug 2009 09:56
mjamille28

with a stranger? maybe some agrees, i dont. my advise to them, careful careful...

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