Marriage is the best solution
By Straight Arrow •
Many socities today suffer from many diseases, some of these diseases are easy to deal with and others impossible such as HIV which reaseachers are working on it for more than 40 years.
The relationships outside marriage are the source of many diseases and many institutes in USA are fighting to win the battle against relationships and pragnancy outside marriages circuit.
please look at this link about marriages
http://www.smartmarriages.com/index.html
Here is also a website which speaks about praganancy outside marriage circuit
http://www.professorshouse.com/family/children/pregnancy-before-marriage...
I hope many will benifit from this post.
of paper.
If this paper gives you rights and protects you and a proff of the marriage would not you like this paper?
I am sure many will like this paper.
Marriage paper or certificate is a very important document.
Let us say that is living his woman without marriage and for some reason he dump her or she dump him, people may think about different things good and bad.
There is a film coming out in the UK in April called the Infidel and its a comedy..... looks like it could be really funny but upset a lot of people....
marriage is a sacred commitment and unless the two parties are really serious about their vows, its only a piece of paper
OOOOOHHHH it's an infidels life for me!!! LOL
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
olive lol... what a life that would be :)
teepatter, #4 seems interesting
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It's when two infidels marry each other. Like my upcoming marriage. :D
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
What's infidel marriage? Is that when you marry a donkey but later find out its a camel?
you guys keep on talking bout marriage you are going nowhere, narrow down your topic with. ie.,
1.) Forced marriage
2.) Infidel Marriage
3.) Faithful Marriage
4.)etc.
Are you saying all the marriages over here are perfect Azam?
You should go and check the divorce rates in the country and stop pulling statistics of 99% immaculate behavior by married men from thin air.
Yeah, where is MJ?
I totally agree with Olive too. As if a piece of paper stops someone from straying!
*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****
I didnt know marriage is an interesting topic till now lol...
Glad to have you back snessy, now where's MJ? :)
Right olive...agree with you, they do what they want regardless of the status..
Azam, nobody escapes whyteknight's crystal ball lol
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LOL Azam, my comment wasn't personally directed at you, I was typing my comment when you posted yours so I didn't read it until afterwards ;-)
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So it was hard for Tiger Woods to cheat. :P If a man's going to cheat, he's going to cheat, regardless of the status of your relationship.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
If you think by getting married it will solve all these problems, it is a very niave way of thinking. Nothing changes in a relationship when you get married, you should have respect for each other regardless.
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I did not mention anything about the cause Azam...be it a man's fault or the woman's, it takes two to tango...
and i'm interested to learn the dance lol
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I beg to differ... But of course, if you think so...
Otherwise, you have cases of divorce, annulments and separations...
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coz you can never conclude that all marriages are happy... so i'm assuming that others are not :)
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Because you asked the happily married ones ...
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Faithful marriage, not just being married because it is where everybody is going..or just to please your old folks. or just to be like everybody else.
A very saint silent evil indeed...
Do what you want whyteknight :)
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But when everyone who wants to get married (read: gays and lesbians) can get married, maybe I'll reconsider it...
"If you're looking for sympathy, you'll find it between sh*t and syphilis in the dictionary."
- David Sedaris
cryogenic when the country is "Thighland" what can you expect their capital to be except "Bangcock"
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Cryogenic, it's more of a Freudian slip than a conscious thing. No matter how well I know it's spelled Bangkok I ALWAYS spell it Bangcock unless I force myself to think about it.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
so shy and quiet when he meet us
A very saint silent evil :P
Azam I never got married and given a choice never will.
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i normally dont participate much on QL.
but im like the hundreds who silently read and smile/ frown about peoples views.
love the inputs from ummjake, olive and fried unicorn - always forceful and inspiring and trendsetting.
especially loved the way Olive spelt "bangcock".
Initially thought it was a typo but later realised it was tongue in cheek.
Love your spirit Olive...
LOL Da, what? you've seen how much farmville he plays. ;)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Olive - Thats a different story alltogether when they are forced to marry.. i wouldnt call it a marriage.
No, Azam, i dont have stats for that. I'm the type who likes to stick to the topic :p
and here we are talking about diseases and if marriage is the best solution in preventing it from spreading.
I think i've made my point already. So let me give y'all a cyber handshake and bid you all good day! :D
You Fiancee is a very naughty boy after i checked his FB profile lol
marie you want me to reveal your marital status here or should I send a PM
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Azam, whyteknight has a magic crystal ball where he views all and makes conclusions henceforth :)
Whyte, get a sword :)
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LOL, yes I do Da, cause I love my fiancee and I want to declare that in front of our family and friends. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Marriage is much more than a piece of paper. Its a bond between the two to love,care and live together for the rest of their life.
It's only that Arien if the couple in question believe it's that. If they don't and are getting married because they feel they have to, it's just a piece of paper and will have no impact on how they live their lives.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
are you sure you want to get married.
Azam and DotCom, I am old-fashioned and actually believe in marriage being sacred, and that it is meant to prevent people from a life of promiscuity.
Sad to say, the bond of marriage has not prevented men and women to extramarital affairs, and therefore, marriage does not prevent the spread of disease.
