Long Distance love

hallie
By hallie

Can long distance relationships really work? I need to collect some ideas and thought here. Thank you guys!

By ksarat16• 23 Apr 2008 10:42
ksarat16

Hallie...well hello there girl, I am meself most of the times you see, whether serious, or joking, its meself, and I'm pretty sure, I dont take my chances online seriously...lol...unless and ofcourse I just forgot, we have that cake ride coming up right...lol...

 

To make myself a bit clear for once, I am serious about the Cake conquest...(remember...lol...!!!)

 

Smokey...o well, just trying to be good when you are not around mate, not backstabbing ya...lol...and what you said in that last two lines, that is indeed so true ma friend...so true...Salutes to you for that intention...

 

cheers...

By smoke• 22 Apr 2008 23:08
smoke

what the fish is going on here, where the bells was i when this topic was being discussed Ksarat u son of a hillbilly texas chain saw killer, how dare u steal all the attention here with all the advice i was giving u on Long distance relationships!! Now quit sweet talking hallie here and get back to ur 2 wives in the jungles of Africa.

 

Now back to the topic all i have to say is this LDR's can work and they do work if both are understanding and faithful. another thing i can say is that if you are into a LDR please make it a point to spend that money and call him/her frequently, or if u can go and visit them if its just for a day or two, coz its someone u love and people do all crazy things for the one they love :)

 

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By CerebralPrimate• 22 Apr 2008 19:33
Rating: 3/5
CerebralPrimate

 

It's working  for me. Going on a year and a half.

 

When I am done working overseas, we will likely settle down together. For us, it has worked because the distance has forced us to look beyond the surface and truly get to know the person beneth. 

 

And like others said, it definitely has required patience and effort, much like any relationship does.

 

-CP 

 

Focused. Driven. Certain.

By wmhizon• 22 Apr 2008 17:57
wmhizon

 

well it works for me & my boyfriend (Now my husband)

 

it just a matter of love & trust...

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By Adorman• 22 Apr 2008 17:42
Adorman

it's depend on the couple but i wont say it doesn't work coz i can see one is going really good they see each other every 3 months -long time i think- he is  living in Tokyo and she is  in Spain.

By Ducks• 22 Apr 2008 17:05
Ducks

well...depends on what you call long distance. we did see us only at the weekends...that's already long distance for me :D

By alik• 22 Apr 2008 17:02
alik

hmmmmmmmm

 

lucky u ... than u must not have been gone for long..

By Ducks• 22 Apr 2008 16:58
Ducks

It worked well for me...it keeps the relationship fresh and you enjoy the time together so much more.  

 

 

Doha, I'm coming! may 12th - 18th

By alik• 22 Apr 2008 16:52
alik

i dont think a long distance relationship can work....

 

if u are married , thats a seperate issuse...

 

 

By hallie• 22 Apr 2008 16:48
hallie

One of the hardest parts of a long distance relationship is

connecting when one person gets busier than the other. It is so so so so hard ! Flexibility is very important. ( but how long? )

 

 

Life is beautiful !!!

By djkiller• 22 Apr 2008 16:10
Rating: 4/5
djkiller

it works but depends on faith and trust on each other..it they really love each other....

By tinkerbelle• 22 Apr 2008 15:17
tinkerbelle

for short term, but then someone in the relationship will need to give in and move. well if that applies to this situation.  My sister went through this and she was sooo torn about releasing control.

By hallie• 22 Apr 2008 15:01
hallie

Thats the big problem with you Ksarat. we dont know exactly if you are serious or just playing around here. LOL

 

But anyways stay as sweet as you are buddy!!!

 

Life is beautiful !!!

By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 14:11
ksarat16

Wish someone to take me seriously...lol...

By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 13:57
ksarat16

Sheeesh, now thats a nice bit of attention that I just got meself, damn I had to step out at that time only...

 

And regarding the point of a girl taking me serious, well, doesnt matter, and as they say in the philosophical language (not english), doesnt matter if you get a heart thrown at ya, you need to know how to take care of it, and trust me girl, I certainly do know how to take care of the heart...;)

 

And Hallie, well, for a moment I thought I was getting lucky with you liking me (rather starting to like me), but you had to burst the bubble so early, by telling me you were kidding...o how mean girl...and hey doesnt matter if i m like this every girl on QL, everyone has my undivided attention...lol...you could take a chance on that girl...what do ya think...

By swissgirl39• 22 Apr 2008 13:32
swissgirl39

and everything will be fine

;-)))))))))))))

 

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By hallie• 22 Apr 2008 13:31
hallie

well swiss im beginning to like ksarat.LOL!  nah just kidding.  I know that he is very thoughtful to every girl here in QL. right KSA?LOL.

 

Life is beautiful !!!

By r7• 22 Apr 2008 13:23
Rating: 4/5
r7

Y is every 1 after tht car ... 

 

And yes my cuz has left ... 

 

n dont forget the other car tht i have :P 

 

cake quest ??!! 

 

By swissgirl39• 22 Apr 2008 13:22
swissgirl39

what if a girl takes your words for serious?

lol

what if she fall in love with you mr charming?

...

;-D

lol

 

*When hands reach out in friendship, hearts are touched with joy*

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By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 13:20
ksarat16

Well well, first up hey is Varun left or still here...

 

Secondly, how you doing buddy,

 

thirdly, what crap, if you dont do promotion, advertising  you dont get anywhere, looks like you already have a fair share with that damn new landcruiser of yours, (see by this i have given you advertising as well...damn...lol)

 but hey good car buddy...

 

alright, so thats why you have to keep yourself on the run always...

 

and as far as hallie is concerned, well cant leave her dude, sorry, got to her first...ask her...only...and we are supposed to go for a Cake Quest as well soon...isnt it Hallie...lol...

