I am lonely!!!!

Black Magic111
By Black Magic111

Can anybody out there give me the love I am looking for???
Tru love....
I mean nothing fake... Had enough!!
Don't wanna waste my time and life anymore with any fake ass pimp...

Sometime I wonder does anybody love for real now a days or it's just used for making love and enjoying for a piece of time!!

Guys I am sorry .... But I am trying my best to come out of this trauma o had gone through!!!
can't believe I have wasted 10 years loving a hypocrit.... Everytime expecting he will get better some day....but.....

By anonymous• 24 Jul 2010 08:52
anonymous

missing some comments here guys !!

By anonymous• 22 Jul 2010 14:34
anonymous

Question it to yourself first...!!

By anonymous• 21 Jul 2010 17:47
anonymous

True love: A partner who can die for you, or atleast die with you....true love is the unconditional relation between two souls, and if anything else bothers to either of the two its not true love... Find our if your partner can shed life for you if he/she thinks even for a microsecond then, u know !!

So, i dont feel something called true luv is left in this world anymore....all will say that i can giv my lyf to you, but when it comes to reality, truth is disclosed.

Lessons that life teaches us through experience r unquestionable.

By ruby29• 21 Jul 2010 14:57
ruby29

actually gloomy i thought the bear was weally weally cute hehe

By ruby29• 21 Jul 2010 14:56
ruby29

gloomy didnt know i can find love here in QL in a week's time no less! lol

By Black Magic111• 21 Jul 2010 10:45
Black Magic111

Thanks to you all!!

I feel much better seeing different views and advices...

YOu guys have helped me in some way to come out of this....

My main aim for this thread was for MY GUY to see s

all these comments and to realize certain things !!!

I am still not sure if he has read it!!!

But anyways ....

Thanks.

By crnkshft• 20 Jul 2010 18:04
crnkshft

[Music & Singing] Looking for love in all the wrong places, looking for love in too many places, love... Just have to keep on looking.

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 18:00
anonymous

by the way.............

y dont u change from black magic to white magic....?

just kidding my friend......

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 17:57
anonymous

hay this is not fare.....

if a male post the same thing here, every1 will fight against him. telling that this is not a dating site.

but when a female said that she is alone, every1 is there 2 help her...

2 make her feel better...

my dear black magic111...

do u c how many r there 4 u???

do u c how many r willing 2 help u???

so trust me, u r not alone....

its true that every 1 are born alone without bringing anything 2 the world...

and that same person dies alone without taking anything from the world....

each and every1 is alone....

but none of them feel that loneliness bcoz of friends....

loved ones....

from all these posts, u must realize how many of us cares abt u..

let me give u a small advice.

never find ur happiness in some1 else.

find ur happiness in urself. b proud 2 b a single.

as a human its natural 2 feel alone when v loose some1 v love, trust, care.....

but that doesnt mean that u r left alone in this world...

and abt true love...

when some1 loves u, u dont realize it...

when u realize it, it will b too late...

WE always love the 1 who leaves u, and leaves the 1 who loves u...

so never go behind a true love. u will never get it....

wait 4 the true love, and if u love some1, u must understand that some day u may lose it...

my heart was also broken long b4....

but life taught me how 2 live with a broken heart...

c the friends who r there 4 u.

u r not alone...

b happy.

take care

By Wings Of Fire• 20 Jul 2010 17:08
Wings Of Fire

Go Busy and do things u always wanted to do in life!

Explore ur self!

Wont rite ny thing consoling to u...if i do, u will loose all the strength and will keep on pitying ur self!

Only one advice:- explore new things..ur hobbies etc, get busy with work! and just matter of some time..nd ull be back on track again!

Life is so short to waste it Black magic!

By afrinnabees• 20 Jul 2010 16:48
afrinnabees

Loneliness is wat we feel..its wat we create..so get out with ur frnds..i know forgetting past is easy to say but bitter to practice..but no other go past is pat..live in present think abt future..May Allah give u a best person as u dreamt for

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 16:40
bubblymom

and you are the same ruby i was looking for!

that avatar is better than the bear. :D

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 16:36
bubblymom

ruby, ruby, ruby!

somebody's in-love with you already! lol

By Elegance• 20 Jul 2010 15:38
Elegance

Britexpat... the mission of most people here is only to chat and have fun..They get into some post and start it...Most often, the heart of the matter is lost...

