Why do women chase after successful men ?

britexpat
By britexpat

Why do women find successful / powerful alluring ?

Marilyn Monroe going after JFK.

Monica enticing Clinton an now poor David Lettermen, a successful married man had to admit to having sexual relations with female coworkers..

WHY ?

By anonymous• 6 Oct 2009 11:21
anonymous

thats not a good act in any context

but its seems it has become a normal practise and the ppl have gulped down such wrong practises

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By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 18:22
anonymous

Is it justified to go after a successful man even if he is married??? Anyone willing to answer..

By alsboy• 5 Oct 2009 18:20
alsboy

A Man who can provide everything that a lady needs... She is certainly goin 2 go 4 him.. Y wud dey go after someone who earns lesser than them..??

By alsboy• 5 Oct 2009 18:20
alsboy

A Man who can provide everything that a lady needs... She is certainly goin 2 go 4 him.. Y wud dey go after someone who earns lesser than them..??

By britexpat• 5 Oct 2009 18:01
britexpat

One researcher feels that :

Almost all women prefer powerful men when it comes to a relationship due to several factors. BECAUSE:

The security issue- All women want to feel secure in a relationship and this is the reason why most of them prefer men who are financially, physically and mentally powerful. This is one of the top priorities of almost all females. Women tend to feel more comfortable around powerful men.

Responsibility- Powerful men know what their responsibilities are and know their role in the relationship. No man can be termed powerful unless he knows his role and responsibility in the relationship and sticks to his duty.

The leader role- Almost all women like men who know how to lead and follow their own route. Women don't like to be put in the leader spot when it comes to a relationship and that's why they mostly prefer powerful men for a long term relationship.

The feel good factor- And moreover most women prefer men who can make them feel good in almost any situation possible. Females don't want to stick around a man who is depressed and complains about every small thing around him. They want someone who can take control and make the best out of every situation in life.

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By LeisaF779• 5 Oct 2009 17:50
LeisaF779

Well we're not going to go for unemployed losers, are we? lol

By aquagurl• 5 Oct 2009 15:20
aquagurl

its the same as:

'why do men chase after hot girls?'

;p

By anonymous• 5 Oct 2009 14:56
anonymous

The question was why women see successful men alluring?

Because they don't see the whole thing. It's interesting to know what got men there.

---- The wittest comment.

It is very interesting to find the secret of success for most of the men. I never believe that every success story is a moral story. All the successful people have one thing in common........love for success at any cost. And they are always surrounded by

like minded people who will do anything for sucess.

But personally I don't have anything against them as long as they don't affect me.

Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!

By Formatted Soul• 5 Oct 2009 08:18
Formatted Soul

Brit... why you blame the women who are chasing them....dont these men know about their position and reputation? in most cases these women are USING the rich and the famous (successful)!

I think you should rephrase the question as to 'why successful men are so stupid'??

By smoke• 5 Oct 2009 07:38
Rating: 2/5
smoke

Well according to the gospel of Smokeus Kristo:

Verse 7:36: Go forth ye unsuccessful women and attach ye self to successful men who art married to other unsuccessful women such as ye self and make thy man happy. For when ye are caught many a great nations shall know of ye success in taming such a successful man, and thou shall be successful in being no more unsuccessful.

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By sweetpink• 5 Oct 2009 07:26
sweetpink

excuse me..womens are not chasing men..

By QatariLady• 5 Oct 2009 06:42
QatariLady

The question was why women see successful men alluring?

Because they don't see the whole thing. It's interesting to know what got men there.

By reysaj• 4 Oct 2009 21:06
reysaj

I'd guess women would like successful men because they wanted to be stable and they're feeling confident to settle with........

By heero_yuy2• 4 Oct 2009 21:01
heero_yuy2

Even if I'm a woman I'll choose Letterman over the big-chinned guy.

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By Johnson566• 4 Oct 2009 16:34
Rating: 4/5
Johnson566

The answer is simple, they also want to be famous .if monica chased an ordinary man then who would came to know her.So obiviously she catched clinton,former US president.

By Jaryz• 4 Oct 2009 16:15
Rating: 2/5
Jaryz

dont blame women....ok dont blame men also...come on, we all know IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.. ;)

ok, how about this then... why us women even not that successful, there are men married or not, successful and not who chased after us women??????

By mmyke• 4 Oct 2009 16:11
mmyke

being chased is much better than chasing,,,at least you know what's happening.

