For married men, is true guys?

http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=articles&id=179241

Let us take the content and not just one side

this is for you

Muhammad s.a.w.w said;

Al-Bukhaari (1903, 6057) narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever does not give up false speech and acting upon it, and ignorance, Allaah has no need of him giving up his food and drink.”

Here false speech means lies. Just think, if lies are not acceptable in Ramadan, why will they be accepted when Ramadan is over? In Ramadan the satan is captured while outside Ramadan satan has full liberty to misguide us through his falseness and his evil whims.

Do not let yourself fall in the trap of satan and do not follow your nafs-e amarah. Follow what is written in Quran and sunnah. Because in Quran ALLAH has cursed liars and our beloved prophet too, said that one of the sings of hypocrites is their telling lies.

ALLAH swt said about hypocrites;

Al-Quran 63:001

“(Oh prophet), when the hypocrites come to you, they say, “We bear witness that you really are the messenger of Allah.” Of course, Allah knows you are His messenger; (but) Allah affirms that the hypocrites are really the liars!”

So, from the hadith and verse we have come to know that the liars are hypocrites who do not want to reveal what is in their hearts, and who make fool of themselves only, by lying.

Keep your links to your self mate (: cheers

SA: you can't tell me anything apart from copy pasting stuff from random website, I don't think you can tell me anything.

Read

Irrelevant SA...if islam means peace then how can it tell about lies..Impossible

to show you that no one can judge blindly

No one can act on the God behalf, and here is what you wrote:

"

No matter what are the motives or intention behind them , whites lies are just lies. All lies are sin in the eyes of God.

Read more: http://www.qatarliving.com/node/12522341#ixzz2OB39KYBg"

Therefore you should read my friend

Take this hadith:

"The man that killed 99 people

Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Prophet of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wassallam) said:

“There was a man from among a nation before you who killed ninety-nine people and then made an inquiry about the most learned person on the earth. He was directed to a monk. He came to him and told him that he had killed ninety-nine people and asked him if there was any chance for his repentance to be accepted. He replied in the negative and the man killed him also completing one hundred.

He then asked about the most learned man in the earth. He was directed to a scholar. He told him that he had killed one hundred people and asked him if there was any chance for his repentance to be accepted. He replied in the affirmative and asked, `Who stands between you and repentance? Go to such and such land; there (you will find) people devoted to prayer and worship of Allah, join them in worship, and do not come back to your land because it is an evil place.’

So he went away and hardly had he covered half the distance when death overtook him; and there was a dispute between the angels of mercy and the angels of torment. The angels of mercy pleaded, ‘This man has come with a repenting heart to Allah,’ and the angels of punishment argued, ‘He never did a virtuous deed in his life.’ Then there appeared another angel in the form of a human being and the contending angels agreed to make him arbiter between them. He said, `Measure the distance between the two lands. He will be considered belonging to the land to which he is nearer.’ They measured and found him closer to the land (land of piety) where he intended to go, and so the angels of mercy collected his soul”. [Al Bukhari and Muslim]"

explaination is in the link below:

http://fiqhulhadith.wordpress.com/2011/10/27/the-man-that-killed-99-people/

i'm sorry but the arguement your trying to birng forth, using a verse from the koran is irrelevant to this topic.

your interest to read keep it on, more reading = more open minded and better future vision, all the best my friend.

I advice you to read the below and tell me what you think:

"Sahih International

And if Allah were to impose blame on the people for their wrongdoing, He would not have left upon the earth any creature, but He defers them for a specified term. And when their term has come, they will not remain behind an hour, nor will they precede [it].

"

http://quran.com/16

and

"Sahih International

And if Allah were to impose blame on the people for what they have earned, He would not leave upon the earth any creature. But He defers them for a specified term. And when their time comes, then indeed Allah has ever been, of His servants, Seeing."

source:

http://quran.com/35

I agree to you ;)

No matter what are the motives or intention behind them , whites lies are just lies. All lies are sin in the eyes of God.

lies can never been hidden from a long time..one day it will be exposed...think over it

and I think that white lies are some times necessary keeping the intension clean and honest.

Do you agree MN-01?

