Love..peace..harmony please!!

Formatted Soul
By Formatted Soul

Using Public forums to fist out personal issues is silly & immature …there is a line between free speech and unwarranted personal attacks in a public forum.
If QL want to grow and thrive it cannot be accomplished by allowing such trolls and loose talkers to disrupt this site. when someone is attacking another user by his/her name....why is MODs letting them go free? is it not vialiation of guidelines? Mods..Please don’t let the lash loose..

If anyone has an issue with another user don't you think it is better done by PMs or emails.

Nothing positive can come from allowing sick minded people to post garbage in a public forum. There are too many important things going on in this world to waste time and energy than the kind of things I have been reading here lately.

Its high time we focus our collective energy towards something better than bickering among ourselves... it only serves to feed the trolls.

I pray that you are healed of the fear, hatred, and blindness that encumber your mind and soul.

Peace and Love to all of us...

By britexpat• 16 Mar 2011 15:35
britexpat

Then that would make it difficult..

OK.. FS can be QL Princess...

By anonymous• 16 Mar 2011 15:30
anonymous

Britey FS is female :(

By britexpat• 16 Mar 2011 15:27
britexpat

FS should be King !

By jpa• 16 Mar 2011 09:19
jpa

FS is a person with an Extraordinary Personality.

By Eagley• 16 Mar 2011 08:54
Eagley

I thot the answer is simple ... WK for Chairman!! :P

Hiya FS! Long time no ccccccccccc... and well said!

FatimahH said, "Many meaningful threads are torn to shambles due to a few haters and bigots."

True but I do agree with nomerci in that while we're annoyed by what's going on but it's just an on line forum. Basically, just don't bother. Many of us poke each other just for fun (even though it doesn't appear to be so online - the difference is that we have met and know each other) but some other people take the comments really personally though and it becomes like a personal vendetta.

By s_isale• 16 Mar 2011 08:38
s_isale

this place is becoming too tough for a light hearted person.

Very soon you will hear someone dying of heart attack reading the posts in QL

By bubblymom• 16 Mar 2011 08:12
bubblymom

:((

By s_isale• 16 Mar 2011 06:29
s_isale

but when the beef is with a whole community, the easiest way is to come online and create a ruckus

By mjamille28• 16 Mar 2011 06:22
mjamille28

the answer is simple: you got a beef with someone, take it up with him.. don't drag it all the way here...

By anonymous• 16 Mar 2011 03:11
anonymous

The answer is simple.... WK for the admin post :-P

By britexpat• 16 Mar 2011 03:10
britexpat

The answer is simple. One rule for all.

By mjamille28• 16 Mar 2011 03:01
mjamille28

so, has it been sorted out yet??? hope it's the last one we read...

By Colt45• 15 Mar 2011 16:38
Colt45

You should have joined the convent :-P

Nice to have you back though ;-)

By KHATTAK• 15 Mar 2011 16:25
KHATTAK

Yes.... A Few, On Both Sides.

By nomerci• 15 Mar 2011 16:21
nomerci

TB, all will be back to "normal" soon I am sure. We are facing a not uncommon case of " a few are spoiling it for all others" at the moment.

By chocaholic• 15 Mar 2011 15:53
chocaholic

My sentiments exactly, but I'd probably get banned for saying now :(

By timebandit• 15 Mar 2011 14:29
timebandit

QL will suffer if such rigid rules are enforced long term. People use QL for fun (well I do anyway), and it's the mindless, friendly and humorous banter that keeps me here.

By chocaholic• 15 Mar 2011 12:00
chocaholic

Yeah, it sure was fun while it lasted :)

Now we've been told that we must keep all topics 'on track'. That means no banter, either. All a bit confusing, really, but I guess folks will figure it out as they go along.

(No) thanks to all the nice, nasty folks we've had on here of late for making this happen.

By anonymous• 15 Mar 2011 11:55
anonymous

chocaholic..what happened last night I missed all the fun again?

Was busy yesterday did not read or comment much yesterday?

lili.rochefort please can you explicit about which old Qlers you are refering too?

By chocaholic• 15 Mar 2011 11:52
Rating: 4/5
chocaholic

This is not about old and new. If you were around late last evening, you would've known.

The Mods are being quite indiscriminate about deleting comments and entire threads. There were points of time when people were addressing comments to another user while the latter's posts had already vanished! Me and mie included.

A pity, if you ask me, because there were a couple of really fun threads on, where everyone was having a good laugh. And there were several 'old' QL-ers on, too.

And it was my first time spending almost an entire evening on QL, but... :( Well, it was great fun while it lasted.

Sigh, had never notched up so many points in one day, either ;)

I may not agree with their (cited) reasons for all the rampant deletion, but I can say that they were not discriminating between users.

At least, not from what I saw.

By Ice Maiden• 15 Mar 2011 08:45
Ice Maiden

Some QLers underwent the physical transformation from diapers to pants, but still didn't mature mentally or emotionally ....how do you solve this?

By timebandit• 15 Mar 2011 08:36
timebandit

Ahhh... so it's all the old QLers fault then?