By svetlana.abou• 20 Jul 2010 15:33
svetlana.abou

Don't worry. Think about future and forget about past. Forgive and forget. You can't change it, so no point going back again and again.

Second lesson I have learnt is that anger is like poison. You drink it hoping for the other person to dye.

You can go to see a family specialist. Talk to her (I would prefer her over him, as he will not be able to help. He can't feel what women feels) and she will help you to get rid of the inside pressure. No one can make you happy- only you. Just like that- out of blue moon- you are happy and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Once you are happy and shine, love will come again. Just don't open your heart too much.

Good luck

By britexpat• 20 Jul 2010 15:17
britexpat

You cynics should be ASHAMED of yourselves.. This is a cry for help from someone who is lonely and looking for love...

Don't give up Black Magic... I'm sure you'll find someone.. Check your PMs....

By ruby29• 20 Jul 2010 15:13
ruby29

visper & gloomy very funny guys lol

By gtim• 20 Jul 2010 11:20
gtim

oh my! another intriguing thread.. :)

By anwarji• 20 Jul 2010 11:16
anwarji

lol soniya.....

By TheSpottedOne• 20 Jul 2010 11:15
TheSpottedOne

Lonely? huh? who is not? all are alone! but having said that it is not impossible to make friends as long as you dont expect much from them, all is fine!!!!!

Learn to Love and do not expect the same in return...and you will be fine...

By flor1212• 20 Jul 2010 11:12
flor1212

that is, lesson of life. I would presume that 10 years is a live-in arrangement and the blind love is one way!

Take a good company of your friends, real friends, or just a wishful thinking that someone out there is just your missing partner (for life). He'll find you (hope in the right place and time).

By Visper• 20 Jul 2010 11:07
Visper

Rizks who??? Who is he??

By soniya• 20 Jul 2010 11:02
soniya

rizk, u r safe..don't worry..coz we know u r a father of only one child..he hehhe

By HeavyD• 20 Jul 2010 10:58
HeavyD

Am new in QL...need some friends....and, or enemies lol!

By HeavyD• 20 Jul 2010 10:54
HeavyD

10 yrs!!!! too long 4 a road test....one month will be fair enough 4 ur next catch. u'll have few regrets. keep it moving... life is a journey!

By Visper• 20 Jul 2010 10:52
Visper

Intriguing..

By mjamille28• 20 Jul 2010 10:50
mjamille28

took you ten years to realize he's married with 3 kids?

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 10:49
Rizks

Black Magic dont reveal my identity here...:(

i dont have 3 Kids....:(

By Colt45• 20 Jul 2010 10:47
Colt45

and you were having an affair with him or what?

By soniya• 20 Jul 2010 10:46
soniya

Ohh really...who's that QL member?? Give us his ID, we will take care of him..he hehehe

Don't loose ur hope..Be positive..U will fall in LOVE again..U will get the best man of ur life than ur previous one..Life is not to remorse..One should go ahead with it..Don't look down ur past..Think ur present and future..ok..

By Black Magic111• 20 Jul 2010 10:43
Black Magic111

Feel sad that I had trusted him blind folded...but

and btw he is a QL member for long time and you guys know him very well!!!

He is smart in pretending to be smart....

He mainly comments on technology

and will find him faking about himself being single anywhere he goes....

Btw... He is married and had 3 young kids....

this how fake he is....

By mi50209ma• 20 Jul 2010 10:00
mi50209ma

Sorry to hear about the ten years, but its partially your fault too.

You missed the signs, you thought he'd change, you forgave over and over... let's hope you learned your lesson.

Good luck with the next one.

By sammiee• 20 Jul 2010 09:50
sammiee

Pray god honestly n deeply..really love is on your way.. ;-)

By Kapatid• 20 Jul 2010 09:46
Kapatid

true love is everywhere just find for the real person

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 09:40
anonymous

You should not be very persistent in searching for another one ---HASTE MAKES WASTE.

Just wait coz TRUE LOVE will come in His time --the perfect time.

The more you wait and search - the more it's getting to be evasive and will always slips of your hands.

