being mother,having a baby
before ; i was just thinking when i was 1st month pregnant and the father of my baby left me..i was thinking how i will live alone with this baby in my stomach... but i didn’t give up with the help of believing him , he gave me strength i just thnk about that there’s another man beside me and will take care of me and my baby (GOD). After 8 months and 3 days i delivered my baby normal... and she is so beautiful and healthy...Im so thankful that god protect us in everything that could possibly happened on that time…. Now im gona face a new trial on how I can raise my baby and how will I protect her, how I will comport her and be with her in times of she needs me a (mother beside her) I’m scared that my baby will hate me when she grow up. I change a lot when she came in my life everything on me is changed the feelings and specially what’s on my mind is only to give her a better future but the question is how I can handle this alone hope I can bring her here with me but in this place is really impossible… I miss her so much and im dying missing her...i though before being a mother is so easy but now I realized its hard.. but there’s a one thing I can say about being a mother the feelings that I never felt before I never been happy like dis … so happy… I made a mistake loving a man like him… but I dont regret that im having this little angel with me…
I’m really sad seeing a baby abandoned by their mother and throwing them in trash and some are -----.. … ((Stop Abortion)) ….. it is not a solution…
at least u found already the right man.. wish u the best god bless u ....
I was 20 and about to pursue my medical education (i wanted to be an OB-GYNE)but I got pregnant. I had to skip a semester and lessen my subject load so I could carry my pregnancy and still study. I was 7 months pregnant when my parents found out and wanted it aborted. I told them, I would rather you disown me than kill my baby.
The father of my daughter is a weakling, a mama's boy...and though I knew the stigma of being a single mother of an illegitimate child...I refused to marry the guy bcoz I dont want to be tied to a marriage because I got knocked up.
I waited 4 years for the guy to mature, grow up and be the man, instead, I heard he got married to another woman of the same faith (Iglesia ni Cristo). it devastated me, but I moved on.
3 years later, i fell in love...and we lived together and only after we had a son, i found out he was married with 2 daughters...SHOCK THE SYEETTT OUT OF ME.
Nonetheless, I moved on...scratched and scraped to earn a living for my 2 kids. 7 year I worked and when I got the opportunity to go abroad, I went to Qatar not knowing what. And I did went through a lot of shyett here.
Now, I'm ok, a great job with a good pay. I'm getting married very soon and maybe go home and be with my kids.
Its gonna be a long road with twists and turns, we will fall down...but we will prevail if we persevere.
You got a friend here, girl :)
I just want to let other girls know that having this kind of life is really hard but they need to be strong and abortion is not a solution for it... coz in this days lots of Filipina abandoning their baby ... specially here in the middle east .... if this happened to them i want them to be strong and face it .... be strong .. they dont need to abort the baby ... :) baby is the best thing in our life .. having them is like u r so much rich .... :)
My big sister too is a single parent. And though I know it's tough to be both father and mother to your child, it's still both rewarding and an exemplary act. I know how much my sister has endured of trials and difficulties in her duties towards her son, but she has not regretted her decision. May Allah have mercy on you and your baby, and always guide you to doing what's right,with ease!
:) nice to read ur story and happy you have a baby.
We do understood the situation. Better to keep your detailed story in private :)
It will be good for your and to protect the privacy of your child.
Take care :)
if i will stay with her in philippines no one will support her.. cant find job in philippines specially that i have problem in my eyes... the father of my baby is a palestine and working in AL FAZAA he run on the resposiblities... and even to accept his baby he dont want ... he is kind of man who really dont have a heart... yeah thats wat i scared for that maybe der will be a distance in our relationship ... :( ... i'm dying missing her .. the hardest feeling i ever feel :(
Let people who decide to abort study from you, and Congrats...
Congratulations!!!
Why are u leaving ure daughter alone and why that man left u. ofcourse been a mom is something no one can feel or knows how sweet is it except moms... anyway hope that she brings to u happiness and am sure she will forgive u for not been with her .. am just afraid she wont recognize u becoz of distance and she will be more attached to the person who takes care of her n live with her .. this is life just be strong and remember that u left something sweet behind waiting for his mom to come n give him tenderess and love . best of luck my dear.
CongratS!!! u indeed are the brave one.... i pray Allah (The God) blesses you and the little princess all the way... aameen.
Congratulations.. Hope you brings yo a lifetime of joy and happiness..