reporting a case

You are not making any sense. Once you say this girl is harrassing the Husband and then you are saying that he might have cheated on his Wife with her? This triangle is lost. The Wife should confront her friend and her Husband. Why get authority involved? LOL unless you want to humiliate the Husband, then - go ahead and call 999 and they will direct you. They will ask you where they live and then they will tell you which police department to report to.

Just getting off the phone from Authorities, they said there is no case since the girl is sending her OWN pictures to the Husband and the Husband is enjoying them - What's wrong with that? No case AT ALL.

The only case would be the illegal entry into the country saying that she is here on business, but abusing the visa - bla bla bla. But you will have to prove that - can you?

PERSONALLY I think you should get your own life and ask your friend, the Wife, to solve her personal issues with her Husband and not complain to her friends about it because that hurts the relationship.

Again, sorry I'm upsetting you with my replies, but since you did post it in Qatar Living - then it is for ALL TO ENJOY :)

All the best and Ramadan Kareeeeeeeeem ya nass ...

thanks fefee and Amoud. Ok i will explain it to my friend. she just was so much upset! not even because of the possibility of her husband's cheating. It can happen any time, with this "I", or whoever. But the main point is that this "I" was her friend! That's what hurts her. And i fully understand her. As i said, you trust some person, no matter who, your brother, your friend, your boyfriend. And this person hurts you, stab you in the back. This is awful.

Report, it, walk into any police station and report it. Very simple.

When you say you didnt want anyone to analize or give comments, why the heck did you give the whole drawn out story? Duh.

You said your friend doesnt know if there was something between them or not. Seems he isnt innocent, hence the reason he hasnt gone to the police station himself.

U know, you could go and report it for them, and see how long "I" or "M" or whatever will be your friend after her husband is put through the wringer on this.

I also dont get how she is here illegally. If her bf applied for a business visa for her, and immigration accepted the application who is to say she isnt working here? Maybe she is a consultant?

You are going to advise your friend to do something not in her best interest.

i am not really sure if reporting the case is a good ideal.

i think its better to solve this issue with out reporting it. its only my sugestion. because i really can not belive that any one can tell you whats going to happend. 1. every case reported to the police could be similar but not 1:1 so you really can not compeard similar cases and knw what will happen. so iam just sujesting that if its possible to solve this between your friend and her husband i think will the better than trying to report "I" not knowing whats coming for your friend husband. one think that is sure is that , when your friends husband gets into any issue with the police or what ever, your friend will surly not be out!

once again pls do not report it. try to solve this matter by ur self. i know that the main goal of your friend is how to stop this "I" from entering qatar. i think if this I intention is just to break peoples home, she will surly be caught pretty soon so dont be upset . just keep it cool and relax!!!cheers

Well now that you have clarified the situation..

I think the husband should find out where to report and do it himself as he is the victim. I would certainly expect the same if it were my husband!

Why don't you just go to the police and make a report!

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

you also have to go to see psychiatrist since you cannot comprehend the simplest statements. I asked for INFORMATIVE comments. YOUR comment does not carry any information, moreover it is completely stupid. I am convinced that you are the one who has to get your own life, and not to put your silly 2 cents into the matter which you have nothing to say about, except of your stupid assumptions. So get out of my thread and get your life, but do it only after seeing these couple of doctors otherwise you may be dangerous to other people.

Now get lost! quickly!

you amaze me. I don't ask you to to investigate the case, to judge the situation, me or my friend, or even her husband, I don't ask you to figure out who is who, and how was it, and what was before and after.

timtan, i dont care at all on whos side you are. And it absolutely doesn't matter how do i sound to your poor hearing . go and see the ear doctor if you hear familiar voices where there are not existing.

I only ask the questions, and now i ask to reply ONLY those who knows either theoretically or from his/her experience how does this system work.

1.WHERE to report?

2.WHAT actions will be taken by the authorities?

ONLY INFORMATIVE COMMENTS PLEASE!

