i wish i'm home

atlast u graced us with your company here in QL good morning ... i know its afternoon for us

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

the pleasure would always be mine, or what are friends for? :)

:) knowing that i have a family here... i feel so fine... yah know what im sayin

i already did!...nice to see you smilling again buddy..:D

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lol owen... u just have to let it go...and fart!

jun can you help me out now with my stomach pain?..hehehehe j/k...cheer up buddy..:P

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same here...in case..

will always be there for u.... can always count on yes

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

anything for a dear friend, jun...:)

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owen,king edshel,scorpio27,scarlett,angel_eyes and tcom..thank you guys... your words are truly amazing... it made me realized so many things... thanks for your time...

i know how u feel sorry

Time heals everything

even after all the things u had done to salvage the relation

n as angel_eyes said think positive n try as much as possible not to be alone but rather mingle n jingle with your friends

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

I know its hard to give advice as no one can feel exactly how you feel but if you share your pain you cut it in half, if you don't you double it. And always remember "everything happens for a reason" that GOD has His own ways on how to show you the meaning of life. Life will not be beautiful without pains because it makes you stronger and a better person.

The fact that people will come and go to your life is quite hard to accept but that's the reality. The most important is that you have loved and you have nothing to loose.

You search for the console of your family (home) which is a normal reaction.

Take this as my final advice "whenever I feel down, I just think of those less unfortunate people and little by little I feel relieved"

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Not familiar with you as some of the folks obviously are, but please never stop loving, as when you do that, you cut yourself off emotionally and that is a slow painful death. Enjoy what was, don't question why things happened because you will never find an answer for that..its beyond us. Keep opening your heart to what is out there and the right person will come along and find your loving soul. Just be ready to be open and receptive to that option. I know, easier said than done but it will get better.

i really dont know how to cheer u up or how to make u feel better....its really part of life...all you have to do is.....let go and move on....i know its hard and complicated as what you've said....just be strong ......i know it will pass

what are you talking about here my friend, it is really hard to let go and i'm afraid that someday I have to do the same thing with the one that I really love and care about her. Just thinking of it, torn my heart apart, always bring tears to my eyes and let me breathless ... helpless trying to stop those tears ... but I'm really confused which one to stop .. The tears in my eyes, or the tears of my bleeding heart.

Love is so beautiful, but in the same time so painful. Expect with love everything, the nice and ugly, the sweet and the sour, the good and the bad. Whenever you get hurt, love will cure that ... on the other side, sometimes when you are happy .. an unexpected thing should happen and make you sad? What was that? Also love.

Letting go is really so painful, I know that you would be saying: easier said than done but life would never stop and if you decide to stop, it won't wait for you. If you will continue to run after it also, you would never catch it. So what to do? Here comes the tricky question, and only you would be able to answer it.

Sometimes life is unfair, you will say maybe most of the time ... but that is the nature of it and we can do nothing about it but to live with it. We can't thank it when it gives us happiness and curse it when it gives us sadness. The same life that gave you earlier happiness is the same that gave you sadness it is your life, it is just using different masks to face you every time with new and different faces and never stop surprising you.

Nothing hurts like love, but we would never stop or quit on it. The more we say that, the more we try to keep ourselves away from it the more we sink, the deeper we go down. The more we get hurt, the more we will try to love again. The more scars we got there, the more pain we got in our hearts... the less we feel bad about being hurt again, the less we would trust and find it easy to open our hearts again.

Your heart is yours and my heart is mine, I got the cure for my heart and you should get the one for you. You know better what hurts you, what cause this pain ... I can help you .. I can show you the way .. But you have to walk it ...

jun...whatever happens buddy, you know who you're friends you can depend on..i'm one of them...anytime, just anytime you feel someone to be with you without saying at all, you can call me..

i know its kind of difficult to say "you will surpass" this phase...but guiding you all throughout will not be difficult as you have US..hang in there junarc..

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Call me the sentimental fool but this is what I listen to whenever I feel down and lonely...hope this helps:

It's not how long we held each other's hand

What matters is how well we loved each other

It's not how far we travelled on our way

Of what we found to say

It's not the spring you see, but all the shades of green

It's not how long I held you in my arms

What matters is how sweet the years together

It's not how many summertimes we had to give to fall

The early morning smiles we tearfully recall

What matters most is that we loved at all.

It's not how many summertimes we had to give to fall

The early morning smiles we tearfully recall

What matters most is that we loved at all.

What matters most is that we loved at all.

