Women not asking loan on their boyfriends
By heero_yuy2 •
I don't get it. What's with some women who already had their boyfriends do not ask for a loan on them but rather ask money on their other friends? I thought the logic of having a boyfriend is to love or trust each other, and he must be the closest person you can rely on by now (other than your parents or siblings). But no. Then why do some women get to have a boyfriend in the first place if they know they're not willing to ask them lover for some temporary important needs or such?
but not only the lady borrow money from theire BoyFriend some man also borrow money from their Girlfriend....... so what do you mean about this!!!!!
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seems like theres a slight change of tone in this thread. it suddenly became too serious. hahaha!!!
anyway I'd borrow money from my gf. she can even put an interest on it. :)
if youre in a serious relationship you need trust. and lending money and paying up can establish trust. if he/she didnt pay up, that means your beau is a con. but either way, i would rather lose that money than spend my life with a con, ryt?
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I think if you and your BF or GF have a very close relationship, and you need the money, they should already know that you need this money.
ie: if your in school and need to pay for some books and you don't have all the money for these books.
I am more than sure that you would of spoke to your lover about this, and it's your lover's duty man or women that if they have the money they offer the money to you, either on borrow status or as a gift.
But if it isn't a relationship like that, most likely you and that person will not last.
Other than that if its just because this person wants some money to go out to a party or something silly like that, you should have your own money to do things like that.
Also, I seen it a lot in this country where women just want a man to buy them things just because. A cell phone, a computer clothes. That is not a boyfriend that is a parent. Stop using men!!! And if men do that too, that is sad!
It's good if you will borrow from the bank but if you will borrow from your friend that's a problem for me.
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as much as possible... i'd rather go to the bank than put the headache to other person... but for small amount, it depends like if i left my wallet home or i dont have a change...
And ooohhh...i don't respect guys who ask money from girls. They looked really cheap!I don't care if they really need it for something important. You're a guy...don't be such a pussy!Find your way out!!!But then again, that's just my thoughts=D
I will never borrow money from my bf!Even when i really need it for important things...NO!Will not do it!
Though sometimes its really tempting when he offered to help =P...but still i cant accept it like that=D
I borrowed some money from my best friend once and it made me feel horrible till i paid her back. From then onwards, ive decided not to borrow any money from anyone except from my parents =P
So, borrowing money from BF or friends is a NO!NO! for me =)..Haaaah!!
Yes, I do believe so.
Women alwyas try to present herself as the cleanest person in the world, ( comparing with the men )
Men have got not that much false pride ( again comparing with women ). Men will not hesitate to take a loan from the girl, but she may think a 1000 times .....!!! LOL
Jeeeez! this is crazy topic!
Perhaps for safety reasons!Your man might asked something a favor in return,Lol, be precautious!
Consider her pride/ego as well...
but at all times it is too tough for me to ask.
Your first judgment call is to decide if your partner deserves the loan. The harsh truth is that sometimes, the money is simply being used to fuel an addiction. This does not necessarily mean over-spending but more often a frivolous obsession like keeping up with fads or maintaining a hobby that’s too expensive for her.
If you find your friend complaining about her financial woes while she’s drinking a Starbucks Frapuccino, then there’s definitely something wrong there.
that's right amoud! that could also be another scenario. the shady ways your talking about, maybe that's just for emergency purposes. when all else fails, that won't! lol
"For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf, and the strength of the Wolf is the Pack."
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True Wolf, and perhaps she doesnt want to have to pay it back in shady ways lol
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
maybe the boyfriend is broke that's why the girl borrows from one of her friends... i wouldn't mind my girl borrowing money as long as i'm not the surety or guarantor. i mean its her transactions. hehehe..
or maybe the girl just don't want to show his boyfriend that she's broke! i don't know if women have those pride things going on with them too.
could be a lot of things you know...
"For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf, and the strength of the Wolf is the Pack."
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i mean borrow,,,,,,
yah kabayan(yel_tiu) i do understand...
i just dont understand barrow--- oh maybe its typographical error!!! BORROW - peace :) lol
its better guys you barrow money to your girlfriend than to 5-6 llllooollllll , you know what i mean kabayan hahahhaha
ITS better guys you barrow money from your girlfriend that to 5-6 lolllllllllllllll
if you are good payer why not if my boyfriend barrow money from me it not a big deal,,, if we know each other for long time,, i must help him in times of UPS and down,,,,,it just only money,,, YOU KNOW YOU FEEL GOOD IF YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS GIVING THAN THE FEELING OF ,RECEIVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
because money and love sometime dont get along together. is easier barrow from friends then bf/gf.
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Heero your boyfriend let you down again.. How much you want just PM me...lol
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Agree, in part, with OP. Should be open with partner - why pretend to be something you're not and then show true colours when married? Deceptive to be a gold digger in disguise.
If my bf asked me for money, will see if it's a genuine need. If so, will lend. If not, he'll be ex so fast, he won't have time to say "baloney".
"Then why do some women get to have a boyfriend in the first place if they know they're not willing to ask them lover for some temporary important needs or such?"
- Some don't have bfs just because they need a banker. They use things, not people.
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Well... perhaps "never a borrower or lender may be"?
Better to keep money out of relationships in general, causes bad blood.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Well DTE. What if it was an old partner? Lets say a couple of years old. What would you say then? And why?
I met a girl once who asked for QR600. But she said I was a nice man so she was ready to negotiate ;)
Lol, Dora, no truer words have been said.
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Whoaaa..no way.......If I had a new partner and he asked me for money I'd tell him to fook right off!
i never tried...
Why some women (who currently have a boyfriend as in "in a relationship) still ask/loan money from other people (aka friends) when these women can just ask their partner for it...
Heero is saying that since the partner (vice versa) is the closest person to you other than your family...ask help form him/her rather than approach other people for financial help...
WTF are you on about? Interpreter please!
money tends to add a lot of stress on any relationship, even between friends...i have no problems lending my girl some cash but i would never ever take anything from her...so it sounds kinda hypocritical to blame her for not accepting money from me....all i can do is offer it with good intentions
wht if its the other way around? =D
man ask loan from his lover you know...(closest person other than his parents and sibs) *peace
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Because it may make the lady seem like a goldigger?
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"