I am lonely!!!!
By Black Magic111 •
Can anybody out there give me the love I am looking for???
Tru love....
I mean nothing fake... Had enough!!
Don't wanna waste my time and life anymore with any fake ass pimp...
Sometime I wonder does anybody love for real now a days or it's just used for making love and enjoying for a piece of time!!
Guys I am sorry .... But I am trying my best to come out of this trauma o had gone through!!!
can't believe I have wasted 10 years loving a hypocrit.... Everytime expecting he will get better some day....but.....
missing some comments here guys !!
Question it to yourself first...!!
True love: A partner who can die for you, or atleast die with you....true love is the unconditional relation between two souls, and if anything else bothers to either of the two its not true love... Find our if your partner can shed life for you if he/she thinks even for a microsecond then, u know !!
So, i dont feel something called true luv is left in this world anymore....all will say that i can giv my lyf to you, but when it comes to reality, truth is disclosed.
Lessons that life teaches us through experience r unquestionable.
actually gloomy i thought the bear was weally weally cute hehe
gloomy didnt know i can find love here in QL in a week's time no less! lol
Thanks to you all!!
I feel much better seeing different views and advices...
YOu guys have helped me in some way to come out of this....
My main aim for this thread was for MY GUY to see s
all these comments and to realize certain things !!!
I am still not sure if he has read it!!!
But anyways ....
Thanks.
[Music & Singing] Looking for love in all the wrong places, looking for love in too many places, love... Just have to keep on looking.
by the way.............
y dont u change from black magic to white magic....?
just kidding my friend......
hay this is not fare.....
if a male post the same thing here, every1 will fight against him. telling that this is not a dating site.
but when a female said that she is alone, every1 is there 2 help her...
2 make her feel better...
my dear black magic111...
do u c how many r there 4 u???
do u c how many r willing 2 help u???
so trust me, u r not alone....
its true that every 1 are born alone without bringing anything 2 the world...
and that same person dies alone without taking anything from the world....
each and every1 is alone....
but none of them feel that loneliness bcoz of friends....
loved ones....
from all these posts, u must realize how many of us cares abt u..
let me give u a small advice.
never find ur happiness in some1 else.
find ur happiness in urself. b proud 2 b a single.
as a human its natural 2 feel alone when v loose some1 v love, trust, care.....
but that doesnt mean that u r left alone in this world...
and abt true love...
when some1 loves u, u dont realize it...
when u realize it, it will b too late...
WE always love the 1 who leaves u, and leaves the 1 who loves u...
so never go behind a true love. u will never get it....
wait 4 the true love, and if u love some1, u must understand that some day u may lose it...
my heart was also broken long b4....
but life taught me how 2 live with a broken heart...
c the friends who r there 4 u.
u r not alone...
b happy.
take care
Go Busy and do things u always wanted to do in life!
Explore ur self!
Wont rite ny thing consoling to u...if i do, u will loose all the strength and will keep on pitying ur self!
Only one advice:- explore new things..ur hobbies etc, get busy with work! and just matter of some time..nd ull be back on track again!
Life is so short to waste it Black magic!
Loneliness is wat we feel..its wat we create..so get out with ur frnds..i know forgetting past is easy to say but bitter to practice..but no other go past is pat..live in present think abt future..May Allah give u a best person as u dreamt for
and you are the same ruby i was looking for!
that avatar is better than the bear. :D
ruby, ruby, ruby!
somebody's in-love with you already! lol
Britexpat... the mission of most people here is only to chat and have fun..They get into some post and start it...Most often, the heart of the matter is lost...
Don't worry. Think about future and forget about past. Forgive and forget. You can't change it, so no point going back again and again.
Second lesson I have learnt is that anger is like poison. You drink it hoping for the other person to dye.
You can go to see a family specialist. Talk to her (I would prefer her over him, as he will not be able to help. He can't feel what women feels) and she will help you to get rid of the inside pressure. No one can make you happy- only you. Just like that- out of blue moon- you are happy and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Once you are happy and shine, love will come again. Just don't open your heart too much.
