Looks and features of a person!
Why do looks and features play an important role in any relationship?
Would people prefer to be with an average looking person/ less than average, who's a nice person at heart or a nice looking person , who may not be a good person... and for whatever your answer, can you justify so?
Relating an incident which happened long time back, It was funny when some people look at an acquaintance of mine and said "Oh, he has a crooked nose-He must be sinister in his thoughts" when actually, the person that I speak of is the most kindest of all...
Recently too, I came across such an incident, and wondered -"Why do people do this?"
People are funny..but I ain't laughing! :P
There is no one rule when it comes to attraction and love..
People can be attracted on the basis of looks, come together , fall in love and stay together..
Its the looks and those lovely pets talks..The one word that fooled me was PO..:)
good looking men or women are generally snobs...seems they dont care of what the others think about them.
moreover, they get what they want in life probably because of their looks...money, fame and love
while the ugly ones or the average looking ones have to strive hard to get the same.
its an ugly truth..well, truth is always ugly.
MJ checkout http://www.montypython.50webs.com/scripts/Life_of_Brian/3.htm
You will see what Brit and I are babaling on about
TB, behave now, or you might end up like "Rudolph"... ;)
Big nose, lemme see how u punch him....:(
See he did it again... Luckily I'm a quiet man , but if he calls me Big Nose again, I'll punch him :O(
lol brit, I must've missed that part where he called you that...
Well you have got a big nose, Big Nose
TB started it. He called me Big Nose :O(
Jalebi for every right turn you make, there is always a left turn ahead.....:)
and the thread has made another left turn folks.. :P
Hahahahaha
boobies do play a major part
TB tatz so yuckkkkkkk....
It should be removed IMMEDIATELY or else...everyone ova here will start puking...:(
good point
Pierluigi Collina .... A sex symbol and hero to all bald men around the world..
Anyway, boobies ... I mean looks do play a part... Did people initially take notice of Angelina Jolie for her acting or her lips ?
some people like pricks.. I know some girls who are turned on by that...they refuse being with super nice guys.. I know that sounds weird to many of you here.. but this is life..everyone goes for what they like.
i say it is a combination of looks,personality,fame, wealth, intelligence that the other sex looks for..
looks like an Alien....:(
mwt, not only in Syria we have tat proverb in India too....:)
In Syria we have proverb said " Love is blind " So it depends on the lovers eyes
Looks usually are what gets a person initially interested in another. after that it depends on what else is discovered.
Of course, there are cases where it is only about looks, but those do not last.
When two people bond/love deeply, they see perfection in the one they love, ie in each other. maybe not be visible to others.
I'm as beautiful as you FS :-)
snessy...are you beautiful???..:)
sina it will be GOOD if you off ur caps lock plz....:(
ITS NOT THE OUTER BEAUTY THAT IS THE POINT HERE...GOOD LOOKING AND NOT SO GOOD IN THE EYES IS NOT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE LOOK AT EACH OTHER. ITS THE ATTRACTION, ITS THE APPEARANCE ON HOW A PERSON PRESENT HIM/HERSELF TO OTHERS.
THE SELF-CONFIDENCE, GOOD PERSONALITY, POSITIVE OUTLOOK IN LIFE IS WHAT MAKES A COMPLETE THE LOOKS & FEATURES OF A PERSON.
THERE ARE NOT GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE BUT IF THEY HAVE THE QUALITIES YOU WILL FORGET THEIR APPEARANCE.
Khanan, you must be so good looking...you have so many male admirers ;-)
Rofl Khanan....
its Colt...my priend...:(
at your service..
you were missing me or is it Rizku (the taklu from top & bottom :P)...
Thank ku Tinky !
wink wink.....:)
Where is Pikey when you need him?
An average looking male can also have a good heart too...:)
NO, i copy pasted tat stuff.....:)
A gorgeous female can have a good heart too ...:)
back to the topic.....
I honestly believe beauty is skin deep and ugliness goes to the bone
For example, a female might be gorgeous but tends to be mean, selfish and arrogant, which makes her NOT pretty.
Another may be average in appearance and be your best friend because he or she has a good heart.
Arien...agree...:)
How many good looking people do you all know that are still single? Someone is interested in looks...
Lot of liars :/
okay i am also enjoying carry on,
tinkerbell, now why does that not surprise me.. :P
hms...today is a bachelors day in this Thread not QL....:)
this FORUM no more remains a family forum, LOL !!!!
I go with the TINKER that she said above...
Looks has no importance to me..A kind and a gentle heart is what matters a lot..
Nuh huh Colt....
Khanan is already inside you for a long time, dont know wat is he upto ? :(
gloomy, m good at Heart and Soul.....:)
u need to "enter me" to know my soul....:)
(words taken from other thread...lol)
You need Gloomy to enter you? How about Khanan doing that? :-P
Naah... Rainbows are not my cup of tea... am too straight for that!
Tinker...I am not talking about Mr. Knowalls...lol
Looks will fade away but not the kindness of the heart.
I have seen a lot of good looking people, some with a good heart, most are ill-mannered.
Never compare a (mid)good-looking person to a drop dead gorgeous one... Comparing leads to confusion. IMO.
True that... Looks won't matter when u're 80 years old and need someone to talk with!
(Only exception to this- Hugh Hefner!)
Criminals have intelligent minds too, do you mind? :-P
M here, who called me ? :(
Its an intelligent mind that always attracts me..:)
Now..where are the Einsteins of QL?? Lol
Sure you ain't as straight as a rainbow? :-P
Blooming internet is playing up today... sorry about the double post :(
But in that aspect, I have only 1 preference... am as straight as an arrow!
