Older women and younger men: Can it Work?

fnck yeah an e-cookie

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wow u guessed that all on ur own! I'm so proud of u! *pats him on the head and gives him a cookie*

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

must mean my kid is going to be insane hahahahahahahaah

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Like parent like child :P

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

Again you are making the fine wine blush and look like red wine.

Am fine. How are you?

i must agree... you kids are driving me crazy hahahahahahahahahaha

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just hanging out and watching dvd's with helen keller... kind of a quite night.

Naah age isn't just a number, with age comes experience and maturity (usually atleast)

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

1- The LOVE.

2- The Trust.

3- The Respect.

you are a fine wine indeed...as a young grape you must have been stomped quite well and allowed to age gracefully...

How are you this evening??

get better and tastier with age

hurray for boobs... hahahahahah long live the boobs... dolly partons boobs are older than me

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whats going on here! *Steps in Defender of the boobies*

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

u would be a disgrace to ur entire gender if u did lol.

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

but im not... and ill be damned if im going to tell her to stop hahahahahahaahahah

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there's no such thing as immune against boobies :P

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

hmmm...i'm afraid you're confused about my orientation...i'm immune to the boobies :P

Corne chases Booo to the dungeons...and this time flashes Booo, Boo forgets all that 007 crap and gets hypnotized by the boobs...I then order her to lock herself with thaguy...and she does :D

Noone will defeat Queen Corne!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

hmm...do they have classes for that? cos i think flashing is a full blown profession :P

you should try random flashings... it works for others... hahahahahahaha

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LOL...its ok i shall find a way to get over it. Its gunna be hard but i'll survive :P

hey i cant argue with a queen that does random flashings... its just not in my nature hahahahaahahah

sorry

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thatguy!! she's taking over our kingdom!! aah you fell for the old boobies trick! i need to be more scrupulous when it comes to picking my kings.

woooo whoooo i saw boobies hahahahahahah

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corne corne corne...everyone knows that every Queen has a body double!!! haaa you fell for it! not to worry thatguy i shall come and save you *does some 007 stunts and heads to the dungeons*

Corne sits on Boo and suffocates her to death, meanwhile she flashes thatguy and while he's too busy being mesmerized she smacks him with the stick on his head and throws him in the dungeon ....and now...all Hail Queen Corne!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

aah fine you're so picky! umm how about a picture of a garden gnome?

Little did Boo and thatguy know that soon Corne will overthrow them...mwahahaha

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

Intruder!!! guards didnt i say no cow aviators allowed while we're planning how we're gunna run this site!! Guaards!!

*courtesy* but i dont want an underwear wearing camel... there so uptight

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hey hey hey! WE rule this site!

And as king and queen i say the first rule we should put forth that everyone should courtesy before speaking to us and that everyone should change their aviators to pictures of different colored underwear wearing camels :P

Oh shush! *pushes thatguy and sits back on her throne*

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

wooo whooo a mutiny!!!!!! I WIN... I NOW RULE THIS SITE...

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That's cause I wasn't here...it's a bird, no a plane, no it's Corne!!

Boo...u just looooove that "mere mortals" phrase, don't ya ? :P

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong- Garfield

i say we take this chance and take over! :P

i know!... i guess its bedtime for everyone :S

man this place went from talkative to dead in about 10 seconds... is it just me and you on here...

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wooohooo indeed :P

wooo whooo...

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there you go, its a win-win situation, everybody gets what they want.

and vise versa

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well if she makes him happy...let him do something wild before its too late :P

i totally forgot about demi moore... but in about 10 more years... aston is going to leave her... actually i say in about 5 more years at the most...

but yes older women can be with younger men... it happens all the time... and it even happens in the other direction...

my dad married a women only a couple of years older than me hahahahahahaha

of course she was a stripper and just wanted him for his money hhahahahaaha

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How about Oprah and Stedman, they've been together for about 20 years!

and who about Madonna & Guy Ritchie? they are together for almpst 10 years, and married for almost 8...

well it seems to be working for Demi moore and Ashton Kutcher, so if it works for them in a place were 3 years seems like forever then there is a chance it could work for us mere mortals.

