Remembering him.... :(

Smiling S, pleasant memories can never be forgotten,

but don't lose your hope and move ahead for your kids...Cheer up!

Sorry to hear about your Loss Santro....

But the Fact is that "He is not Coming Back" you need to be strong and live for your self and your children....

May God Bless you and Your Children...

it is unfair to your current one if your heart is still bothered by a departed husband. Just remember the memories but try to move on.

Yes she does. She has in fact discussed him in previous posts(and with different IDs)

Santro: I do wish the best for you and your children. Maybe this mourning will in fact be a good time for you to do some serious soul searching in regards to your current marriage as well. Please do what's right for yourself and your kids. And do take care.

Thanks to u all my dear family members.....I love u all and respect ur feelings and love for my kids and me....Thanks and regards to u all..........

Do you have a second husband?

Sorry for your loss - may god give u the strength to overcome your grief and may god bless your daughter and keep her happy

Sorry for your loss Santro... may Allah Almighty bless you and your family.

your loss is understandable.

But you need to get over it for the good of your kids....

first love is staying forever, and not easy to forget it at all, once we love someone it is imposible for us to forget the moment reminding us her/his

I know how u feel Santro... i lost my mom many years back and until now i still cant get over it because i was so close to her... Just pray.. and be strong.

opps .. i hate life we came to it without our permission .. and we are continuing walking to our end without our permission .. if we accept that or not the same with out our permission or choice ..

what is coming : is coming also without our permission ..

Sorry for your loss santro...may God give you the strength to overcome all the hurdles in your life...

I can understand the pain of loss...

But just imagine like this

If he is alive and if gets a job in a beautiful country where he will get healthy food accommodation and 100% perfect life with no problems and tensions at all and if he has to accept this offer alone without any family member , will you allow him or not? And u will be happy after he goes to that country or not?

So as per your religion he is very happy in heaven the perfect world of peace and happiness. So be happy. If you are happy he will also be happy.

enjoy life as its gonna end in a second ... :P

Right VIVME. Remember that physical wounds get healed by nursing but Sorrows get bigger. U also can get strength even from negative circumstances, move on.

Well,I dunno what to say to make you feel better santro but here are my hugs..

Well spotted UKEngQatar

It's difficult to know what you might be feeling right now. But am sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.

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Your grief is justified, but the early you come to grips with it, the better it is for you, your children (and your second husband as I understand it).

We lost our father 10 years ago. Quite hard until now but we have moved on knowing he's rested with the Creator.

The more you keep him in you heart and your mind, the more you're hurting yourself.

A bit harsh but - move on and grow up!

Sorry for your loss santro...may God give you the strength to overcome all the hurdles in your life...

I can understand the pain of loss...

Do you regret remarrying?

YOU AGAIN?

I feel sorry that you still miss him, but that doesn't discount the fact that I also still think you're a bit of a nutter :-(

Is it your first husband Death Anniversary, means that you have now a second husband?

May God give you the patience to overcome this loss.

its coz you Loved him from bottom of your heart !

First love is not forgetable !

Feel so sorry for you, hope God gives you much strength to move on and have a blessed future for your kids and urself.