By mmyke• 4 Oct 2009 15:57
mmyke

maybe they are all guilty.....if thats the word for it. :)

By qaisarQatar• 4 Oct 2009 15:54
qaisarQatar

I am very surprised by all the comments. It seems that it become a norm that a successful man, either by virtue of power or money or fame, can be indulge in extra marital affairs and it is OK with everybody. No one talks against it and everybody is enjoying this fact. Not even a single girl/woman on this forum. sigh.

By Darly• 4 Oct 2009 15:38
Darly

Because of the freebies on offer.

By Andeee• 4 Oct 2009 15:32
Andeee

Alexa - Agree with you 100%

By mmyke• 4 Oct 2009 15:22
Rating: 4/5
mmyke

make men successful, and neither does a school make a person educated. It is the individual person, first and foremost who does the work, and undertakes and successfully completes the education themselves.

By Stone Cold• 4 Oct 2009 15:11
Stone Cold

The natural thrill is there, to be with and to play with people of that status. That taste will be different

By anonymous• 4 Oct 2009 15:04
anonymous

Ok maryfaith I will start chasing you from now onwards, you got yourself a stalker ;)

By mary faith• 4 Oct 2009 14:37
mary faith

...i don't chase successful man,coz i'm successful woman..i want them to chase me..lol..

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 20:31
anonymous

I am a bit confused with some responses here, Is it fine for a woman to chase a successful man even if he is married?? Men do chase successful and beautiful women but in most cases, once she gets married, its over there and then..

By twenty• 3 Oct 2009 20:17
Rating: 5/5
twenty

loser men chase after successful women or loser women chase after successful men bcz someone want to be rich by marriage

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 20:04
anonymous

Why would a woman chase after a looser?

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 19:54
anonymous

smart and intelligent women????????

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

where do i get them? on the history channel

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By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 19:45
anonymous

Why do men chase pretty women?....why do women chase successful men ?.........answer is the same.....marital status can control basic tendencies, but can't abolish it completely.

Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!

By one_shot• 3 Oct 2009 17:31
one_shot

hahaha, who mentioned religion here

it is totally different thing

"the problem that arises, is that while human developped somehow slowly into one specie (the human race)"

i liked this "somehow "

anyway , i will not high jack this thread , maybe we can discuss this thing in other topic

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It could be a medicine

it could be a bullet

depends on how you see it"

By janeyjaney• 3 Oct 2009 17:31
janeyjaney

You must be referring to ugly and needy women. Otherwise if they're neither ugly nor needy, they wouldn't be chasing in the first place.

The internet is our revenge machine

By drsam• 3 Oct 2009 17:26
drsam

darwinism is still a theory yet to be proved (false or true), so is religion.

Oh, people can come up with statistics to prove anything, Kent. 14% of people know that.

By arshad1940• 3 Oct 2009 17:24
arshad1940

women chases the successful men coz a man will be no more successful after meeting women

By drsam• 3 Oct 2009 17:23
drsam

they previously thought that champanzees and human had a common ancestor, with gorillas as cousins

erdy, a humaoid that lived 4,4 millions year ago, was different from champanzees. so the old saying that human and champ had common ancestor is false. the new proposed theory, is champs and gorillas had a common ancestor and both r cousins to the human ancstor.

now from that ancestor of all gorillas,human and champanzees, 2 ramifications: the human and the "ape"

the problem that arises, is that while human developped somehow slowly into one specie (the human race), his brother ape evolved and diversified a lot faster into many different species.

Oh, people can come up with statistics to prove anything, Kent. 14% of people know that.

By one_shot• 3 Oct 2009 17:10
one_shot

Darwin?

they prove lately that his theory was wrong ?

too bad for darwin

in america, california university,"human origin department " they found remains of a human creature related to 4 billions years ago , and they think this is the earliest copy of a human being , and it is not related to any kind of apes

the news released today , search for it

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"It could be a picture

It could be a medicine

it could be a bullet

depends on how you see it"

By drsam• 3 Oct 2009 16:39
Rating: 4/5
drsam

chosing the best partner possible. for the sake of darwin evolution!

Oh, people can come up with statistics to prove anything, Kent. 14% of people know that.