By r7• 22 Apr 2008 13:18
Rating: 2/5
r7

Stop promoting urself so shamelessly dman i stay away from ql few hours n ur trying to bgrab all d women .. 

 

By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 13:15
Rating: 2/5
ksarat16

Hallie, as I always keep telling, life already has enuff complications, dont complicate it more by Long Distance, (thats why me and smokey are right here for Short Distance)...LOL...but seriously, take it step by step, and give your best into the relation, anything would work, if you go half minded or  half hearted, then trust me, even short distance wouldnt work...

 

And as I told you earlier, our relation is just a start to a phone call away or much easier girl, a PM away...LOL...what do you think...;) ...lol

!!!!

By r7• 22 Apr 2008 13:12
Rating: 5/5
r7

It could work if u trust the other person n both of u r into the relationship 100% it could last ..

 

By hallie• 22 Apr 2008 13:08
hallie

Thank you guys for all your comments!

 

Ksarat you rocks! kakashi & copper nice one! and to all thank you!

 

Life is beautiful !!!

By Marycris Valdez• 22 Apr 2008 12:33
Marycris Valdez

No one knows his/her future will be. 

 

 

 

By kakashi28• 22 Apr 2008 12:08
kakashi28

That's if you are intended for each other indeed.... but how would you know? how would anybody know?..... oh yeah, instinct!... hmmmmm.. coz you know inside you that it will work between you......

 

Trust... well yeah, you trust him, he trusts me... but the question is.. do you trust yourself?... do you trust yourself not to fall into temptation and the pitfall of being lonely?...... rethorical question ;). 

 

I knew it, 99% of the responders will say that they are part of that 1% lucky to make it work...    ..... interesting

 

 

 

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By Marycris Valdez• 22 Apr 2008 11:54
Rating: 3/5
Marycris Valdez

For me, I believe

 

It works!

 

The most  important thing both must possess is to TRUST each other.

 

No matter how far you are with each other, i won't be the hindrance.

 

NO matter how far you are, NO matter what happens if your really intended to each other.

 

NOBODY CAN'T STOP....

 

 

By hawker• 22 Apr 2008 11:49
hawker

depends on how faithful each one is =D

 

 

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."

By kakashi28• 22 Apr 2008 11:40
Rating: 4/5
kakashi28

Simple.... with the world we live in nowadays, NO IT WONT WORK 99% of the time (if both of you are very young and single). But of course, im sure you'll say you are part of the 1%. 

 

Chances grows higher and higher than 1%  if you are Married, or married with kids, family lives with parents, family lives with relatives, etc etc etc. it depends on the case.

 

 

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By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 11:36
ksarat16

LOL Paaji, thanks for that tipper to the ladies in here but whats in it for you is my serious doubt..you have never been helping us for the ladies, everytime you take them, but why so kind today...whats the secret paaji...tell me the truth...

By DaRuDe• 22 Apr 2008 11:31
DaRuDe

 

when Ksarat and Smoke are in short distance.

 

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By qatarisun• 22 Apr 2008 11:30
Rating: 3/5
qatarisun

why do you say, it won't work, if i said, FROM MY EXPERIENCE.. it MIGHT work, and pretty well, and for a long time...

but of course knowing that one day they will be together.. ..

there are cirtain circumstances that apart two people. But if their feelings are strong enough, they will make through it..

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By copper• 22 Apr 2008 11:28
Rating: 3/5
copper

I hold on to the memories of a life time

We spent every moment in each others arms

U made me feel the real me in me

When  u were in my arms,all along

Was it just a dream! Was it real!

What brought us together is still a mystery

I can feel your head on my shoulder even now

And your hand around me,keeping me warm

Those hugs that made me feel secure

and the long lasting kisses, that could take me high

Your sweet red lips,that I loved to bite

Your smooth silky skin, that would keep me awake

I miss those days, that love we shared

I hate to wake up, to know I am alone

I am tired of dreaming,all day and night

I cant stand longer, without you in me

I wake up every morning,and look at the mirror

To find there aint no scratches,no more on my chest

I find no bites, I find no marks

I cant go on,this way any more

By johnsi1610• 22 Apr 2008 11:28
johnsi1610

YES....but not for long

By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 11:27
ksarat16

Well first of all, I really hope you arent trying to get into a long dist relatn, then, meself, smokey, and DaRude, will get upset...

 

LOL...

 

But anyways to answer your question...

 

Well tough to say, some work, some might not, its just how you deal with it on a CONTINUOUS BASIS...

 

And hey for us you dont long dist, our relation is just a phone call away...LOL...

 

cheers , and hey by the way, how you doing today...

By DaRuDe• 22 Apr 2008 11:09
DaRuDe

 

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By fai077• 22 Apr 2008 11:07
fai077

It works.

I have an affair.

Coz i knw tht.

 

Have A Great Day.....

By Formatted Soul• 22 Apr 2008 11:07
Rating: 5/5
Formatted Soul

No it wont...even same places relations are not working these days. forget about long distance.  

 

Distance makes heart DISTANT - (said by me) LOL

 

By copper• 22 Apr 2008 11:04
Rating: 4/5
copper

But it does work(if refreshed frequently)!!!

By swissgirl39• 22 Apr 2008 11:00
Rating: 2/5
swissgirl39

went through it...na,it is to difficult

for a short time it is ok but still not easy

 

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By chingkay• 22 Apr 2008 10:59
Rating: 5/5
chingkay

 

 yes can be but u need to trust each and have faith

 but really its hard and quite expensive

 

 

 

 

try and try until you succeed

By qatarisun• 22 Apr 2008 10:56
Rating: 5/5
qatarisun

you can find similar topic posted some time ago...

but here is again: yes, it MIGHT work, and work very well...from my personal experience 

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