SOME DISCRIMINATION FROM OWN KABABAYAN

dphantom23
By dphantom23

I WAS ATTENDING FROM THE RECENT JUN12 INDEPENDENCE DAY IN HYATT PLAZA.ONE KABABAYAN ASK ME WHAT I DO HERE IN QATAR?WHAT IS MY WORK?I ANSWERED OF COURSE WITH A SWEET SMILE (LOL)I SAID IM WORKING IN A FAMILY AS A NANNY OF THE TWO CHILDREN AND THEN SHE SAID AHHHH GNUN THEN SHE WALKED AWAY FROM ME AND JOIN IN ANOTHER GROUP OF FILIPINO PEOPLE..I WONDER WHAT IS WRONG BEING A NANNY?THIS IS A DECENT JOB AS FAR AS I KNOW COMPARED TO THE PROSTITUTES U WILL SEE IN RAMADA OR QUBE..WELL I DIDNT UPSET ABOUT THIS BEC WHATEVER THE POSITION IS WE ARE HERE IN QATAR TO BE THE SERVANTS...

By dphantom23• 16 Jun 2008 19:21
dphantom23

i wanna say thank u guys fro all d encouraging words!!!syang ngyun k lng nbsa my skit kz ung inaalagaan ko...nothing to say just thanks!!

By 3sure-hunk3r• 16 Jun 2008 18:31
3sure-hunk3r

nanny,maids, caregiver,nurse,flight attendant, restaurant crew,secretary, drivers whats the differnce? we all work to serve others.

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. you are one of us! nothing to bother..

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"Happy with little yet wishing for more."

3sure-hunk3r

By owen• 16 Jun 2008 18:07
owen

to my fellow kababayans... just a reminder you are posting on the main forum.. not on the QL Filipino Expat group...as agreed you are requested to post in english or provide translation for everyone to understand...

thank you..

[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By Harry99• 16 Jun 2008 18:06
Harry99

Nannyversary...

Its a great job.. Be proud of yourself..

By anonymous• 16 Jun 2008 18:06
anonymous

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By anonymous• 16 Jun 2008 18:03
anonymous

basta po marangal at wala kyong inaagrabyadong tao,

wala pong dapat ikahiya sa ating mga trabaho, kahit ano pa po ito..

ska, dapat po tyo mismo sa sarili natin ay hindi ntin ikinahihiya ang ating ikinabubuhay..kc kung mismong sarili natin ay mababa ang tingin natin sa trabaho natin, e di mas lalo na po ang ibang tao..

mahirap po ang inyong trabaho.."laging me personal touch"

mabuhay po kyo!

By wmhizon• 16 Jun 2008 17:38
wmhizon

For me being nanny is one of the hardest job in the world.

SO BE PROUD OF IT! I SALUTE U KABABAYAN! =D

 

"Life's rule: Assume nothing...expect little...do more...need less...smile often...sleep long...dream big...laugh a lot...pray always & once in a while...cry but continue living!

By spanky1423• 16 Jun 2008 12:23
spanky1423

=( im so sad... thought of that i will be having a good dinner today from robin...

ROBIN!!! out of the BATCAVE!!!http://www.qatarliving.com/user/spanky1423

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By Dracula• 16 Jun 2008 12:19
Dracula

she is no more...

..."buurrrrkkk"..sorry quick drinking...:)

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If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings

By spanky1423• 16 Jun 2008 12:17
spanky1423

or maybe she is a "baguuhan" which makes her so excited to roam around and meet people without knowing that she is offending someone else with here attitude...ika nga nila.., tayo ang marunong umintindi.., tayo na ang umunawa....

if you see her again, tell her to see robin...

ROBIN!!!bring her to the BATCAVE!!!http://www.qatarliving.com/user/spanky1423

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By Winn• 16 Jun 2008 11:45
Winn

mafiriyal,bakamuna:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_worker

..will take care of u two guys thursday nite!! n baka dont forget the 'dunk' :-p

Somebody told me, "You are what you eat".Now I know why I'm nuts!!

By bakamuna• 16 Jun 2008 11:31
bakamuna

mafiriyal i also want to know that :)

By anonymous• 16 Jun 2008 11:27
anonymous

winn - what is the meaning of a "Sex Worker"??????????

By SPEED• 16 Jun 2008 11:27
SPEED

:-)

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By Winn• 16 Jun 2008 11:25
Winn

Btw,dphantom23...why do u need to compare urself with sex workers?

"THIS IS A DECENT JOB AS FAR AS I KNOW COMPARED TO THE PROSTITUTES U WILL SEE IN RAMADA OR QUBE.."

My drift is, isnt it a decent job compared to ANY job in the world?

aLSO, Do u NEED to compare a job with any other job to say its decent?

Somebody told me, "You are what you eat".Now I know why I'm nuts!!

By SPEED• 16 Jun 2008 11:25
SPEED

only rather then a person who is living a respectful life with a low profile job !