By Lili.Rochefort• 15 Mar 2011 08:33
Lili.Rochefort

Yep dis woz needed, coz some old Qlers r taking da p***! they r racist & realy show their true colors. Shame on u!

By s_isale• 15 Mar 2011 06:37
s_isale

This does happen every few weeks/months in Ql. Nothing surprising about it. It was there in somewhere around December earlier, April last year etc etc..

Since the mods take action based on their relation with OP's things get worse.

By anonymous• 14 Mar 2011 14:42
anonymous

Buttering time

By FlyingAce• 14 Mar 2011 14:39
FlyingAce

This thread was required by someone, and FS is the one...

Good going....

By Rony John• 14 Mar 2011 14:36
Rony John

well its not for posting on the threads but for moderating purpose and to keep out multiple ids in check especially for those who are banned.

Wouldn't mind giving my ID if that is a rule

I know freedom of speech will b curbed,

U loose some U gain some

By frenchieman• 14 Mar 2011 14:31
frenchieman

Great idea. Why don't we start with you posting yours. Then we can rummage through all your posts and decide whether or not you've broken any local laws or criticized anything incorrectly.

By Rony John• 14 Mar 2011 14:27
Rony John

can we get the Mods to acquire IDs of all existing and new comers. I know a lot of QLERs won't subscribe to the idea as it would hinder free airing of ideas to some extent but it will also help to keep sanity

By frenchieman• 14 Mar 2011 14:22
frenchieman

If stupid people would stop disagreeing with me I wouldn't have any issues to work out.

By nomerci• 14 Mar 2011 14:11
Rating: 3/5
nomerci

Well, that may all very well be so. BUT, QL wouldn't be QL if things were as you wish them to be. Seriously, why do you think QL is as successful as it is? Because people are drawn to a good argument, sarcasm, ridicule etc.

Sure, people go "into reading mode" for a while because what's going on upsets or bores them. But, they DO read. And then they go back to posting. It has always been this way. And if you think people leave for good because of what is happening, think again....they don't...or very few do. They read only or come with different usernames because they do not want everybody to know who they actually are.

Me, sure, sometimes I am annoyed by what's going on, no question. But then again, it's just an on line forum.

What is a bit disturbing though is that QL can change people's perception of issues...and not in a positive way.

By timebandit• 14 Mar 2011 14:04
timebandit

Still the trolls get fed though

By Rony John• 14 Mar 2011 13:52
Rating: 4/5
Rony John

We come up with such threads every now and then, its good but does it help to an extent or its just a feel good thread

the bashers still bash, the religious threads keep appearing in the main forum in one way or other, some for propagating others for ridiculing

the least that we can do in this matter, abstain from such threads and Do Not Feed the trolls and their egos

By chocaholic• 14 Mar 2011 12:25
chocaholic

Welcome back, FS :)

Good post! Like you and many others, t's been bothering me, too. And I do wonder about the principles on which the Mods are operating.

Now is someone listening?!

By s_isale• 14 Mar 2011 12:25
Rating: 4/5
s_isale

well some think that they can get away with anything, that makes the silent majority to respond.

FS - to be frank, some of the persons involved in this BS are your close online friends themselves.

By bubblymom• 14 Mar 2011 12:19
Rating: 4/5
bubblymom

I am with you FS. agree 101%.

personal issues shouldn't be broadcasted in public forums like QL.

By mjamille28• 14 Mar 2011 12:19
mjamille28

Amen to that... but it seems some people can't seem to settle personal issues privately and had to drag it all the way in public.... looking for sympathy perhaps? or some just plainly like all the attention...

By Rizks• 14 Mar 2011 12:17
Rating: 2/5
Rizks

this is wat was required at the moment after wat was going in QL for a couple of days...

Welcome back FS with a Big BANG....:)

By FathimaH• 14 Mar 2011 12:14
Rating: 2/5
FathimaH

You tell em...Most of us(I assume) are quite disgusted with the stuff certain posters come up with. Many meaningful threads are torn to shambles due to a few haters and bigots. Its pathetic really...but hey we can always hope! Good to have you back though..WB =D

By anonymous• 14 Mar 2011 12:12
anonymous

in addition, i would like to add

"who on QL will tell to few posters not to educate everyone who doesn't believe or doesn't match to the level of your highness" who always keep repeating the same worlds of superiority complex in each thread.

By FlyingAce• 14 Mar 2011 12:06
FlyingAce

Khattak, that is the reason why my points are getting increased every second day..... ;)

By KHATTAK• 14 Mar 2011 12:05
KHATTAK

You didn't miss much, FA. Someone ate FS' points again.

By Arien• 14 Mar 2011 12:04
Arien

Welcome back

By anonymous• 14 Mar 2011 12:04
anonymous

Well said and excellent post x

By FlyingAce• 14 Mar 2011 12:03
FlyingAce

" Sick Minded People "...

What did i miss????

By flor1212• 14 Mar 2011 11:59
flor1212

on this thought! What we really needs are RESPONSIBLE MODS! Because there are a lot of IRRESPONSIBLE posters!

By anonymous• 14 Mar 2011 11:52
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

Yes, the employers in Qatar are paying to "QL Think Tankers" for Qling.

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