Money Matters
sometimes for simple things we lose our relationship to our dear friends, to our lovers and to our relatives....
but sometimes we lose them because of MONEY.
why this has to happen?
why we have to lose the relationship just because of money matters? what is there in the money when you have no one with u except your money?
what is more important? your money or your relationship to the people you love?
that cause these problems, it is the way that it make the people act. You lend someone money and because that person does not want to pay you at time, does not want to pay you at all or for any other reasons can't make it in time ...
You will see that person, telling lies, ignoring your calls, avoiding you, trying to move to another place, trying to do something bad to pay you back.
Money by itself was never a problem, we all do find ourselves in a situation where we need to borrow money. If you will come to tell me, I'm sorry my friend but I can't pay you at that time just wanted to inform you to give me another chance to pay you as I have nothing at the moment. I would of course understand that person, appreciate his/her honesty knowing that they are really in need I won't be having any problems in doing so.
If on the other hand I will find someone doing the opposite, ok it is the time for him/her to pay. He/she did not, it is one week late, two weeks ... He/She is not answering my calls, what went wrong? What is happening? Did she/he tried to fool me?Take my money and run away? Of course all of these doubts that you put me will lead to the worst ...
Even if you paid me later, I would never lend you money again. I will warn other people from lending you money as it's my duty being a friend to tell them the truth. I might be doing you a favor, if you already lost my friendship you might keep yours with them ... not unless you are getting close to people to borrow money and then run away ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
money is more important feck everyone else!!
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid."
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
that is true, ppl follow money now
most of ppl just search for money they can lose friends but they will care to lose one rayal
"Some people make the world more special, Just by being in it ..."
Sad to say, but this is one bad thing that we should learn to accept. This is the reason why we should learn how to choose our real friends, only true ones.
Yes, its a fact that we live with money - buy food, pay for shelter, to travel places, to buy necessities, but still not everything can be bought by money alone. There are more valuable things that money can't buy.
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Sad but true:
"No money...no honey!"
i will alwayz choose Loved ones but sometimes you cant make your loved ones happy coz you do not have enough money.
in that case at some point of time people think that y i m not that rich to make my loved one's happy
because someone will abuse the other... they thought money is growing in your backyard, they don't even bother to return what they owe you.
money dominates things not only in your practical life but also in sentimental life... But of course, that is for the majority... i rather be in the minor ones as long that i have my love ones with me...and not yelling at me because i do not have money..NYAHAHAHA
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see my post on family politics, the situation may match, while money should always be low prioirty vs loved ones until and unless if we see that some loved one may start abusing this.. which is not good.
another option is not to share your true incoem with anyone, even if u do not earn a lot, obviously this exclude wife adn husband etc.
regards
FOR FRIENDSHIPS TO GET SPOILT!
THAT IS WHY WE SHOULD NEVER ALLOW IT TO OVERCOME FRIENDSHIP
" Make new friends but keep the old, One is silver... the other gold. "