Indeed snessy, I have heard the saying:-
"Marry someone you enjoy talking to, because when the looks have gone, that is all that is left"
Umm, I'd like to rephrase that. A good rack can't hold a decent convo ;-))
Indeed snessy, I have heard the saying:-
"Marry someone you enjoy talking to, because when the looks have gone, that is all that is left"
Yep, the other person continuously gets distracted...;)
Good looks can't hold a decent conversation...
It depends on the what kind of relationship we are talking about. Casual relationships - casual approach to looks, heart, mind & soul. Serious ones...well, do your homework properly, irrespective.
was your marriage arranged?
You're right, if life for you is a multi-flavoured ice cream... you need to try all the flavours (straight, bi, gay) :-P
But in indian arranged marriages, the person gets to know only about the looks and features about the person and he/she has no choice but to judge based on that. pity...
:-( and all this time I though I was your "blue-eyed" boy :-)))
Well, Demand is greater than supply- agreed! But the contractual terms are dangerous! :P
@ Colt: Its better to finish last in an ice cream competition coz only then will u realise the joy of eating an icecream... ;) ... and life, my friend, is a multiflavoured icecream!!
If the supply is low, demand will be high.. Simple Economics
So do a market survey and see which type of guys are less in number, become one of that kind..
I personally saw that there are very few arseholes so I became one :(
No speedy, the person who finishs Last and late are in demand rather then the person who finish 1st and early...:)
@ Colt Howdy. I have the most gorgeous guy in the world with a golden heart as added bonus. Can't take my eyes of him. Simply don't see the others :)
Good guys finish LAST... don't listen to FS... become teda NOW, if you want to finish 1st ;-))
yes sid it was for you.. I was just kidding...
there will be a girl somewhere....who will find you more handsome than anyone else in the world...:) seedha saadha guys are in demand..:)
And why am I not that to you as well? :-P
Howdy? ;-)
Could this be an Indian thing, that we emphasize too much on looks? I sometimes wonder!!!
Hey Colt, to your better half you are the most handsome, the most perfect for her. At the end of the day that's all that matters, right?
Colt, i said ...wat is True....:(
I dont Lie.
No Never....:(
If ur comment "Sid ….you look like Salman Khan or John Abraham……:)" was at me... , well, you're waaaay off target... I'm just a simple, "seedha saadha" guy..
@everyone: I really appreciate your views, and am happy that people like you all exist on earth... :)
Only a shallow person will want looks alone, personally I think people look more beautiful when their personality shines through...
Now you're calling me a rat? See, you're like one of them who calls average-looking guys like me rats :-(
When you truly love someone, looks don't matter, that person is the most beautiful thing to have happened to you :-)... ahhh!!! the joys of being in love :-)
ok Colt, for you Rat shyte...:(
now dont tell me- why i bought Rat in between, coz u both hav same similarities ...tatz why in between....:(
why do you have to bring the bull in between? :-(
Colt, even i dont give a bullshyte abt you too....:(
UK, that is not true in some cases...
Even I don't give a shyt about your short, bald and not so handsome looks :-P
First impression is the last?
well...I dont agree that all good looking people are bad..and all not so good looking people are good...:)
Looks creates the first impression...we will know about the character of a person only when we get to know him well...its quite natural for everyone to wish that their partner to be good looking...:)
Reality is when we like someone he/she will be the most beautiful person on the earth for us...we don’t see any flaws in them...
Looks were not a priority for my man... but God was generous....:)
Sid ….you look like Salman Khan or John Abraham……:)
WK..is that the secret of having so many female fans?
In the initial stages maybe looks matter. But in the long run, it's the communication, how you interact, how much you value and respect each other feelings and thoughts that seals a relationship.
M short, bald and not so handsome.....but i care a shyte abt tat....:(
Sean even I am not interested in myself :(
it is only to give the first impression my friend and the rest discovered later.
look at what you got, not what u have not done yet
who is to judge who's beautiful and who's not anyway?
tinkerbell would definitely be interested in you then WK
If relationships were based on looks alone... I would be screwed (or not as the case would be).
I am not just ugly, I am FUGLY and I don't care.. I am who I am.......
well Speedy they may be good looking but that's all there is to them, worthless human beings.
As the saying goes.. "true beauty radiates from within". When we talk about beauty our outright perception would be physical.. it shouldnt be that way. Real beauty is having a good attitude & self-confidence. Physical beauty fades..
IMO, if you get to know a person over a period of time, looks don't matter.
To be honest, when I was in college, I always wanted a good-looking gf. Even though I have never considered myself God's gift to womenkind, I didn't really date the average looking ones. That said, I NEVER ridiculed their looks either.
I'm a different person now... looks don't matter to me no more ;-)
your bro is funny! However I am a believer of the fact that what is one's heart will always shine on the outside one way or the other. Haven't we all met a person who may not be everyones idea of "classical" beauty but who's very aura just makes you feel "what an amazing being you are"? truly beauty is in the eyes of the beholder..
It feels bad even when I hear ppl make fun of other ppl's features which are deemed hurtful.... If someone is blessed with good looks and all, they should be thankful for that...but should not go and make judgements on other ppl!
My younger brother was going to Mumbai to see a girl -
Brother - Dont look for beauty, beauty is temporary.
Brother said - I know sister, but ugliness is permanent.
Only a joke -
I agree, one should not judge a person by his look alone.
Touchy indeed...
But its so relevant, especially in today's material world we live in...
well, for some making fun of the physical features are just plain innocent jokes but offensive to some. These kind of people are insensitive really IMO.