when you think that everybody is against you?
hi
i know that this maybe will sound strange butt how you deal with this?
i mean i work in one office with different nationalitys butt from the beggining i have problems with one of the ladies here .now no matter what i m doing she react bad with me and she go strait to my boss complaining and him is listening to her
i get so much faid up with this and what is keeping me is the job is good and the salary ok i cannot leave the country just like this and i know they will not give me relase
so my questin is how i can learn to handle this?
You have to stop,pause a while & think.What is the problem,probably there is something about you which doesn't please other.It may be the way you talk,bossy type,pretending to knows everything,etc..If none of this you possessed,just ignore her.Try to bring out the best in you & prove to your boss that you are right but if there is really something wrong about you, then it's high time for you to change for better.Step on the ground.
Keep on your good work and one day someone will realise your deeds and attitude. Confrontation is not good. Side line her if possible afterall she's not paying your salary.
As sum1 wrote be4, b a bitch to her... also tell ur boss wats happening.. i did the same to our accounts manager who was giving me great problems.. put him in his place first myself then went and told my boss about it... now everythings smooth... if u r too accomodating then everyone will try to boss u in the office...
because thats the initial reaction of a person who is threatened by your "potential".
i used to be in your position,and i used it as a strategy to get where i am now.
did i tattle tale or whistle blow?ummm,,,,noooooo
but i used my talent and answering skills till all of them got released or cancelled.
just do your job better,faster and certainly with finesse.
as for her,,,,well do you care?lol
Is she married or have a boyfriend? Phone him and tell him she is cheating on him!
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
Ignore her! Tell her you know me or Dracula and she will cool down...
Yesterday, you post "revenge" ........now go and kick her "Butt"
presence of mind instead.if you are not making mistake,you are not learning.
thanks for the replays
i think i have to stop feeling sorry for myself i did mistaks that i dindt considerit so big butt i give her with this things to put againts me
if only i wake up early realising all this maybe things will be different
so this is it
i like bitchy atittude.
hi tess,,,
as you have say,the salary offer is good?how long is this lady working in your company?it is normal here that somebody doing like that,seniority instead,or jealousy.then how come you making mistake with your work?it is random or just simple mistake?all you have to do is wake up your mind and give some more attention to the things,that you know you are making mistake,then try to make up it.then for this lady you are talking about,just leave and dont mind her.just try to prove your work..
all small things,if i forget to do somenthing or if i make a mistake butt if she make somenthing she put on me i give you this i show you this actually she is not doing this maybe i become paranoic butt each day i get more more headeach