FAITHFULNESS to a marriage vow does. Living a godly and healthy lifestyle prevent the spread of disease. Not the fact of having married status.
Azam very intelligent question. Very very intelligent question. Way beyond my intelligence level so I can't answer.
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Azam, for the most part children born out of wedlock have a lower standard of life then those raised in wedlock. However those statistics are skewed because most children born out of wedlock are born to teenagers and people who are already living in poverty, so their children have no chance either. Again this goes back to education. If these un-wed mothers and fathers had had a better education they would have known better then to get pregnant when they couldn't support the child and they would have known how to prevent pregnancy.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
9 times out of 10 Dot Com those women are in the Ramada parking lot because their pimps are forcing them to be there. Let's not turn this discussion onto the evils of human trafficking shall we?
Azam, people will raise kids if they want to raise kids, a good man or woman will be a good parent regardless of their marital status. Marriage doesn't make people good parents, it just makes it easier. Divorced couples have just as hard a time as couples who never married at all.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Most of the men going to places like Ramada for picking a girl up are married by the way.
**** Aal Izz Well****
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
if women are not there in Ramada, then why the hell men will go there?
are they crazy, or bite by a crazy dog???
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
No Khalid says it's the solution, you said you agree.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
that its the solution of all the problem.
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Really? Is that why so many men here take the red-eye to Bangcock, or hang at the Ramada parking lots at nights? Cause they value the sanctity of marriage?
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
rather than finding satisfaction here and there like a dog/bitch.
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
I'm not telling you to follow others, I'm saying you should focus on the real problem, which is lack of education and self awareness. I say the same thing about the West to.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
I beg to differ, Azam. Marriage does not lead to children. sex results to conception of a child, with or without marriage. right or wrong, that's a fact.
Hence why EDUCATION is the solution, NOT marriage. Marriage is just a social convention, it can't teach someone to be respectful of another person, or caring to another person. Therefore it is not, and can't be, the solution
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
in our lives for last three decades, but still we feel proud of our own culture.
we don't need to follow others.
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Azam I know a lot of married people here who are neither responsible nor exercise self-control. EDUCATION teaches responsibility and self-control, not a piece of paper.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Well All the Best with your married life :)
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Yes, but the society you're born into isn't meeting any of the objectives of safety & support either, by shunning unmarried women, forcing women into marriages and not providing assistance and education to women in abusive marriages. The society you're born into encourages men to take mistresses and fly to Bangcock to get their rocks off and then bring STD's home to their wives.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
but the society where i born, grew up its not considered a piece of paper as in your case.
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
To that dilemma, in this country, Yes it is whyteknight. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
See Olive the problem- you can't live together and have children here.
The solution- Marriage
So marriage is indeed the solution :))
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But marriage doesn't guarantee any of those with the exception of meeting religious expectations, especially not safety or support. There's loads of abusive dead beat husbands and wives out there, there's loads of shunned husbands and wives. Marriage is a piece of paper, it doesn't teach someone how to behave towards another.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
:-)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Religious
social
safety
support
and much more reasons
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
...it's a problem.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Why?
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Yes I am, but not because I believe it's the cure to any social "diseases." We're getting married because we love each other and we want the ceremony to show that commitment...also because if we don't we can't legally live together or have children here. Anywhere else in the world I probably wouldn't be in such a rush.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
And Olive you are about to get married, no ;)
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I don't see how it could be the answer, it's been the norm since before recorded history, yet we've always had sexually transmitted diseases, illegitimate children, etc. So perhaps it's actually time to start looking for NEW answers.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Sometimes, marriage can drive you to commit adulterous acts... so it's not the answer
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Sadly eaglemannual in this country I have to submit to the majority, at least in public. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
As Olive said Marriage is nothing but a piece of paper.
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In fact HIV/AIDS could have been around for 10000 years or more, stumbling from one village to another in Africa until late 19th century, early 20th century it enter an area of higher population and more transient people. The rest they say is history.
"no one has been working on it for 40 years"
robertothebrave...no they were...creating the virus in the lab...
robertothebrave...no they were...creating it in the lab...
Just a small point to note. HIV was only identified in the early 80s so no one has been working on it for 40 years.
Marriage is the human made prison to stop men having fun....
Right on, om Maui! :0)
"fidelity, self-control, awareness, hygiene."
Not only one wife to another but affairs with the secretary, etc. Like Russian Roulette, game of chance with the life (health) of another person.
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"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Since some don't submit to the majority, we are thus compelled to call our attitude a posture of dissidence or radical outlaw-ship.
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.
and by saying marriage being the solution, you think there are no diseases that can be contracted from the one you married? and if a man has more than one marriage, he will not transmit disease from one wife to another, because they are married?
for the greater scheme of things, the solution is fidelity, self-control, awareness, hygiene.
Marriage is a piece of paper, it can't protect you from anything. Monogamy, protection & education are the answers to all these things.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
No time to read the link but what you said is true to an extent.
"The relationships outside marriage are the source of many diseases and many institutes in USA are fighting to win the battle against relationships and pragnancy outside marriages circuit."
Many see it as a curtailment of their freedom to do whatever they want, to please themselves. But it's actually protective - but NB - not referring only to marriages but long term committed relationships.
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.