There is no such thing as any religion background when it comes to love .. love in any form or background is beautiful...

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

i am sure, in 25 years you are definitely not gonna "find all wrinkly skin, saggy boobs, and barely any hair on your head!"...If you don't want to! Nowadays technology already helps you to avoid all these awful things which you are talking about..and in 25 years from now, this field will be developed soooo much more! so may be you will find all these horrible features in another 25 years after first 25 years! lol.. even that i doubt!

awww TCOM, just noticed ur post...actually I'm pretty no matter who the beholder is :P (I just love complimenting myself! hahaha)

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

love and logic don't go together... lol...by the way i know the couple where she is younger than him for about 24 years, and she is beautiful young Lady, he is an elder, but very good looking guy, full of energy, it's always fun with him.. she sais "I cannot imagine my life without him!"...

...look at all these celebrities..they are all married to the guys 15-20-25 years younger... and don't say that money or status is decisive factor... The guy is falling in love with woman who has accomplished a lot (that's why she deserves respect!), who is in the perfect shape (that's why she is physically desirable), who is a good friend and adviser, as her life experience is wider and deeper...

Don't do this to me! Don't let me hang on false hope only to wake up 25 years from now and find all wrinkly skin, saggy boobs, and barely any hair on my head!

Maybe if I keep saying "I'll get prettier, I'll get prettier, I'll get prettier", it'll work ? Heck it worked for Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz damnit!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

hahahahaha corny your so corny... look im just saying this lady was hot... not saying anything about others... as for my self i am getting uglier and uglier... hell you saw how ugly i am... hahahahahahaha age doesnt always seem to help us all... but for gosh sakes i hope i pull out a trump card soon cause this getting ugly stuff sucks...

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lol corneee.... u r and will be ... beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

So does that mean when I get older I'll get prettier ?? :D hehe *fingers crossed*

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

well i think you mis interpreted what i was saying by physical attractions... im speaking from a non muslim law background... were physical attractions lead to very very short relationships... ie the cougar comment...

a cougar is an older women who just wants to get with a younger man for a brief intercourse... not one who is looking for a relationship... and 24 years of age difference doesn't mean one cant be attractive... my mom has a friend who is a lawyer and is in her 40's and i must say she is one hot mamma ... i would definitely say she is alot prettier than women my own age... at 25

i do agree that physical attraction is a horrible reason to keep a relationship... as for a relationship... or falling in love... it just happens...

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Qatarisun, ur totally right, I'm just saying from a logical point of view, but I know once I fall in love all the logic is thrown out the window lol.

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

here is a trick! we don't choose a love! Once Love overtakes us and covers with the fluffy blanket... We do not think: "oh, he/she is older/ younger, therefore I shall not love him/her"... We simply fall in love... Why? Nobody knows!

thatguy.. well, speaking of physical attraction..I think, with 24 years of difference it is not a case, at least this is not a main reason for keeping good relationship, for sure!! Even though i have to admit, some ladies in their 40-s phisically much more attractive than 18-20 years old chicks...

alot of times there just physical attractions... and not actual loving relationships... thats whats great about a cougar... hahahahahahahaha

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24 years younger? Wow he's young enough to be her son! I don't think I would want to be at that age and date a much younger guy nor would I want to be at this age and date a much older guy. Sometimes the beauty in a relationship is going through experiences together rather than have one side having had all the experience on their own.

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

whats wrong with that

hahhahahaah

i mean a women who knows what she wants is much better than a women who hasnt had much to know what she wants =P

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she is married to the guy 24 years younger then her. He is 23 now. They are together for 3 years alreay.. and guess what.. he is deadly afraid that one day she will leave him!

Older women like younger men, and younger women like older men. Ha!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield

not a chance!

hmmm ok then so i did 17.5 yrs and throw 2 yrs in living together so total 19.5 yrs........wow has it been that long???>twiddling fingers....

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

id love to meet a good old fashion cougar

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or should I say Mohamed?

I think 15 years(17 if you count living together before marriage) isn't bad going! And it was nothing to do with age that made me throw the jerk out!

And as for the fiance....well that was just a huge mistake from day one....nothing to do with age.

with a steady girlfriend & still lives with the parents?