SA: you can call it white lie or whateva, But a lie is a lie no matter how you sugarcoat the thing!

good marriage life guys?

please consider what is applicable to your culture and beliefs.

but the point is that you can lie in a way to prevent problems but you should study it first and your intension must be good.

your bringing sister in this topic while the topic is about wife...i find it like you are doubting at your wife...what is the problem in that if she talked about you...do not you want to give her a bit of freedom...its after all between 2 females and why do you wanna interfere...this is another point that you do not trust her and want to keep an eye on her always

60 Tips for a Happy Marriage

A happy marriage is just like a healthy plant. If you give the plant water, sun and air, it blossoms. A marriage requires an equal amount of nurturing if it is to blossom. As much as it is hard to accept, a nice wedding and the good intentions you have to stay together forever are not enough to produce a successful, happy marriage. The excitement and joy that newly-wed couples often experience tend to wear off within the first year of marriage and so, if you want to celebrate your 50th anniversary with your partner one day, you both need to make a conscious decision to "water" your relationship. To reach such as stage is a wonderful thing

read more on:

http://www.ronitbaras.com/life-coaching/60-tips-for-a-happy-marriage/

If you are married and your wife was visiting your sister and she complained some silly things about you, then you asked your sister did my wife complain and your sister told you that your wife did not complain.

Apparently this is a lie but why did your sister lie?

I guess because she does not want to creat a problem between you and your wife.

so by lying you feel good by breaking her heart...am i right

in some circumstances which I explained in previous posts

so you mean to say LYING IS ACCEPTABLE

What is the difference between lying and cheating?

In: The Bible, The Difference Between [Edit categories]

Answer:

lying means someone is deceiving you, cheating however is someone purposely betraying you.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_difference_between_lying_and_cheating

Giles sees a big difference between lying and cheating, both of which Dan Ariely has studied:

"Cheating and lying are, mostly, two very different things.

"Cheating is the breaking of rules (or laws) or agreement, written, spoken or implied. It is the taking of an "unfair" advantage over parties who conform. It is done most often for personal advantage rather than from any empathy although it may be justified as such: a better job, more money, my family's better off.

"Cheating is more often a considered choice where a lie may arise in a split second."by Stephanie Curtis, MPR News 6/29/2012 3:19:02 PM June 29, 2012 at 6:19 PM

http://live.mprnews.org/Event/When_do_you_lie_and_why

I believe that lieing not ncessary verbal, but cheat involves hand interpetation.

so it's not ok to cheat but it's ok to lie? and isn't lying cheating?

If you Lie, You Cheat too.

Not only open minded wife but also a wife who loves his husband dearly and trust him with close eyes...:)

In my opinion never cheat your wife...:)

digested by the open minded wife, say for example he promised his wife to buy her a ring and he forgot, then he can tell her that honey I had a long meeting and the shop was closed by the time the meeting finished.

Weird !! it was all about married men

Then it turned to the languages and how fluent you are, is that your reference guys, if you could understand WTF

calm down :)

B true 2 urself first

B true 2 urself first

B true 2 urself first

B true 2 urself first

B true 2 urself first

B true 2 urself first

be true to yourself first ,u will never tell lie 2 anybody.

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snessy said

'' ... I know of plenty of men who haven't and won't cheat ... ''

Mon, 18/03/2013 - 5:06pm

It is understandable for being quiet about women.

I leave for two days and the thread takes a whole crazy turn! hehehe

Xeena, chameleon and sneesy... totally agree with you. It's quite simple yet people want to complicate things.

And here we are with many of the comments here just coming up with excuses to OK infidelity. You don't want to be faithful, don't get married for you're only fooling yourself! And yes, ladies like men cheat too, no one gender is superior or inferior to the other.

and 12! Lol!

So straight Arrow is lying to one’s wife good or bad?

According to tradition number 6303 in the Sahih Book 032 says it’s ok

Why not use small letters while you comment..it will be further more motivating...:P

lol

THANKS MOLTEN OKEY...

TJTHE RIPPER FOR YOUR INFORMATION (USING ANDORRA NATIONALITY THEN SUDDENLY CHANGED TO QATAR)I DON'T KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IS YOUR TRUE NATIONALITY.WHATEVER...

LET ME GIVE YOU MY BRIEF EXPLANATION REGARDING MY WORDS.

FIRST THING,

WHY YOU CARE ABOUT MY ENGLISH ITS LIKE YOU ARE SO FLUENT IN ENGLISH LANGUAGE "OUUUUUUUUF" TRY TO REVIEW ALSO YOUR ALL COMMENTS HERE IN QL AND STOP BEING SO GUILTY!!! AND TOO MUCH CONCEITED MAN.

SECOND,

YOU'RE ASKING ME WHO I AM??? WELL,,,,,,,,,,,, I AM A LOYAL WIFE YET STRICT IN TERMS OF IMPLEMENTING COUPLE RULES. (THAT'S WHY NO ONE OF US PLAYING DAMN!)

THIRD THING,

REGARDING MY COMMENTS AM JUST SHARING OUR OWN RULES ON HOW WE KEEP OUR RELATION STAY HAPPY AND WITHOUT HEADACHE BY IMPLEMENTING OUR OWN COUPLE RULE AND IN FACT, WE ARE BOTH HAPPY ON THAT.NOW ISN'T IT CLEAR????