What you are is what you have been, and what you will be is what you do now. - Buddha

thanks buddy... well i can say that im gettin' there...im not completely ok but i know i will get over it... i wish i can share few details but it's quite complicated and u know that... im still hurting... well i can't blame anyone...i put myself in it... but still sometimes i can't help it but ask why everything seems so unfair... u know i tried hard to cover things up...to be bubbly, funny... coz i just don't want to be selfish and ruin the moments with those people i am with... but this time it's too painful... u know the feeling when u know in your heart that nothin will change a thing... even if u tried harder to have it... and keep it... nothin left for u to do but let go?... coz that's the best thing u can do? i'm really having a hard time dealing with it...good thing friends are there to listen and comfort me... somehow it helps... so thanks a lot...really...

How are you doing these days buddy? Hope that you are doing fine. Feeling depressed sometimes is part of this life many games, feeling now this way means that you were having fun before and having everything going fine with you. We should thank god that whenever a door of sorrow or sadness get open, another doors would be open from the other side to get over that.

I know that life is unfair and that you might be opening now some unwanted doors, but sooner or later ... those doors would be closed. Depending on your will to live this life as you wish and like, with the help of the friends around, with the care that you got from the people who really do love you ... you will get over this one.

You might be hurt, you might be feeling sad or bad about something. Nothing can be changed, it already happened and it it up to you now to stand up and say: this is just an issue, why would I consider it a problem and make a big deal out of nothing? Does it really worth the pain? The sacrifice? The time? The effort? You will say 'Yes' to some and say to the most 'No'.

Be honest with yourself and don't let your emotions sometimes take over your decisions. You might say 'Yes' to things right now, but trust me that won't make any sense to you later and you will question yourself: How did I say 'Yes' to that one before?

Ask the friends around you for help, I know that people would be around when you got no issues, happy and hanging out with everyone but the true friends will stand up for you and be always there for you. When you really in trouble, needing someone beside you, seeking help .. you will come to know who are really your true friends and who is pretending to be.

You will go through this my friend, become stronger ... knowing things that you would never come to know if you did not have this issue. We have to pay a little price for getting different life experiences. Life is indeed a great school, but who said that it is supposed to give us lessons for free? These things happen for a reason dear, only god knows why because he is our creator and knows what is better for us. Look at the bright side of the moon always, you can't say .. this is not a moon because you can only see the bright half of it ... the dark side of it is what makes it complete when it becomes a full moon, right Junarc?

Take care of yourself ...

that's actually where im tryin to focus right now...socialize... thanks really... u and the rest of the guys here made me feel better...a whole lot better...

Life's too short to waste it on someone who didnt appreciate you, go out enjoy your friends and u'll never know what could happen next.

thanks... i know ill get better soon... i just want to share my thoughts here to somehow lessen it..

Dont worry it'll all get better soon, you have to go thru the bad part to get to the good one.

booo im really not good when it comes to dealing with pain... i always ends up in the same situation where i am now...

experiences are made to be learned from, pain makes u a stronger person. You should use the experience you went thru to dodge others like it in the future and that would give you the happy life u wanted.

good for u... i always have that respect for those people who knows how to appreciate arts...

is it expensive?

Yes they are.

I bought 5 paintings in my recent trip to the Philippines.

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no way.. correct me if im wrong but it's a creation of a filipino painter right? would love to have one hanging in my room..

Thank you! But someone got offended of my last painting...Even I did explain to him the cultural aspects of it.

This a painting that must be hang on a toilet...

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namabiru..u can do something...cheer me up...

azzy...just knowin that you're there without even sayin nothin...it's more than enough..u know that...im not sure until when i will be like this...but i know i will surpass this..

red pope...nice painting..i prefer the previous one..

This sounds more like a female frustrations...

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I don't know what to say to make you feel even a little bit better.

I know how you feel and hurt for you as well. We're always here for you, baby...always remember that.

What you are is what you have been, and what you will be is what you do now. - Buddha

Uh oh... what's up? Can we help?

well qatarisun you're somewhat right but then it would not be better than knowing that your family's just around... though im so thankful to my friends who's always been there for me...

charging...im workin on it... i hope it's that easy as how it sounds...thanks anyways...

jhunbug...thanks...i hope it would be that soon...i hate this feeling...

jaxs..sis u know how much i was hurt...the whole process was extremely painful... im totally lost... thanks for always bein there to listen...

Life is full of challenges, and the way we tackle those challenges is what will keep us going. Keep your head up, things will be better sooner than you think... Whatever you lose there is always something better around the corner..

JhunBug

jun, no matter what happened...its gonna turn out ok even if it takes an excruciatingly long time...its his f**kin loss and well... he's also miserable...we're all here for u...and im sure he's already regretting it..

"Ad astra per aspera" ~ AS

Ups and downs are part of life. Just relax and wait; time will cure everything. Don't worry.

what happened buddy? love? career? friendship? what went wrong?..

..whatever it is, it could happen back home as well...