Hmmmm...what do you think of that?

It is not enough to do your best; you must know what to do and THEN do your best.-W. Edwards Deming

hmmm wats the definition of over 30?

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

I'm over 30 and single. Any Chance ;-))

ROFL. Y'all KNOW I meant 30! Damned keyboard!

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

i almost fell off my chair reading the age 3?!...you are soooo qualified for pedophile birthday girl...ROFL...

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Texas Rangers baseball team?? well alrighty..but gee that will get expensive..however, its your birthday, so I'll see what I can do...

nah gypsy isn't...she's just too much fun to joke with...she at least wil wait until they are 18...

good you clarify that one, you are not Pedophile, aren't you $-)

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People are very inclined to set moral standards for others.

~Elizabeth Drew, The New Yorker, 16 February 1987

WOOHOO! Bring on the Texas Rangers ;)

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

be dating a 3 year old..but hey..you know, you posted that thread on pedophilia..hmmmmmmmm..(sorry, couldn't resist!)

I about died laughing when i read your post..please leave it, because for the most part, its TRUE!!!

and yeah you'll meet him/them in Jan...so start making plans now...

yes it works.but not to young.lol.my sweetheart is 7 years younger then me and it works wonderful.with older men i made bad experiences,they used to know all better and always forced me into things i dont liked and also most of my male friends are younger and when we go out we have always a lot of fun but if it needs we talk verry serious together and i dont think about ages.They are my friends,thats it.

:-D

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Of course, it is 100% up to the couple to make the relationship strong and long lasting.

ROFLMAO!!!! I just realized I wrote 3 instead of 30! I'm not even going to change that, I'm leaving it for posterity. :P

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

I'm just waiting to meet him Scarlett. ;)

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

marry my son..he's a younger guy...;)

Gypsy it sounds like you have a point there and I'm analyzing guys that I know...

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我听见 我忘记; 我看见 我记住; 我做 我了解。

You can't understand until you walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

I sincerely believe that if a guy is over 3 and still single he has issues and you shouldn't date him. So I stick to younger guys. ;)

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

but they've got to be friends so they have things to talk about..otherwise the age gap can be like a canyon.

Sexwise..of course it would work because women don't even start to reach their sexual peak until at least 45 and men hit theirs in their early 20's...

Qatarisun made several good points in what she said...women have changed over the past decade in that they take care of themselves...and it shows...

you got the right stuff for that recipe salmah>winks

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

some one once told me >ol man's dahling young man's slave

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

as owen has said: age difference is just one small factor.. there are SOOO many other factors! Like all the "same-age" relationships are working??

are we getting serious in here? GAP??? Age? no problem... Height? no problem... Color? no problem... Status in life? no problem, ALL are equal in BED $-) Don't you think so?

Older and experienced women are always way to go.... no hassles... no tears.... they will lead you all the way!

Smokey Baby but I don't suggest you to become Stifler (American Pie) GRANDMOTHER.... you know the rest! lol

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People are very inclined to set moral standards for others.

~Elizabeth Drew, The New Yorker, 16 February 1987

If that true why it didn't work with you with your ex husband or with your ex fiance?

you are so right on owen -agrees with ya totally

there's a saying that age doesn't matter...it depends, i mean even if they are both of the same age, if they don't work on the relationship...it won't last...both parties should be open minded to handle a long lasting relationship...age difference is just one small factor..

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Sure! I have dated a guy 12 years younger (for 5 years) , and 16… and guess what, I still felt a little girl with them… The last thing I want to be is their mom… and regardless their age, my guys are usually more mature than I am in a way of acting, behaving, thinking…

Nowadays, a woman who looks after herself physically and mentally, is in a great shape. She doesn’t stop going to Gym, she loves to dance, she loves music, she loves to get into some adventures, she loves to learn new things…

And on top of that, these “grown up girls” know how to manage relationship, they don't get madly jealous, they don't make a huge deal out of nothing, they don’t change their mind every 3 seconds, they know how to ignore guy’s stupid words….They are deeper emotionally too...And so and so and so…..

Sometimes 23-y.o. chick out of physical, mental and emotional shape can not keep up with 37-38-40 y.o. one, trust me….