This is called Modern World !

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By srecko• 16 Jun 2008 11:24
srecko

I saw some word..prostitute...what is it...some kind of humans?

By abynel• 16 Jun 2008 11:15
abynel

it only shows how arrogant and uneducated that girl was. she has no right to discrimate anyone. Being a nanny is a descent job And especially kids loves them so much

By fieryangelinthesky• 16 Jun 2008 11:09
fieryangelinthesky

and to those fellow kababayan who loves to discriminate, you are nothing but pathetic creatures! May God bless you!

How to Find Your One True Love????? (http://onetruelovenetwork.com/)

By nepparaiso• 16 Jun 2008 10:59
nepparaiso

TO ALL NANNIES: Happy Nanny Day! God bless you all!

By mallrat• 16 Jun 2008 10:44
mallrat

What matters is you are earning decently.

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Never go younger by a month, a hard bod is no substitute for wisdom.

-Angelica Houston, Material Girls

By owen• 16 Jun 2008 10:37
owen

so what if you are a nanny?... don't bother yourself looking up to these kind of persons who loves to discriminate even there own kabayans.. not really worth it..as long as you know who you are and how you are as a person irregardless of job title, that's all that matters..

be proud of who and what you are.. :)

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By Dracula• 16 Jun 2008 10:34
Dracula

Happy Nanny Day!!!

By nepparaiso• 16 Jun 2008 10:31
nepparaiso

give them a treat and tell them you're really appreciated with their job...

CHEERS FOR ALL THE NANNIES!

By nepparaiso• 16 Jun 2008 10:28
nepparaiso

BE PROUD MY DEAR FRIEND! hope those encouraging words makes you feel happy and gives you peace of mind...

basta move on...

By lima foxtrot• 16 Jun 2008 10:26
lima foxtrot

being a nanny, you are doing a great job.

Three cheers for all nanny’s

Hip hip hooray, Hip hip hooray, Hip hip hooray 

 

 

By t_coffee_or_me• 16 Jun 2008 10:24
t_coffee_or_me

nanny is a respectable profession

Infact here i know some who are earning more then a secretary

 

 

 

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By prettyice2007• 16 Jun 2008 10:20
prettyice2007

nanny is not a dirty job...so dont feel bad to those pathetic people...as long as you are happy with what you do okies....

By amber2007• 16 Jun 2008 10:14
amber2007

I know how to be a nanny, i was once a nanny but not for long. Being a nanny could teach you a good lesson, how to treat kids as if they are yours, it teaches you how to deal with problems, and teaches you to be a good mother, a sister and a friend. I am proud of those nannies who are proud of themselves. Those women not all are showing how arrogant they are. Kahit anong uri ng trabaho mo mababa man o kinikilala minsan itapak mo ang paa mo sa lupa at ng maramdaman mo ang pakiramdam ng taong minsan ay minamaliit ng ibang tao.

Ang importante kahit na nanny ka marangal ka namang tao, nagsisilbi sa isang amo na ang tingin at turing sau ay isang pamilya na rin sa kanila kesa sa isang tao na akala mo kung makasuot eh sosyal but behind it you never know. Minsan makikita mo sa pananalita pa lang kala mo kung galing sa isang mayamang pamilya pero at the end very poor naman.

Yung taong nakilala mo ay isang taong mahirap din. Yung iba nakaranas lang ng magandang buhay kala mo na kung mayaman sa buong mundo, that was based on my experience as a nanny. I have met so many filipinas pretending to have a wealthy life, a lot of money, but in the end they just get allowance from their hubby. Kung may mga pinay na nagsasabing binibigay sakin lahat ng asawa ko ang pera na kinikita nya, sus pinoy lang ang gumagagawa nun kung meron man hindi lahat mangilan ngilan lang.

Honestly i hate people who criticize other on their nature of work.

saludo ako kay dpahntom hindi kinahihiya kung anong uri ng work meron sya.

At the end hindi nya kayang gawin ang ginagawa mo. ganun lang kasimple yun. Hindi nya kayang gawin kasi nahihiya syang maging nanny.

By pykester• 16 Jun 2008 09:44
pykester

Karma will come along the way.....

pykester

 

By doha_astig• 16 Jun 2008 09:37
Rating: 2/5
doha_astig

obviously, the woman who asked you was not brought up properly by her own mother..she could use a nanny of her own to discipline her...lol

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,

but by the moments that take our breath away."

By anonymous• 16 Jun 2008 09:27
anonymous

thats awful, you poor thing....a nanny is a very respectable job in my mind...more respectable than a lot of jobs! Good for you! You are not inferior at all....the girl was probably jealous.......

By lovinni• 16 Jun 2008 08:24
lovinni

dphantom...this is reality...some kabayans are just sick, probably they are social climbers who wants to be affiliated with other influential groups. but anyway just ignore them...there is nothing worng with your job. people who downgrade you for your job will never go anywhere.

i give salute to all nannies esp to my nanny. you have done wonderful jobs and great sacrifices in raising kids!