Good luck
You cynics should be ASHAMED of yourselves.. This is a cry for help from someone who is lonely and looking for love...
Don't give up Black Magic... I'm sure you'll find someone.. Check your PMs....
visper & gloomy very funny guys lol
oh my! another intriguing thread.. :)
lol soniya.....
Lonely? huh? who is not? all are alone! but having said that it is not impossible to make friends as long as you dont expect much from them, all is fine!!!!!
Learn to Love and do not expect the same in return...and you will be fine...
that is, lesson of life. I would presume that 10 years is a live-in arrangement and the blind love is one way!
Take a good company of your friends, real friends, or just a wishful thinking that someone out there is just your missing partner (for life). He'll find you (hope in the right place and time).
Rizks who??? Who is he??
rizk, u r safe..don't worry..coz we know u r a father of only one child..he hehhe
Am new in QL...need some friends....and, or enemies lol!
10 yrs!!!! too long 4 a road test....one month will be fair enough 4 ur next catch. u'll have few regrets. keep it moving... life is a journey!
Intriguing..
took you ten years to realize he's married with 3 kids?
Black Magic dont reveal my identity here...:(
i dont have 3 Kids....:(
and you were having an affair with him or what?
Ohh really...who's that QL member?? Give us his ID, we will take care of him..he hehehe
Don't loose ur hope..Be positive..U will fall in LOVE again..U will get the best man of ur life than ur previous one..Life is not to remorse..One should go ahead with it..Don't look down ur past..Think ur present and future..ok..
Feel sad that I had trusted him blind folded...but
and btw he is a QL member for long time and you guys know him very well!!!
He is smart in pretending to be smart....
He mainly comments on technology
and will find him faking about himself being single anywhere he goes....
Btw... He is married and had 3 young kids....
this how fake he is....
Sorry to hear about the ten years, but its partially your fault too.
You missed the signs, you thought he'd change, you forgave over and over... let's hope you learned your lesson.
Good luck with the next one.
Pray god honestly n deeply..really love is on your way.. ;-)
true love is everywhere just find for the real person
You should not be very persistent in searching for another one ---HASTE MAKES WASTE.
Just wait coz TRUE LOVE will come in His time --the perfect time.
The more you wait and search - the more it's getting to be evasive and will always slips of your hands.
Just wait for the Perfect Time. He is preparing a better one for you
Be thankful, you only lost 10 years, and not the rest of your life. Listen to Ruby, get out there with your friends, and start enjoying life. Even if you don't want to. And have faith you will find someone better. B'cos you will.
Now, where is ruby??
oh there she is. :p
silly me, i was looking for the other ruby. :)
lol, i scrolled up if ruby commented here. :))
Now that is what I call having a set of nuts, or just being plain stupid ;-))
its horrible to never be alone but to be so incredibly alone on the inside and feel like you've lost everything when in reality you have everything ri...
hahaahahaha.. Ruby, it's ur time to shine...
Hi Ruby hw r u?...well am an indian...would like to knw more abt u..u r from which part of the globe...do mail me sometime, coz am looking 4 a good friend.
lol Rizks.
back to the topic:
as i've said BM, keep looking around. somebody out there is surely meant for you.
Keep smiling! :)
@colt45 if u stop "holding" we ll stop "hijacking"
Quit hi-jacking this thread with all your "holdings" :-P
gloomy then u block his nostrils....:)
LOL Rizks.
Maybe my hubby is blocking the pm. :p
damn Global warming, everything is polluted.
note: i want her to hold my hand and nothing else
abe Colt since when u started holding for others ?
saala Gay kahi ka ! :)
Am so out of track.. What's the topic all about?
@colt45 abey i want to spent some quality time with a female in cornish just to hold my hands not anyother organ
I will hold something else for you... saala &%$%#%&* :-)))
Ol' uncle herbie is back. I wonder if why he's here if he thinks all that of QL???
Herbie goes BANANAS??? lmao!!!
i want someone to hold my hand and have a walk in cornish who will hold my hand????