OTHER, PLEASE NOT TO BOTHER to post, especially if it's some joke, fun or silly comments.

thanks.

you once said he was with her then now he isn't?

let the husband ask her to stop sending the pictures ..

why are people complicating such simple situations?

how is she sending these nude images?

by e-mail? block the address.

by mail? don't open them.

by mms? delete them too.

i'm confused.

does not upset me personally. I only try to help my friend.

ok. we even don't know if he had something with her. so his crime would be NON DELETING the pictures? once some prostitute sends him pictures, and he does not delete them, is that the reason to be deported? you say your "M" and "F" was CAUGHT, while they were together, right? this is NOT a case. Husband is willing to help his wife (my friend). He is on HER side. He is not with this "I". He doesn't see her. He doesn't reply her messages. My friend and I can assume that he PROBABLY seen her once, not sure though! But not anymore. so they CANNOT be caught. again. my friend wants to report following:

1. this "I" comes to qatar on fake visas, which her lover issues for her.

2. she lives with her lover out of wedlock

3. she sends her naked pictures to the men. By the way, may be he is not the only one who she sent her pictures to! who knows??

now. how my friend's husband can be harmed, caught and deported?? for what? for non-deleting the pictures??

guys, i wish to know how many of you would voluntarily delete the photos of attractive sexy girl?? about 90-95% i guess...so now what, to deport all the guys from qatar?

since he is accepting the photos, he will get in trouble as well. i know a similar case where a 'M' & 'F' were seeing each other while 'W' was sitting back and eating herself up. she asked someone to tell on them - to play the innocent role - they both were caught, put into jail - then months later DEPORTED. simple.

again, i think you shouldn't get involved with authorities and just have the couple deal with it and try to solve it.

if the 'F' didn't get any interest from the 'M' then this wouldn't even be a situation.

i see no harassment as he is willingly enjoying the pictures.

sorry my response upset you ..

hey thanks honest. but that's NOT what i asked. If you could notice, my question was: what is the procedure for reporting, and what are the authorities’ actions in this case? That's all i asked. And I will be grateful in case someone can give me an appropriate answer, instead of first starting investigation of the situation, and finally saying "it’s non of your business", thanks again. but I don’t need your judgment. I need the information on the reporting matter.

its plain and simple .. out of experience, do not get involved. let 'THEM' deal with it on their own. it isn't 'U' (r) problem.

harsha, how she can trouble him? what she can do? she comes to qatar ilegally at the first place. Even this is enough to ban her and to blacklist the company of her lover who issues fake visas for her. How SHE can trouble him? like what? to tell that he is the one who harass her? ok.

1.don't come to qatar on iligal way

2. don't live with your lover not married.

3. don't fool the qatari government by pretending that you are working here, since all you do here is sending your naked pictures to the men.

now show me please, how can she trouble him?? really. I want to see all posible ways. thanks.

labda06 - I know, and "I" knows too :)

that's what exactly i ask, harsha. what are the authorities' action?

My friend wants to report this "I", saying that she is sending naked pictures to the men, and that her lover "M" issuing fake visas for her. That's it. my friend wants this "I" to be banned.

I agree! I hope you let your friend know as she has a right! Other than that it is out of your hands.

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

just read that "he will be in trouble coz she might trouble him".. guess i am sleepy.. i shud get goin.. gudnite every1..

I think your friend should be addressing her husband. Women arent so cheap that they would chase a man so fervently if he showed no interest. This guy is obviously leading the other woman on.

If I had so little trust in my partner she would be so quick out of the door that her feet wouldnt touch the ground.

its a confusing story with the "I"'s... actually the fren is getting harassed not the husband... so i aint sure if the harassment case will be valid.. and if the husband is involved.. may be he will get in trouble as she might trouble him too..

stratty, LOL, you've run her off!!! A lady in distress and you poke fun at her predicament. No I's predicament or was it M's? What there a J?

And I thought calculus was hard.

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brit. all my friend wants is just to ban this "I" from entering qatar. she has to learn her lesson. she has to know what she can do and when and how. she is not a little girl by the way! Husband.. wel. this is a different story! she will manage this issue. but what shocked my friend is how her one of the best friends could do it! again. It's not about cheating husband. I am myself convinst that more than half of husbands are cheating sooner or later, more or less. But this is about friedns! how can you do such things to your friend? there are not enough men in qatar?? why did this "I" have to try hooking her friend's husband? that's what we both my friend and I cannot understand! walk in to ANY bar in Doha and you will get more than enough volonteers to help with this matter, and she would get hundreds of e-mails where she can send her naked pics since thats' what she badly wants!! why to go for her friend's husband?? do you have any explanation for that? It's the same like if you BRIT trust your male friend, you bring him to your house, and he... is stealling money from yourt!! this is the same level! YOU consider him your friend, YOU trust him, YOU bring him home, to your family and he is stealling something from your house! how is that???

