"It's complicated"

whyteknight said It's way cooler to say I am ...

It's way cooler to say I am in a complicated relationship than to say I am single :("

No, it's way cooler to tell it like it is - "In a relationship / married / single".

"It's complicated" just shows that either they are players wanting sympathy from gullible guys/gals or they simply confused and don't know what they want, neither of which is any good relationship material and to be avoided or kicked out asap - until maybe later when they get clearer/less hazy.

BluVander said pilgram ...

Loneliness and homesickness can be blamed to its existence ;-)"

Hmm...life is about justifications. Someone who doesn't honour his/her commitment lacks character though.

BV said "Brit, Pseudo-relationship is a state where in both parties have mutual understanding but they don't label themselves as a couple (gf-bf).. it's like they are in a relationship but not quite. both parties can do whatever they want, but no jealousy, no questions asked.. something like that.. that's why it's called "it's complicated".

Even in a relationship, they can be free to be themselves, accountable at their own free will. Jealousy and asking too many questions is simply an indication of insecurity. Lack of communication skills, including listening skills are what lead to those "complications".

to voice my opinion different form others? Does "unpopular" (debatable) opinion makes you a bad person. Are all individual posting here 100 % acceptable to others? View the post, not the poster (which many here, sometimes I am also but not all the time as other's make it a business to attack the person rather than the post).

Anyway, if that what makes you happy, go on, it's your life not mine! Good day!

you always seem to be able to out-do yourself, your a modern day miracle.

between your first comment and the link you gave! Or did I miss the first link? Is there a first link?

I hear ya.... and I can totally relate...

Xena see....he always reminds me of 2 things...a. They walk among us and b. I am, thank God, not one of them.

Plus he makes me shake my head in wonder...and that does not happen too often.

Nomerci;-)

if you read carefully... one shot and i were playing with words for v-day... and just an FYI, the V-day movement falls on a valentine day too.. why dont u try to open the link and read what on them next time.. so u dont have to ask no brainer questions :-P

duhhh?!?!

Flor, I love your posts.

my post? And you also explain the reason in our culture. Anyway, if that's how you explain it, it's your word, not mine.

WK, you want to highlight the other word, fine. It's you putting emphasize on it.

BTW, is valentine day really a celebration for something against "violence on women"? Valentine and violence, really?

i couldn't agree with you more

:D

i am quite aware this is not a medical discussion or what not, i was just trying to explain to a kindergarten that vagina is not an offensive word but just a medical term specifically used for lessons in Anatomy. And besides, the V-day that i was talking about on the link i provided was for an organization who supports anti-violence against women. Don't comment if you didn't understand the thread. Or better yet, don't dive if there's no water *peace out*

:-P

People who say "It's complicated" are usually in denial...the other person isn't interested, get used to the idea!

in our culture.. any term that pertains to the sexual organs, may it be in medical or scientific or in our dialect term, is somewhat a grave offense, and our elderly would usually slap our mouth. But now i came to realize, it's nothing but just a TERM unless it's used OFFENSIVELY in a sentence.

Back to the topic:

gudone: exactly the point, just have fun and enjoy life.

but sometimes, human as we are, we get weak and tend to fall especially for females. And end up just falling in our own trap :-(

some above comments says being single is far better than being in complicatd one....

y not take the risk n enjoy ....

gudone, then let us know what you think...since you are back at the topic now....

aha... ok now back to the topic, was reading curiously....

no gudone, it has been anticipated for quite some time.

a sudden twist from the topic??

I was just teasing WK ;)

I was just copy pasting from earlier posts :(

edifis wrote D**k and BluVander wrote v*g*na but only Bluvander got the moral lecture :(

I have no problem with vagina :P

I wonder why people keep putting * in place of letters in vagina. The last time I checked vagina wasn't a dirty word...at least to anyone over the age of 13.

I wonder why someone didn't get offended at D**k and got offended at v*g*na :-/

LOL. Don't get me started Brit. ;)

Is this going to be a monologue ?

Since when did Vagina's become offensive, and why do you need to bleep out the word? A vagina is a part of the female anatomy, and a very important one at that.

BV, I am a lady and I am certainly not offended by it. It is all in good humour...which obviously eludes some people.

Not surprisingly though.

are we talking about medical thing here? Precisely you know the offensiveness of your comment based on the essence of this thread. And sorry to misunderstood you that you are apologizing somehow?

And WK, you never stop to amaze me! You know, you are funny!

how can this be an offensive thing? tsk.. narrow-minded people should not be allowed here on QL.

:-(

If they were offended by a MEDICAL term "v*g*na", then so be it, but i am not going to apologize for this.

flor I didn't realise you are a lady, My bad.

for the ladies? How sure are you?

Saying it's ok is encouraging such unwanted remarks here.