Just wait for the Perfect Time. He is preparing a better one for you

By avvid• 20 Jul 2010 09:12
avvid

Be thankful, you only lost 10 years, and not the rest of your life. Listen to Ruby, get out there with your friends, and start enjoying life. Even if you don't want to. And have faith you will find someone better. B'cos you will.

By Visper• 20 Jul 2010 09:09
Visper

Now, where is ruby??

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 09:08
bubblymom

oh there she is. :p

silly me, i was looking for the other ruby. :)

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 09:05
bubblymom

lol, i scrolled up if ruby commented here. :))

By Colt45• 20 Jul 2010 09:04
Colt45

Now that is what I call having a set of nuts, or just being plain stupid ;-))

By Con 2010• 20 Jul 2010 09:03
Con 2010

its horrible to never be alone but to be so incredibly alone on the inside and feel like you've lost everything when in reality you have everything ri...

By Visper• 20 Jul 2010 09:02
Visper

hahaahahaha.. Ruby, it's ur time to shine...

By LittleCameo• 20 Jul 2010 08:59
LittleCameo

Hi Ruby hw r u?...well am an indian...would like to knw more abt u..u r from which part of the globe...do mail me sometime, coz am looking 4 a good friend.

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 08:42
bubblymom

lol Rizks.

back to the topic:

as i've said BM, keep looking around. somebody out there is surely meant for you.

Keep smiling! :)

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 08:38
asif_khan

@colt45 if u stop "holding" we ll stop "hijacking"

By Colt45• 20 Jul 2010 08:36
Colt45

Quit hi-jacking this thread with all your "holdings" :-P

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 08:35
Rizks

gloomy then u block his nostrils....:)

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 08:33
bubblymom

LOL Rizks.

Maybe my hubby is blocking the pm. :p

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 08:29
anonymous

damn Global warming, everything is polluted.

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 08:27
asif_khan

note: i want her to hold my hand and nothing else

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 08:25
Rizks

abe Colt since when u started holding for others ?

saala Gay kahi ka ! :)

By Visper• 20 Jul 2010 08:24
Visper

Am so out of track.. What's the topic all about?

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 08:23
asif_khan

@colt45 abey i want to spent some quality time with a female in cornish just to hold my hands not anyother organ

By Colt45• 20 Jul 2010 08:20
Colt45

I will hold something else for you... saala &%$%#%&* :-)))

By Colt45• 20 Jul 2010 08:19
Colt45

Ol' uncle herbie is back. I wonder if why he's here if he thinks all that of QL???

Herbie goes BANANAS??? lmao!!!

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 08:19
asif_khan

i want someone to hold my hand and have a walk in cornish who will hold my hand????

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 08:17
anonymous

Hmmm Black Magic111 dont mind crazy advises from QL...just let go your loneliness....remember nothing in this world that we can say, PERMANENT! Who knows, maybe today you'll find what you are looking for...cheeeers!

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 08:05
Rizks

Herbert Uncle is back !! :(

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 08:04
anonymous

You're on the wrong track. The people around on QL are crazy, think they are over-smart, that's why wrong revealed identity, and talk shit. Find some other healthy site where you could receive the help and consolation you need.

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 08:02
asif_khan

i went to Industrial area street no 10 to kill my lonliness but a bad incident happened to me i cant explain its better to be lonely than to go to IA

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 08:02
Rizks

gloomy, when i can receive PM from the MOD Uncles then why not you ? :(

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 08:00
bubblymom

rizks, the pm is not sending, i don't know why. maybe a virus is blocking the pm. lol. :))

By garfieldisc• 20 Jul 2010 07:59
garfieldisc

like your comment. :)

By ajmani• 20 Jul 2010 07:52
ajmani

So many advises already, see black magic, you are not the only one who is lonely. Cheer up and keep smiling!

By lawa• 20 Jul 2010 07:50
lawa

we all love you ...

i have so many goats for you love them

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:49
Rizks

asif_khan if you are alone go to Industrial Area, Street No.15 or 20 - U will find many there to kill ur loneliness....:)

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 07:48
bubblymom

asif, there's rizks for you. he can do something about your loneliness. :))

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:48
Rizks

damn u blind gloomy...:)

Try Again ! :)

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 07:46
bubblymom

oh, maybe i sent to somebody else... :)

By asif_khan• 20 Jul 2010 07:46
asif_khan

i m also lonely what shall i do????

