Is this really true or not?
In respond to some colleagues who said that women are independent of men and do not need men at all to walk forwards, never mind how far women can walk but in my opinion they will always need men to support them and here are some parts of articles which I picked for you:
"Sorry, but women are dependent on men
By DR NICK NEAVE
As an evolutionary psychologist, I study patterns of behaviour dating back to the first human societies, and constantly analyse evidence that demonstrates the key differences which have developed between the sexes since men were hunter-gatherers and women were child bearers.
Females are smaller and weaker than males so, in prehistoric times, women and their offspring were prone to being the victims of predators, and violence.
They needed the support and protection of men who didn't just have brute force but also had social status in the group, either through their sheer physicality or the strength of their personality.
That's why women still look for a mate of higher social standing."
For full article please go to the source below:
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-420513/Sorry-women-dependent-men.html#ixzz1X9NAySxj
Here is another article:
Twenty reasons women still need men
source:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/article688036.ece
Look at this also:
"Do Women Need Men?
Written by Bruce Sallan Tuesday, 16 March 2010 07:48
But, back to the subject of this column--do women need men? I assert an absolute YES. Just as men need women. We compliment each other and, as is well known, men actually live longer married than single. But, while there isn’t a counterpart for women, who usually outlive men and do better alone after a long marriage, I assert that in the formative, childbearing years, women need men as much as ever. We learn from one another; we grow; we are challenged. That makes both genders stronger. "
Full article is in the source below:
http://www.brucesallan.com/index.php/mycolumn/189-do-women-need-men
Did you go throught the link nomerci to see if it answer your questions, the link is a web page with 20 questions about marriage, just pick any question you like.
This is the ideal situation in our belief, no woman can be forced to marry some one she does not want and the same for the man, both man and woman are given the choice accoriding to our belief and if you want to know about marriage condition in Islam please visit
http://www.islamqa.com/en/search/Marriage/AllWords/t,q,a
I am sure that many will like this website because it has many questions and you can select the language you like, but sure not for LLP.
Yes, nomerci. 1432!
The conceit over here is just amazing!"The need of a man and the agreement of a lady" rofl. What is this...the 15th century???
During my first few days in Dubai, some Chinese lady would invariably approach me on the streets in the evening and ask ' Do you need a lady'? I guess ladies don't know yet what men need :-/
Depends on the woman agreement
But this depends on the man desire
We need each other!
I think some men need up to four women at the same time!
Both need each other what ever any one of them say
So, what's the conclusion after this long brain storming session..:) let me know who's dependent or independent on whom ??
The keyword here is dependent. Whilst men and women may need each other, in this day and age not many are dependent on each other - especially in developed countries.
shhhh... shhhh.... I did not say any thing, did anybody see what I posted
hajmola, not everybody has digestion problem, some can survive without it.
afternoon haj.... nice pic right there....
~smile always~
Here's my two cents, A woman needs a man as much as a man needs a woman, thats in a perfect world where they agree to live in harmony and so on...In other circumstances where they are forced to live alone (death/divorce/personal choice) they can adapt at living apart and be perfectly happy :) In my opinion
these opinions are all acceptable. why? because each and everyone of us has a choice whether we need to share our life with a man or a woman or stay single. that is why, we are given an opportunity to make choices, because whatever choice we make, is what really matters.
~smile always~
that he human being at a certain time has no choice and later the human being will have a choice.
Example
You do not have a choice to choose your father or mother before you are born
You have a choice in a certain job or no, or to go to one country or no.
Sorry, but women are NOT dependent on men as men are NOT dependent on women.
Free of cost !
LOL. If that's true you should sell your services!
we are no one judge, but i can amplify anyones happiness, thats my confidence :)
Or they just like being by themselves TC. As long as they're happy, who are we to judge.
Is it really the truth if you're the only one who knows it?
Pilgrim, that person is abnormal in relative perception and is denying the treasures of partnership. or had a really bad experience...i mean really really bad experince with partnerships
Not for SA, pilgram. HE KNOWS the TRUTH!
No SA, the wrong way of thinking is thinking that someone's chosen way of life is wrong.
please use Ctrl+F and type "we" and you will know.
That's a probability, SA. Truth has NO exceptions, otherwise it's not truth!
TC, I would say in this matter neither of our opinions matter, what matters is the opinion of the person who's chosen not to have any companionship. :)
The wrong way of thinking is like this
It worked for me then it must work for others as well
A single or double case can not mean that a certain rule or case is true, a true case or rule is a thing which has a high percentage of success more than 70 or 80 percent.
SA, it was YOU who used "we"!
We say that evey one see the people from his/her own eye, so if you consider what I post or write as forcing then probably you want to force us with what you post.
THEIR d*cks. try losing yours.
that both genders need each other, and that is why there were originally to sexes male and female, couldn't it have been one sex which re produce independently, well maybe yes, there some animals which we studied in biology class and we knew that they can be independent and reproduce independrntly as there is only one sex of these tiny animals or bacteria what ever.
Pilgrim: We have different opinions, thats one of the beauty of contrast, which gives us way forward :)
being introvert is very normal, companionship of opposite genders at any level is better than any constant solitude.
Men don't need d*cks, they have d*cks!