By one_shot• 3 Oct 2009 15:47
one_shot

lol, nice topic

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"It could be a picture

It could be a medicine

it could be a bullet

depends on how you see it"

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 15:39
anonymous

time and energy on witch hunts about people's personal lives. In time, I expect the media will catch up with us -- at least I hope so :-P

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 15:35
anonymous

People like to hitch a ride with a rising star rather than do the hard work of self-improvement.

 

 

 

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By britexpat• 3 Oct 2009 14:00
britexpat

Ok.. Time to confess.. I had expected the ladies of QL to take a different tone..

What i found fascinating about the David Letterman story is that he has admitted to being continually unfaithful to his partner and yet has not faced the wrath of the press or people at large.

Why is this ?

By britexpat• 3 Oct 2009 13:51
britexpat

Maybe it's because you can't smell..

By messymiss• 3 Oct 2009 13:50
Rating: 3/5
messymiss

affairs wouldn't exist if only women were involved!!:P

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By britexpat• 3 Oct 2009 13:48
britexpat

So all these women having affairs "don't know their position in life" ?

I disagree.

By messymiss• 3 Oct 2009 13:47
Rating: 2/5
messymiss

& michael doughlas X catherine zeta jones!

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By eby1975• 3 Oct 2009 13:46
eby1975

My middle name is sucess and no ones seems to be chasing me !!!

By Dali• 3 Oct 2009 13:44
Dali

The question that also begs to be answered is why successful men like unattractive women?

Paula Jones? (bill does like them manish)

John Edwards x Reille Hunter?

Charles x Camilla

NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.

By labda06• 3 Oct 2009 13:42
labda06

I fully agree with Alexa's comment.

Brittie, I guess if they are too lazy to make their own truckloads of money and fall for the sweet-nothings of these men, then what is left but to resort to the chase. And Letterman did the chasing also from what Iv read. And Clinton didnt exactly swat Lewinsky away did he now? hehe

--------Do I look like Bambi's sister???-------

By phoenix2009• 3 Oct 2009 13:38
phoenix2009

What is more satisfying for woman? to make a successful out of a loser, or just get him already with all his success? I think woman would be intimidated by the idea that after all her sacrifices, if any, with her man to make him successful, another woman would just take him on a silver plate!!!

Yalla!

By FranElizabeth• 3 Oct 2009 13:33
FranElizabeth

Maybe it's not their success that attracts women, as much as the atributes that made them successful.. charm, wit, 'je ne sais quoi'..?

By britexpat• 3 Oct 2009 13:30
britexpat

Oodles of Money or one having power...

By Dali• 3 Oct 2009 13:30
Dali

Goodness Gracious ---Lewinski---Looks like a drag queen

http://www.strangepolitics.com/content/item/140442.html

NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.

By messymiss• 3 Oct 2009 13:28
messymiss

nop...........u certainly don't seem to look like bambi's sis!!!!1

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By Naseebfinder• 3 Oct 2009 13:26
Naseebfinder

mother's contribution is more than a father's:)

By labda06• 3 Oct 2009 13:26
labda06

Whats your definition of a successful man Brittie?

--------Do I look like Bambi's sister???-------

By messymiss• 3 Oct 2009 13:21
Rating: 5/5
messymiss

because men chase after beautiful women!can't forget zarkosy to soon!

Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 13:18
anonymous

and behind every women who made that man sucessful was her father(man)

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By Dali• 3 Oct 2009 13:18
Dali

I have heard that for some women although like men looks do matter but they say that there is something inexplicably aphrodisiac like in intellect, class, wit and vision that surpass looks when it comes to what some women find attractive in men.

NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.

By britexpat• 3 Oct 2009 13:14
britexpat

These are rich, powerful men ... Not losers...

Would you "go after" such a man , knowing he was married ?

By honeybunch• 3 Oct 2009 13:13
honeybunch

why do successfull men embrace them...lol

By Naseebfinder• 3 Oct 2009 13:08
Rating: 2/5
Naseebfinder

behind every succesful man, is a woman who brought him there.

By Harry99• 3 Oct 2009 13:04
Harry99

Behind or under ?

By samia08• 3 Oct 2009 13:03
samia08

brit ,what !? should I chase after losers ?!!!!!

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 13:03
anonymous

i agree with abc150

: )

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 13:01
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

women are very fond of value packs

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By wacky_baby• 3 Oct 2009 13:00
wacky_baby

brit...who would want to chase a bum eh? ;)

By anonymous• 3 Oct 2009 12:59
anonymous

To prove that there is a woman behind every successful man.

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