AM NOT JOINING HERE FOR ME TO PRETEND MYSELF EVEN THOUGH AM NOT 100% FLUENT IN ENGLISH. BUT I CAN EXPRESS MY SELF AS WHAT I AM (DO YOU HAVE PROBLEM ON THAT???)I LOVE TO SHARE MY EXPERIENCED AND TO GAIN FROM OTHER HUMAN IDEAS EXCEPT FROM YOU "NO WAY!!!" AND NEVER I WILL WASTE MY "MASARI" FOR ME TO HIRE YOU TO TEACH ME, LOLZ!!!.

"NOW CORRECT AGAIN MY OWN ENGLISH OR I WILL CORRECT YOUR FACE" JOKE...

Your motivating comments give direction to those who had deviated ... to come back to the correct path.

@hala..

" Good six = good marriage " - very true

The problem arises if one tried a better one.

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Its not only men who have desire for others.

Women also. So be fair guys.

If you want another then allow her to try others too.

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Each may differ in taste but believe me guys, its all the same raw protein. And for me its not worth it.

maybe you should invest some money on your English.

Cheat By Free?! what are you 3?

Bless all the married men that couldn't stick on his wife's *ss. Keep spending your money to the temporary pleasure but yet expensive... then later when you have nothing left, decide to be a good angel and a loving husband to your wife after regrets.Shame on you!!!

Must know that Most of the WIFE this days are not STUPID enough...

On us so far we're still stick to our Agreement since we been together. Our rules are just simple:

1:CHEAT WITH MONEY AND I WILL CHEAT BY FREE

2:BE TRANSPARENT I'LL DO THE SAME

3:EXCEL SHEETS FOR ALL THE EXPENSES(even cents)and we are both happy on that...

4:GO HAVE FUN WITH YOUR BOYS FRIENDS IN SPORTS GAMES LIKE FOOTBALL(WITH PROPER ATTIRE)

5:PLAN ALWAYS FOR FAMILY FUTURE esp.KIDS EDUCATION AND SAVE MONEY FOR FAMILY TRAVEL.

THERE'S NO PERFECT RELATIONS BUT YET EVERYBODY'S TRYING TO BE PERFECT ONE COUPLE.

PS:DRAIN UR OWN PROPERTY AND SAVE YOUR MONEY FOR THE DOOMS DAY!

My faith is humanity is restored. At least Xena understands us men :O)

Are we talking about wife or wife in the form of slave

This is why I love numbers.

47% to get my daily needs? you gotta be kidding me.

It's like there are more chances you get killed driving on the streets of Qatar than getting laid at home..

Nah... not for me..

Xena- Is that through experience or just one of those girlie gossips that makes you come out with that opinion. :)

Anyways, I will give you the benefit of doubt, and conclude that it is through experience.

Then i must say, it is limited :) Ofcourse, if a woman offers a full body massage, that is a big thing that she does to change the mood. Is'nt it? :)

Besides simple mathematics tells most of the guys that women are only available on an average 21 days a month only which is only 252 days an year. Now you subtract the days when she would be at her mom's place or relatives or will be not feeling well. Lets say another 30 days, that would leave only 222 days an year. Now experience tells us that on sundays many sleep early due to work on monday, so it goes a waste too :). So you subtract sundays, men are only left with only 174 days.

Now calculate the percentage it is only 47% chance of having s ex with partner everyday. My GOD and then those Hormones come in. I pity men who don't take their opportunities. :)

Having said that all, i still say, if a guy says he is not in the mood, trust me it has to be something like "TESTOSTRIAL" malfunction or something :)

hmmm if I knew that women any better, i'd certainly take offense.

All I gotta say is that there is BIG difference between men who take enhancers to cure their ED ...where being "loyal" works for them in all ways And rabbits ..Try to make a rabbit stay home...

What's to bet Jack_The Ripper is either single or all talk? I know of plenty of men who haven't and won't cheat. So, stop making excuses for you not being able to keep it in your pants.

exactly.. they start telling you that you are not loyal when you perform nasty acts on others. This is not how I see it.

To some people, this is like a hobby..

U know like golf or cricket. What do you like to do? I like to squiggle my giggty in the curious.

All the woman would have to do is offer to do a full body massage (something us females would love from our men during a certain time of the month), and he'd be ready for action....

Other than a totally passed out male, I have yet known one that has said no to s e x when offered (I am talking here a relationship partners, not s e x workers or an affair - the men usually instigate that s e xplay)

Yes ur right...i have thyroid problem..i do get mood swing...i sometimes even need to take tablets to control the mood :)

jack: If women have mood swings due to hormone changes, I assure we men have mood swings too. Its just that we don't have term for that... May be something like following example

Husband: Honey I am not in the mood today

Wife: Whats the matter darling.