Most women don't need men. They need credit cards!...as men need thier d*cks
Here:Therefore - I think we all can conclude that both sexes need each other in some ways :-)Read more: http://www.qatarliving.com/node/2079138#comment-1957379#ixzz1XAeBjFfz
"we all"
The only people who used "we all" are RAK, cabbage, LLP
and not necessarly in married couple alone, I am not a person of high power and technology to meet each single person and know if he/she is happy or not.
SA, you are talking about "we all". Do YOU want to control our opinion?
I don't think it's adaptation at all I think some people are just born not needing human companionship as much as others. They are happier being by themselves and don't like having to make the comprimises many of us make to have a companion.
A man should always try to be happy with what he is and does. Then he can "add" a beautiful woman to his "garden". If a man NEEDS a woman to be happy, he isn't mature at all and should be better avoided!
Because this is my opinion or do you want to control my opinion.
yeah pilgrim, i ll make an analogy, its just like living without one of the basic senses, one can adopt to it. But its missing for sure.
one way or the other we need one another...Alhamdullilah!
I have a couple of single great aunts (in their 90's now) who've never been married, live alone, etc and are quite happy about it, and ditto with a single great uncle. It depends on the person. Some people need other people, some people don't. The only time a woman truely needs a man (or at least his sperm) is to have a child.
compulsive paranoia !
"We all"? Never. Why aren't you happy to say "I" conclude? Why do you have to "convince" everybody of your opinion? What is wrong with you, SA?
Do you ever actually read any of your 'articles' before posting?
The article in The Times by Hugo Riffkin was a jokey, blokey article where he actually took the *iss out off blokes.
In the last article the author himself had this to say in conclusion:
The notion that women can procreate by other means and therefore truly don’t need a man is just selfish and foolish. Further, it irrevocably denies the children even the possibility of having a dad in their lives. I’ve been a Big Brother on and off over the years, and the single moms in Big Brothers know darn well the value of a man in their sons’ lives. Sadly, they rarely match girls with the Big Brothers-- a fall-out from litigation, lawyers, and fear. This is so tragic, as the girls without fathers need the male adult figure just as much as the boys do. Some gender facts are just not PC (politically correct) in spite of their historical and empirical truth. This notion of our respective need for the opposite sex (I still dislike the PC use of “gender”) is just bunk and destructive. Let’s recognize that men and women each have something quite valuable to bring to relationships, to children, to society, and to each other. And, let’s acknowledge and celebrate those differences. I’m grateful that my wife is a woman and has female instincts and desires. It enriches our family and me. While I still would like to stay a slob, let my kids have messy rooms, occasionally allow a pile of dishes in the sink to accumulate, let my dogs sleep on the bed with me, and forgive similar sins of my boys, she keeps us in line. In turn, I bring some “fix-it” to her problems as well as practical get-it-done approaches to many things that I know benefit her.
I’m glad I’m a man; I’m glad she’s a woman. That’s the way God made us and that’s the way it should be.
Therefore - I think we all can conclude that both sexes need each other in some ways :-)
man and woman together is a powerhouse, that is natural design. (sexually they are equally dependent on each other)
I will rather say it as a beautiful and natural inter-dependce.
yes... irrespective of age...a widower will remarry as soon as possible...
but there are lots of widows who live single and take care of their children...even if they are not financially sound...somehow they raise their kids....how many fathers can do that?
Katrina Kaif is single - isnt she ?
SA ..so you dont know any happy men or women who is single/alone?
I think "Need " is the wrong word in this context. NEEd is only there for reproduction, the rest is CHOICE.
Excellent Formatted soulStraight Arrow how can u say that women are dependent on men. We all have to agree that they both need each other. But for sure women can stay without men but it is very difficult for men to survive without women.Have you ever seen a widower, I am sure a widower's life is worst than a widow' life.
Well, the thread is about MEN and WOMEN, and not about kids, FS!
And I 100% agree with those who say both need each other, but also no one can be independent from each other, i.e. at the end a man will need a woman to live with and vice versa.
So it's NOT TRUE then?
LP.....only when they are adults... it was a woman who gave birth to them !!
and so as All the Lesbians can live without a Men easily....
All gays can live without a woman easily!
Its not true.. there are 1000's of women who are happy and successful without men!!
woman can do almost everything herself without a man.... but man cant do half of the things without women...
yes.. as nomerci said...that’s the only thing woman cant do alone.. reproducing!!
Not ALL women can live without men....but there are many women who CAN easily live without men....
if they are useless to each other. Precisely they are man and woman!
But from my opinion, there are some women who are weak who needs men even for a simple thing or task. There are some women also who are tough and hard to do some slight heavy work.
On the other hand, there are Men who are really strong in physical but weak in perseverance. There are men also who are weak in physical fatigue (as they are not use to work labor works) but they can manage to find other ways to work it out.
Sorry Straight Arrow but, not only women who needs men. MEN REALLY needs women. Women Perseverance and women instict are some of the strong chracteristics that you need to survive in the jungle of life.
God created Eve so Adam will not be lonely and someone will take care of Adam :)....
thus, Adam needs Eve.....Men needs women :)
Men needs Women and Women needs Men...and tats the truth !
U can survive without water but not without Men/Women....lol
vice versa. men also needs women!
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Women need one thing froma man, and that is his sperm. That's about it.