Kind of Lost ...
I seldom open threads like those but I have nothing against them or problems with opening one.
Did you imagine that you would hear something that you never expected to hear from someone who is really very close to you?
In a moment of being upset and lost in this life troubles and issues, everything is possible and a crazy idea that plays with your mind starts the fire that finds its way to burn down everything.
Between believing and disbelieving there is one fine line which is the truth, if you don’t know that person you would side with the believers for sure. Knowing that person will put you on the other side of course.
Would you go with believing in everything that person told you and consider it over? Or would you try to understand and consider that you heard nothing from that person?
When I met you in the morning you were ok what happened to you now?
Treysdad how are you doing?
My advice to you... Follow your heart!
KE...confused whether you believe everything he said? be observant and trust your instincts. since you know this person very well then you can sense any deviation from his behavior. also pray for it that you will be guided...
KE...bottomline its your call. its hard to make both parties happy. so just weigh each side and decide accordingly. yes easier said than done...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
I would make a list of all the positive points and all the negative points see what the rusult is, but basically you know what your heart tells you and you have to make your way from there. There is always a tomorrow.
KE... It is always very very hard..... being around this person for a long time and being through a lot togehter... But in the end it is not about what is right or wrong for that person, it is about right or wrong for you. In your own oppinion....
Listen very close to your heart..... And then be realistic. If this person has done you wrong many many times...maybe there should be a break from each other/ from the "always being with this person" part. Let each other be for a while and after a while come back toghether again and talk. Use the time that you don't spend with eachother anymore to think, the both of you. And then come to a understanding.
But lay down the boundries for that person. If you are always taking care of other people and then yourself... you should turn that around a little bit more. Take care of you and then other people... You can only give so much... but you shouldn't forget about yourself.
Take care... it is always difficult....
Be safe.
hugs, J
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Life is nothing without friends.... :)
QL.... just a (very nice) way of live..... :)
Bro,
u know if i was in ur place, i'd say F* them.. who ever made u feel this way, unless if you are at blame. But those who are close to u, can't stand next to u when u r broken, f* them seriously. Secondly, this life is too short to be upset about such things. Last but not least, believe in god more than humans. Humans could go against u, but God never does.
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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.
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...but as I tell many QLers in your situation,
"get an effing grip!"
I know it may not sound like the best advice! ...and definately not the most sympatetic, but trust me! Most people have either been there or will oneday, sometimes many times, and it hurts like hell each and everytime!
However, resentment with destroy you more than loneliness!
What doesn't kill you will make you stronger, and I know you're going to be one tough cookie! Let it go bro! ...and move on!
"...You might have seen a housefly, maybe even a superfly, but I bet you ain’t never seen a donkey fly. Ha, Ha, Ha..." Donkey
do whatever makes you happy...
Myspace Ange
take care of yourself and god bless you always.
good night dear.
see this blabbering then you really need to go to bed ...
I'm going as well trying to sleep and not to think anymore ... my brain is already tired ...
Goodnight all and thank you for the comments.
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
person for more than a year, go through a lot always together and be always together make it really difficult ... you can't just let go of someone because of some repeated issues that would make you believe that it is part of that person personality and if you really want to be with that person then you have to accept those.
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
You said.. "I have always found my way back ..." ..so what are you blabbering here?....
guess my sleepy brain can't take all in your issues here King Edshel...maybe tomorrow..
night fellas...
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
try again if ever ... and don't worry ... I have always found my way back ... I was always alone ... taking care of myself and everyone around me ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
you are right as good is the only one who ..
Can see you while the others can't ...
Can hear you while the others won't ...
Can help you while the others would refrain ...
Would never forget you while the others are trying now to do so ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
hmmmmmmm... so it means this will be the last time that you will get lost?... :D then what are you pondering more, let it be and look ahead.. don't listen to this damn person who keeps on dragging you down, and makes you feel this way!
you should know better...
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
because i reach with that person the end of the way many many times, tried always my best to fix things up but this one seems to be really the last one ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
you got some serious problem king ed... you want to talk more about it over some ice cream? name the place and i will be there (hopefully you'll not get lost..:D )
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
it is also for me not bad.
someone told me this: "it is just like taking it from the right ear and let it out from the left one .." ..simple as that.. :)
hmmmm..who could that be? send me a PM kingie..will smack his face..
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
you are not helping at all ... Nothing is like being lost in the middle of no where and the reason? Would refrain ... guess i just lost my direction or forgot about my destination ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
you seems to be the QL troubles expert.
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
wish to read one day something like:HEY QL HERE IS MR KING HAPPY!!!!
;D
I hope it will happen soooooooooooooooooonnnnnnn
someone is thinking that I lost my way to somewhere ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
Just choose to believe or not to believe. Choose the options that best suits you right now, the one that would make you happy, even if it's not the right one.
:-)) Something like don't worry, be happy!
you lost king? since when?...want me to buy you a compass?..lol
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
but you know that whenever i would open a thread it should be kind of ... I don't know, troublesome?
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
sorry i cant help you.wish i could.