Hmmm Black Magic111 dont mind crazy advises from QL...just let go your loneliness....remember nothing in this world that we can say, PERMANENT! Who knows, maybe today you'll find what you are looking for...cheeeers!
Herbert Uncle is back !! :(
You're on the wrong track. The people around on QL are crazy, think they are over-smart, that's why wrong revealed identity, and talk shit. Find some other healthy site where you could receive the help and consolation you need.
i went to Industrial area street no 10 to kill my lonliness but a bad incident happened to me i cant explain its better to be lonely than to go to IA
gloomy, when i can receive PM from the MOD Uncles then why not you ? :(
rizks, the pm is not sending, i don't know why. maybe a virus is blocking the pm. lol. :))
like your comment. :)
So many advises already, see black magic, you are not the only one who is lonely. Cheer up and keep smiling!
we all love you ...
i have so many goats for you love them
asif_khan if you are alone go to Industrial Area, Street No.15 or 20 - U will find many there to kill ur loneliness....:)
asif, there's rizks for you. he can do something about your loneliness. :))
damn u blind gloomy...:)
Try Again ! :)
oh, maybe i sent to somebody else... :)
i m also lonely what shall i do????
gloomy u liar...:(
Smoke does ur campaign have Screw drivers ? :)
Screw fake love come to the cool campaign and do something better in your life than dwell on the past. Check out the thread http://www.qatarliving.com/node/1184430
pm sent rizks. :p
gloomy are you talking to me ? lol
go for this reality show:
"axe ur ex"
I am not
look around. maybe you're just blinded with something for you not to see a real love around you.
i have so many goats for you love them
Nobody Loves ME.....:(
More then 10Yrs i hav not got any love PM from any gal...:(
how can som1 search Love.. it shud happen unknowingly, thru heart.. if u call for love , u will never find... love can happen anywer, anytime !!! 10 years is not a loooooooooooooooong gap.... ppl waits for more thn tht....
love wants tear fear bear
when life throws Sh%t at you, it is upto you to turn it into manure..
The trouble lay in keeping him for ten years without the commitment and giving away your precious body for the "enjoyment".
I was having a "big fight" with my husband for the past two days and I wonder why we both can't eat or sleep properly...I felt breathless and depressed...
Is this love, commitment or something you can't name...?
Married life or having an affair.. Both take away a lot of energy...That is all I know...
Black Magic i understand how you feel. But i think now is the time to think of yourself and discover the things you can do and find out its ok to be single. The thing is we depend too much on another person to complete us or make us happy. If the right person comes along that would be great but for the meantime stand up for yourself. all the single ladies have the real fun lol
Black Magic i understand how you feel. But i think now is the time to think of yourself and discover the things you can do and find out its ok to be single. The thing is we depend too much on another person to complete us or make us happy. If the right person comes along that would be great but for the meantime stand up for yourself. all the single ladies have the real fun lol
You Start pretty early..... Good way to start a day. Howz your jalebi today. How come she hasn't written anything for the heck of it.!!!
I am lonely too !! :(
I need Lub, Friendsheep and more Friendsheep.
Were can i get ? and how much per KG ? :(
Do Love with God, people will Love you and you will find true Love
Try Being Gothic .. It will help you alot .. Trust me! It's Impossible to find real love online =) ..
Joon Famoso is right! ... or take my opinion!
Whata Ba$tard.. 10 years of sacrifice adn tears - For what ?
Be brave..
I wish i could help, but my BF is a jealous type..
Nobody can give you real love, you have to find it yourself...you have to explore.....dnt expect that love is spoon feeding way....go out with friends & colleagues, that is one way to find someone that could be your potential life time partner...there are some more possible ways that you can do to meet someone.....
cheers!
People do love for real, but purity is dying....
Hypocrisy is a bitter pill to swallow but sadly it is okay for most, 'tie your lover down while you are free' syndrome.
It is sad it took you 10 years.....he either concealed it expertly or you got lulled into things slowly slowly...