Sorry Blackcat, this is insensitive.

Where are they at, Brit?! :)

No - it was even better - "can you send YOUR naked pictures?" We've all got some... :D

How come I never meeet women loike that?

"Could YOU send naked pictures to your friend's husband?" Oh, mercy!

LOL manyana...not the easiest of threads to read.

The husband isn't acting like he's being harassed.

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The husband should have deleted the photos and discouraged her from sending more. She shouldmn't have sent them..

I think both are to blame, so what good would reporting them do ?

"Evil"? Like the devil? All's fair in love and war.

so as I understand you guys all agree that this is a husband’s fault in full? right? That this “I” is acting normal, she is innocent, she is behaving ok, and only the husband is evil? Right?

Alexa, tell me please.. could YOU do it? could YOU send your naked pictures to your friend’s husband?

Brilliant thread!

iryssa, my friend got these pictures from her husband!! accidently my friend comes accross some evident that her husband and this "I" may be in touch. So my friend asked her husband straight: what's going on. Then he told her this story. That thsi "I" sends him messages, and even pictures. Well.. we can say the husband is weak, or whatever.. may be he even used this "I" couple of times, who knows? but the question is how this "I" could do such things to her friend??? To hand out with hger, and to have an affair with her husband!! and at the same time she is begging her lover this businessman "M", to marry her for couple of years!

thanks Iryssa for your responce..

to other:please stop making fun. I just asked the question: if my friend reports to the authorities, will it creat any effect on her and her husband's work? I mean what is the procedure in case of reporting? what's coming next? will they call my friend and her husband for the investigation? Do authorities send this mater to their companies.. or somethign like that?

Husband doesn't want to hear from this annoying lady "I". Let's leave alone now the question whether he was involved with this lady or not? he doesn't want to hear from her! But my friend doesn't want to just call her or even her lover to stop it. I want you to understand guys, this "I" is a friend of my friend! she is not just someone unknown! thyey use to spend a lot of time together! every time that this "I" comes to qatar on fake business visa, she calls my friend and ask her to go somewhere, as she is bored here. and at the same time, this "I" doing such things! she smiles to my friend and at the same time stab her into her back! thyis story is NOT about cheating husband! this is about fake evil "friend"!

t_coffee_or_me, can you imagine, your best friend tries to get your wife!! he send her expensive gifts, makes her offers she can't refuse, and stuff... who would you be angry with at the first place???

so please, either give a constructive answers if you guys know how this reporting works, or just stop making fun... you never know.. one day you may be in the same situation

Some of the comments are very funny to read. People in QL have good sense of humor and that is why I like visiting QL.

Keep it up fellows.

let her just talk about it with her husband.

why can't she show the pics and messages to the other girl's bf?

i'm sure he will stop the visas for her in this way.

and yes, she can report it. but better to try it done first between her and the husband, if that doesn't work, tell the boyfriend about it.

if that doesn't work...go ahead and kick the b*tc*'s azz!

i hate when such women come in between other relationships. no self respect...

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

lol manyana

Is there a troll on the loose

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Lol...

Thats what i thought at the beginning but all the drama going on between I and M...who knows...:D

this story is missing a character called "O". Once you have this "O" person, then the 3 of them will form:

"M.O.I"

This is when the government can interfer

Post a few pics so that matter can be further looked into. If they are too revealing, you can PM them to me ;)))

What i know is I is in between H & J from where did M come

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This is a tough one....am lost between the I and M..

this kind of case has been discussed earlier on QL. The common tenor was: Stay out and mind your own business.

i can smell the blood here!...:)

you should confront the other woman face to face, preferably in a bikini and a ring full of jelly.

sounds like hubby is enjoying the attention... does he want it to stop?

if not your friend is going to be exhausted as he will do it again and again...

oh my my..what a big mess we're dealing with!!

don't get your self into trouble yeah!!

I think the problem lies more with "I" husband more than anything. He can stop all this but he isnt... not a lot of sense going to the authorities on this one... it will cause a lot of problems for everyone.