Story I've read
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are
always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences
in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying: "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win #250." This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was more than two inches high.
It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it
and the lucky people tended to spot it. Unlucky people are generally more tenses than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else.
They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities
to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than
just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a lucky person. These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, and expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck.
One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened. The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier. The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become lucky.
Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor". Here are Professor Wise man's
four top tips for becoming lucky:
1. Listen to your gut instinct -they are normally right
2. Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3. Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4. Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.
Luck is very often a self-fulfilling prophecy!
I think the moral here is that each one of us has the key for good and bad luck.
we make/find the luck ourselves, not the other way around us.
In the Cookies of Life, FRIENDS are the Chocolate Chips
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You made me the luckiest man on earth,thanks b.
Wide grin,
Grinning
I know people who are so focused and organized, meticulous to the point of being anal retentive...they NEVER deviate from their routine, and plan everything out to the most minute detail....and yet they are still lucky.
By the same token I know happy go lucky folks who are always open to new experiences, but they are just so damn unlucky....but the good news for them is they bounce right back with a smile.
I think a positive outlook is essential for dealing with bad luck when comes your way, but i'm not entirely convinced it will make you any luckier.
Stay safe.
Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?
we should all read and learn, yep good one x
Luck comes for people who have positive outlook in life...true and fact.
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good observation.
Everybody is right everybody is wrong it depends where you stand.