For me no it will not work.

Older men but not that old for a young woman

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我听见 我忘记; 我看见 我记住; 我做 我了解。

You can't understand until you walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

so u make yr own pasta is that it?

na true italian style pasta

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Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

would that pasta be mac n cheese???anyways my motto is :have guinea pigs can cook..............(sniggers)

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Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

TCOM ur cooking is terrible please spare spicemom hehe just kidding he makes good pasta..thats about the only thing he would feed me dont know what else he can cook.

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

just bought some short ribs gonna try out some recipes fr the internet -wish me luck

sure would love that cooking is my hobby love to cook

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

me too but we are the cooks in the home would chefs in restaurants do that??wanna trade recipes?me loves to cook n entertain

I always give my cooking secrets not a big deal

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

same as a good chef darent let out his secret recipes>winks

a good stalker never tells his secrets :)

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

hey smokey how do u know that i do work out?u spying on me are ya>>

glad you are still here. Didnt want to run off all the men.

is not all it is made out to be. Women usually work at it harder than men because we are raised to be care givers.

i think coz ur a spy u have to do a lot of working out...kicking groins and man to hand combat :) remind me to wear my cup.

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

agree Spy. Love that younger man. I have dated one 15 years younger than me for the last 8 years. I bring the experience they bring the ............

Very true. i think I worked at my marriage for 15 years whereas he only worked at it for the first 5 lol!

yes i am spy and thank you nothing is easy gf everything in life you have to work at.......

Go girlfriend! ;-)

psssssttt-guess wat i found my fountain of youth too..........hehehhehhehhe(shhhshhhh)

Wow! Well done! You get less than that for murder in the UK! LOL

Seriously though, that's really nice! I was married for 15 years and engaged for 2 recently. So you're older then your hubby then?

to jump into this one. I have dated younger men for a while and have realized that the men that are my age are old. Spy you are right. They might me good for sugar daddies but I love that younger man.

say aye to older woman younger man>we been married for 17.5 yrs now.......insyaallah many many more yrs to come........amen

You welcome

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

LOL Mature women! Thanks. That's really sweet. Better then being called an old biddy any day!

Except for one, my longer lasting relationships were with women older than me. My wife is a few years older than me and we've been married 7 years now. And we've been a couple for 2 years before that. (That's 9 years of relationship !)

I think it depends more on the persons involved rather than their age but older women then to be more understanding than fickle-minded.

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Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

we can have our very own date thread my sweets virtual date first of its kind right here on QL :)TCOM stop getting jealous will u...and i've downloaded some more christmas songs yesterday will burn them later and let u know when to come collect it..coz i might download some more.

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

Well as I'm in the UK and your in Qatar where shall we go for a date then?

Stop harassing mature women

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

oh so when its other guys who are 9 and 17 yrs younger u can date them but poor smoke is a no comment...Crucify her! Crucify her! last chance to save urself spy agree to date me or u'll have bad luck for 9 years.:)

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

No comment! LOL

Wooah Spy u must be one hell of a woman then...can we go on a date since ur being so kind to younger guys *waits for reply with happy eyes*

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

I have dated men my age and they have looked WAY older than me! My ex husband was 9 years younger and my ex fiance was 17 years younger and no one ever thought there was any age gap between me and my ex.

I really think women age far better than men!

Last Friday I thought I'd try a change and went out with a guy 10 years OLDER than me! He looked like my Dad just before he died and he was in his 80's!

i think older women younger men work great!

I think the older man and younger wowan is the rule cos the nature of the woman as she gets old faster than the man.

My ex was younger than I...

Key word being EX...

I like younger women; but, they like that hip hop rap crap...

And I don't want that blaring in my pad...Or my head

Most pinay not into that unless they Americanized though...

Younger woman is OK...But they have to be way mature...

Ok put it this way

In General Older man younger woman is the rule...

Because we know women more mature...

But if they work out, eat right and still look hot...

I would prefer the older woman???

Make any sense???

You can't teach experience...

Did you try them? ;-))

I believe they wiser

Oh...

And a plus...

older women are more experienced...

YAY...

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...

You can't teach experience...