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By jess426• 16 Jun 2008 07:58
jess426

...i asure you shes not from QLFilex group, no one has like that attitude in the group...

By nepparaiso• 16 Jun 2008 07:49
nepparaiso

jbadar ur right hope not QLFilExpat otherwise.... Jbadar maybe the admin our Mr. Treysidad is very busy... just wait and be patient bro...

dphantom don't bother for those people who wants to discriminate you but be proud of what ur doing...

God bless you po!

By anonymous• 16 Jun 2008 00:36
anonymous

human's are humans and good work is for sure much better than dirty one's

By Secguy• 15 Jun 2008 23:48
Secguy

Just for intrest, did SHE say what HER job was?

Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.

- Ben Franklin

By jbadar• 15 Jun 2008 23:42
jbadar

sad to hear that dpahntom, hope shes not from QL Filex... coz am trying to join that group but until now am not yet approve...

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 23:40
dphantom23

IM PROUD OF MY JOB!

By Secguy• 15 Jun 2008 23:38
Secguy

Be proud of your profession.. it's the little people like us at the bottom who keep those at the top where they are. Without us, they would be nothing.

Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.

- Ben Franklin

By anonymous• 15 Jun 2008 23:33
anonymous

There is nothing wrong being Nanny. Just remeber Mary Popins.

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious......

"RAKIJA connecting people"

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 23:27
flanostu

lol chief, every hero needs a side-kick, welcome aboard!

By chiefsittingbull• 15 Jun 2008 23:23
chiefsittingbull

You need a Batman to carry your Bat ????

BORN TO BOWL...........FORCED TO WORK

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 23:11
dphantom23

IM NOT AFFECTED ANYWAY THANKS TO U!

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 23:09
flanostu

i work during the day, and at night i fight ignorance & disrespect with my bat.

By yammar08• 15 Jun 2008 23:07
yammar08

So sad to hear that, but I pity that woman who did that to you. She don't know the real sense and meaning of being a nanny. I respect all the nannies because they earn a little yet give more love and care to other's children/family. dphantom, don't get affected, you have a great and decent job!

By chiefsittingbull• 15 Jun 2008 23:05
Rating: 4/5
chiefsittingbull

SHe could be just another NANNY who Hates her job and very embaraced to admit that shes just anither Nanny.

Be Proud of what you do dphantom, and God Bless you and the children of the World

BORN TO BOWL...........FORCED TO WORK

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 23:04
dphantom23

ARE U GONNA B MY HERO?LOL

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 22:59
flanostu

dphantom23, let me know the next time you have trouble and i'll bring my cricket bat along.

By Dracula• 15 Jun 2008 22:56
Dracula

next time dont look in my coffin...

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If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 22:54
flanostu

drac, at least i know how you like your tea made.

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 22:52
dphantom23

LOL LOL LOL THATS IT!

By Dracula• 15 Jun 2008 22:50
Dracula

phanthom...i am not a filipino :)

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If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 22:48
dphantom23

BUT THE POINT IS ALM NMN NG IBNG KBBYAN WHY OTHER FILIPINOS CHOOSE TO WORK LIKE THIS.WELL I HAVE A LOT OF FRIEND IN DIFEERENT NATIONALITIES MOST OF THEM ARE NICE THEY WILL NOT LOOK AT U ON WHAT JOB U HAVE.ONLY FROM OUR OWN KABABYAN I EXPERINCED THIS KIND OF TREATMENT..TSK TSK

By Dracula• 15 Jun 2008 22:45
Dracula

naaannnyyyyy....maaammmiiii...again this ugly man here!

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 22:43
flanostu

drac, do you need looking after?

By Dracula• 15 Jun 2008 22:42
Dracula

you're a nanny?

jees, i'll go to another thread!

:)

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phanthom, If you work as a nanny, then you probably already have pretty good instincts about people in general.i believe there is nothing wrong being a nannies... ako nga gusto ko maging

not unless mababa ang tingin mo sa kanila ..... hhmmmm

there are thais, russians, pinays, and french daw pinaka-ok medyo mataas lang rate

According to Martin Luther, "Nobody can discriminate us without our consent." If you are proud and happy of being a nanny, then why should you permit other people to disciminate you?

THE FEELING OF BEING DISCIMINATED yields from the fact that we are not happy with what we are doing.

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 22:37
dphantom23

ABSOLUTELY WE GIVE ALL THE LOVE TO THE CHILD WE TAKE CARE OF.THANX BY THE WAY

By dphantom23• 15 Jun 2008 22:34
dphantom23

thanks for d greet lol!

By flanostu• 15 Jun 2008 22:33
flanostu

there's nothing wrong with being a nanny. there are some nannies that make better mothers than their natural one.

i say salute!

By chiefsittingbull• 15 Jun 2008 22:28
chiefsittingbull

I hear you

BORN TO BOWL...........FORCED TO WORK

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