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:44
Rizks

gloomy u liar...:(

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:43
Rizks

Smoke does ur campaign have Screw drivers ? :)

By smoke• 20 Jul 2010 07:42
smoke

Screw fake love come to the cool campaign and do something better in your life than dwell on the past. Check out the thread http://www.qatarliving.com/node/1184430

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 07:42
bubblymom

pm sent rizks. :p

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:41
Rizks

gloomy are you talking to me ? lol

By _noms_• 20 Jul 2010 07:41
_noms_

go for this reality show:

"axe ur ex"

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 07:41
anonymous

I am not

By bubblymom• 20 Jul 2010 07:40
bubblymom

look around. maybe you're just blinded with something for you not to see a real love around you.

By lawa• 20 Jul 2010 07:39
lawa

i have so many goats for you love them

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 07:37
Rizks

Nobody Loves ME.....:(

More then 10Yrs i hav not got any love PM from any gal...:(

By gudone• 20 Jul 2010 07:34
gudone

how can som1 search Love.. it shud happen unknowingly, thru heart.. if u call for love , u will never find... love can happen anywer, anytime !!! 10 years is not a loooooooooooooooong gap.... ppl waits for more thn tht....

By lawa• 20 Jul 2010 07:34
lawa

love wants tear fear bear

By Speedysid• 20 Jul 2010 07:09
Speedysid

when life throws Sh%t at you, it is upto you to turn it into manure..

By Elegance• 20 Jul 2010 07:08
Elegance

The trouble lay in keeping him for ten years without the commitment and giving away your precious body for the "enjoyment".

I was having a "big fight" with my husband for the past two days and I wonder why we both can't eat or sleep properly...I felt breathless and depressed...

Is this love, commitment or something you can't name...?

Married life or having an affair.. Both take away a lot of energy...That is all I know...

By ruby29• 20 Jul 2010 06:58
ruby29

Black Magic i understand how you feel. But i think now is the time to think of yourself and discover the things you can do and find out its ok to be single. The thing is we depend too much on another person to complete us or make us happy. If the right person comes along that would be great but for the meantime stand up for yourself. all the single ladies have the real fun lol

By ruby29• 20 Jul 2010 06:58
ruby29

Black Magic i understand how you feel. But i think now is the time to think of yourself and discover the things you can do and find out its ok to be single. The thing is we depend too much on another person to complete us or make us happy. If the right person comes along that would be great but for the meantime stand up for yourself. all the single ladies have the real fun lol

By Mann-Doha• 20 Jul 2010 06:53
Rating: 3/5
Mann-Doha

You Start pretty early..... Good way to start a day. Howz your jalebi today. How come she hasn't written anything for the heck of it.!!!

By Rizks• 20 Jul 2010 06:42
Rizks

I am lonely too !! :(

I need Lub, Friendsheep and more Friendsheep.

Were can i get ? and how much per KG ? :(

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 06:31
anonymous

Do Love with God, people will Love you and you will find true Love

By Abdulrehmansajid• 20 Jul 2010 06:02
Abdulrehmansajid

Try Being Gothic .. It will help you alot .. Trust me! It's Impossible to find real love online =) ..

Joon Famoso is right! ... or take my opinion!

By britexpat• 20 Jul 2010 05:28
britexpat

Whata Ba$tard.. 10 years of sacrifice adn tears - For what ?

Be brave..

I wish i could help, but my BF is a jealous type..

By Joon Famoso• 20 Jul 2010 05:20
Rating: 2/5
Joon Famoso

Nobody can give you real love, you have to find it yourself...you have to explore.....dnt expect that love is spoon feeding way....go out with friends & colleagues, that is one way to find someone that could be your potential life time partner...there are some more possible ways that you can do to meet someone.....

cheers!

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2010 05:03
anonymous

People do love for real, but purity is dying....

Hypocrisy is a bitter pill to swallow but sadly it is okay for most, 'tie your lover down while you are free' syndrome.

It is sad it took you 10 years.....he either concealed it expertly or you got lulled into things slowly slowly...

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