Husband; Nothing... Its not me its the testostrial changes, you know

Wife: O... I totally understand :)

So its the terminology that we need. Nothing more :P

Women blame their mood swings on hormone level fluctuations... well, this is the same to us.

When our hormones act up, we need foreign, stranger but...

The great woman is the one that tells her hubby, as long as you love me and love no one else, then go show these tramps whose boss... ;p

I don't think it is a big deal if a man fools around once in a while. I mean let us be honest for a minute. I personally do not know ONE single man that never cheated. (Unless if he is physically incapable)

To women it is a whole different story because emotions have to be involved (usually), but for a man.. I think when a man cheats he does not have to be emotionally attached to the women he is cheating with, unlike when the woman cheats. Again this is the case usually.. not always.

As long as you wear rubber and as long as you treat your wife like a queen and never put anyone in front of her, then it is life... (not proud of it but it is life...)

I love my wife a lot....so no cheating at all./.noway can i break her hearth..poor wifey left her parents for me..so care and honesty is all that is important :)

I absolutely agree with SNESSY!

Respect and be respected. Love and be loved. I am sorry but most men treat women as objects of entertainment, and ignore their feelings etc.

Piece of advice, let go of your ego and she would do the same.

All these male cheaters out there probably don't realize that a woman is just as likely to cheat as a man is, and that what goes around comes around!

Being unhappy and dissatisfied with your spouse is NOT a reason to cheat. Those are reasons for divorce though, specially when it's chronic. And IMO divorce is a far more upright act than infidelity!

I never get what Straight Arrow is trying to say?

Never lie to your wife and she'll be an angel? Huh?

Ms Hala, read your blog the other day... love it:-)

and fully agree with the s e xlife thing...

My friend's gran once said to her, to have a good marriage, you have to be a lady in the lounge and a w***** in the bedroom." For men its one of the main things in a relationship.

Treat your wife the same way you expect her to treat you. Everything you do, stop and think...how would you feel if she did the same to you.

is it true?

I absolutely agree with the "common sense" suggestions of Ms. Hala....but sometimes that "sense" is not so common after all;-)

To look at our selves and I am sure some of us made a lie and some did not, I personally can tell that avoiding lies, and being honest makes your married life better.

you saw who's profile?

i agree with that last sentence..

good sex life= good married life....

but how to have good sex life????

wife must be happy b4 she enter the bedroom.

but every night there will be some silly reasons to fight and to spoil the mood....

so no such happy married life...

dont ever tell your wife that u have other relation.

1) if you are happy with your wife, then you will never ever think of another girl.

2) if you fall in love with another girl other than wife, then choose the second one. bcoz if u love the first one, then you will never fall in love with other.

so if wife came to know about your extra relation. just face it. if you dont have the guts, then never do mistakes

WOW, really? How are you people even in a relationship?

May I make a few common sense suggestions?

1. Treat your significant other the way you wanted to be treated, period!

2. Honesty is the best policy. (Telling the truth doesn't make your wife an angel but makes you closer to one.)

3. No one is happy and in a great mood every day because, well, sh!t happens. Be able to accept them in all their forms, flaws and all.

4. Don't sweat the small stuff.

5. And I'm sure no one ever talks about this but it's simple science, a good sex life = a good married life.

Good luck to all you married folks! =)

Keep ur secrets to u...being a wide I know how much it hurts and yes whenever we have fights I spell out all bad things/secrets whatever h stole me...better remain quite and don't do anything that u have to lie again...

I Lie to My wife..Because I smoke and when ever she caught Lighter in my Pocket i said its not mine..one of my friend given to keep and i dont know how i put in my pocket.i never smoke..(Now tell me How i stop Lie to my wife...?

Never lie to your wife...they can sniff BS from miles away and the interagation will be much worse than the CIA LoL

hhhh nice question ... true...

reason for that is they have six sense.... thats no.1

no.2 when u cheat ... u tend to spend less time in home and less interest in details ... so less problems lol...

no.3 less attention for her.. so she become angel to get more attention... sorry girls but its the case...

don`t cheat or cheated on ...but in case u do it .. don`t think this angel will not become devil if it surfaces hehehe

straight arrow, Marriage is not a Test hence why cheat!

Oh yeah sure go ahead tell her the truth but next time you guys have an argument or fight be prepared cause she will bring that arsenal to make you feel miserable & a cheater. A happy woman is a myth. If you cheat, you are worse than bin laden. If she cheats, it must be your fault cause you must be not taking care of her SPECIAL needs.

Wife and an angel >>>> that could be a lie

Regards my friend you are doing great, "The Lying rope is too short" :-)

Transparency is key in any relationship.