A "kabayan" lady Qler pm'ed me regarding the comment and she was more offended because BV is also a "kabayan". At least, BV already somehow corrected it, by saying no offense ("pasintabi" in our dialect).

WK can't it be Duck-day?

BluVander it's ok, nobody got offended :)

Well they were in France on D day so your suggestion may not be too bad ;)

Now then what is D-Day?

D**k-Day may be!

no offense meant to the ladies out there...

here's what it's all about:

http://www.vday.org/about/more-about

talking about? Some respect to the ladies of the house, my friend! Be a little bit discreet!

*yawn*

Which part did you find my comment offensive to the "ladies"???

sorry you confused me

:-(

:D

ok i think we have to discover what is the real meaning of V-day.

-Vacancies day

-Vacation day

-Vaccination from stupidity Day

-Vacuum Hearts Day

-Vain women Day

-Valets Day ...referring to men ;)

-Vandal feelings Day.

-Vanishing Day...referring to money.

-Vapor day ....also referring to money

-Vendita day ....

and the list continues...

have some respect to the ladies of the house!

lolzzzz.. nice one!

v-day is v*g*na day.. coz it's a day for Girls, Ladies, Women.. to be appreciated.. and another thing is that it's a celebration to end violence against women! :D

i thought it is Vampires-day.

because they suck the remaining money in your pocket.

it's "vanishing day" for some men who can't quite get some ladies out for a date :P

what is V-day???

Vibration day??

is it legal now? :P

Pseudo-relationship is a state where in both parties have mutual understanding but they don't label themselves as a couple (gf-bf).. it's like they are in a relationship but not quite. both parties can do whatever they want, but no jealousy, no questions asked.. something like that.. that's why it's called "it's complicated"

;-)

Yeah it's stupid, but it's reality. Some people just couldn't help themselves. ;-)

I don't see anything wrong with stepfather marrying the step daughter, they are not related biologically anyway right?

Loneliness and homesickness can be blamed to its existence ;-)

But back home, it's very common, especially when call center industry boomed up all over the place.. :D

isnt that the status of someone who is in a fight (with his/her bf/gf) and trying to get anyone's attention just to have someone asking "whats wrong"? ...its a scheme to sensationalize their relationship becuz its boring.

I'd say there's plenty of complicated relationships in Qatar. Being expats generally breeds those kinds of relationships.

edifis...!!!

Now I know from the other thread that complicated is when your step father marries your step daughter.

Whyte, those people are...well, you know. :)

nomerci some people think so :(

I wish I had a complicated relationship.. Mine are all so simple :(

Victoria ask ma friends about me and they'll tell u what's my definitions in real life, i wont brag about my manners but i beleive i'm a great man, ambitious , talented, im not ugly, im neat, great personality, but i just dunno how to get a gf, anyways QL will never help, i'll turn into a jokke if i keep talkin that ish lol :P

No, it's stupid.

It's way cooler to say I am in a complicated relationship than to say I am single :(

I think people just like to make relationships "Complicated".. Just for the funn of it.. Otherwise i think being single is simple enuf ;)

Two Panadol ActiFast coming right up

and when the consequence became known, the REAL HEADACHE starts.

I am really getting old.. What the hell is a pseudo-relationship ?

are u that too ugly inside and out?

there must be something wrong with you then :(

no offence , i dont mean any harm...just curious

You don't try to have a gf, it happens...

Stop trying and it will happen... Good luck..

bluvander good for you

i got that weird attitude after several tries to hav gf, then i find out that girls only like those motorbike skinny crooks, then i got enough, i'm mad :(

i like simple things dear :) ... e.g. Lamborghini ..hehe

and a studio type flat that until couldnt find any, i have given up the idea as well ... khalas!!!

cheers

then good for you Vic.. keep it simple ;-)

cabbage: welcome to the club! :D

WK: why do u think i started this post? :P

BluVander...when it is ought to be simple

some things may not need to complicate :P

cheers

it's ALWAYS complicate ;-)

coz we are but mere humans :-)

LOL xena....nice one, u got flan!

complicated?? eh.....why make things complicated when it is ought to be simple?

cheers

no matter how much you beg, not gonna happen;-P

complicated is the best, guilt free sex.

Born single..Live single. Die single. Not a bad idea at all. Suits a few...Some great people were not married. Some great people had very unhappy marriages written in the history about..

A lot others had a family to keep an image with and had affairs which never created issues unless when a child got born or when media had nothing better to announce then..

:-)

With that attitude, no wonder you are single ;)

i've been single since i was born, been struggling to find a girl who appreciates who iam, but nowadays gals are btiches

Already we all are struggling with the relationships we are having..Just do not have enough energy to discuss or have pseudo, extra, etc.

'It's complicated' :P

What is your relationship status?