How to "properly" beat your wife:

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hahhahaha...kenya queen just don do dat...lolzzz....dis is gona b sometng new wich will soon come at QL...as a nxt new hot thread...lolz....

well guys if u really think dat dis doesn exists den y da hell makin a fuss just chill n forget n doz passin wrong comments leave dem coz u cant change some ppl....so relax ...

Yes violence is never the answer,

If my husband ever beat me and I live to see him sleep that night I'd cut his dick off (of course after sharpening the cleaver) and stuff it up wahzoobe!!

just kiddin guys! but it is something to think about.

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.

I was not a happy camper for the rest of day, specially after I finish my 12 hour shift and I was dead tired.

You know what I saw last week? One of the gardeners in my compound killed a huge Brown scorpion about 4 inches long.

I believe all that watering of the plants in my compound is attracting all those critters to the cool surfaces.

Be carefull out there.

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

Ahh, ants, wife beaters, taking expired meds. My head is about to explode. Night all, time for me to go and abuse my husband ;)

Red Pope, I hear yah loud and clear.

On of the little buggers got up my pant leg and chewed his way all the way up my leg. MAssive red welts, it was unreal (did we just hijack the post?)

What, I'm about to tell you is no joke.

The other morning when I arrived home from work. I was dead tired. I lay down in my couch and felt at sleep. Then I got waken up, because some dammed ants bit me in the left ear lobe and my right tight.

Those critters, when they bite hurts like crazy, My ear lobe was swollen cherry red, like Rudolph nose. It has being two days since it happen and my ear lobe still hurts.

Be careful out there.

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

lol....gotcha :)

I abuse my husband everyday... and take complete advantage of him. He needs to know his place ;)

I am kidding of course.... Alexa on the other hand ;) (You have a great sense of humor Alexa...)

FAM= FEMALES ABUSING MEN

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

I think I am daft.. FAM?

The radar is indicating FAM in your words Alexia.

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

I was teasing Alexa ;)

All this talk of wife beating is encouraging me to go give my husband a slap just for being a man.

Alexa are you saying I am a HYPOCRITE!!!!

lol....j/k... back to my twisting troll ways.

wife beating DO exist...irregardless of RELIGION/FAITH, nationality, whatever.,...

First, by making light of this I do not by any means condone it as suggested above, and sympathize with the victums of such crimes against humanity, but I think the purpose may have been just to show us how screwed up some people are, regardless of race, color or religion.

I would imagine a rubber hose does leave a mark, I think anything would with enough blunt force.

I would love to read her comments

alexa " and i wish not to make fun not by u but by any body" did u attend Dr. Phil, super nanny :D)

they answer the question same way, so look to the other side of the coin it wasn't to talk about beating like it should be there, it was commenting what parents and husband and wife (simply the family) should care if it happen ,it was guidelines not to beat but to take care if u had a fight or arguments, etc and beat happen, that must not happen in front of children, not cause bleeding or broken, etc it doesn't mean to be expert officer while beating its a remark that this injury means u lost ur mind so that is not acceptable, confiming in the end of the post that even ur wife forgave u ALLAH might not(simply mean it's not acceptable).

again it's exactly what big reality shows give as a recommendation.

Regards,

Don't be a hypocrite PLEASE

Say that you didn't want to attend a friday prayer and took the speech as an excuse

as diamond said you could've changed the masjid instead of leaving the friday praryers altogether !!!!!!!!!

1. I thought the QL website was for all interests in QATAR.....not a soap box for people like you to incite hatred towards passages that are written in the muslim quran by picking out bits that you think will get a reaction going by upsetting an expat community here in Doha.

2. it is none of your business if i deserved it or not.

3. it is very clear that the u-tube video is of a cleric just interpreting and explaining to an audience an intruction from the quran. and then it is taken out of context by someone like you to put on a foram to make people think that it is only muslims who beat their wives.....as everyone will agree wife beaters come in all shapes and sizes, all cultures and nationalities....so why post this video? so you can upset people.

4. you posted the info so you were obviously looking for a reaction.

nothing to do this morning? yes imagine me wasteing my time on someone like you.

many years ago in cairo my best friend(english) was beaten to death by her egyptian husband...how dare you be so flipant when refering to the subject of wife beating. God rest her soul.

Guyssss, the post is not supporting beating at all at all at all.

and genesis i can understand ur feeling if that what happen but i do believe that u couldn't understand it well cuz no Imam will come in friday praying saying beat ur wives it's not acceptable and i dought it happend the way u think.

But Genesis, you could just stop going to listen to that particular imam. You could go elsewhere for Friday prayer.

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silent night for this forum from Britexpat.

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

Gypsy Don't play games :D), u did ur comment while u didn't understand the post and that's the only truth :P), about 100% ya I'm a Muslim so i can judge that this post isn't fake+ believe the componant of it is not what u do think at all

Take care

unfortunately, gypsy. It is Islam.

There is no excuse for this sick behavior.

I really hate it when scholars try to give justification for the beating?

Few years back,i've attended a friday prayer speech & the imam went on about the beating. And how Muslims

nowadays shouldn't be embarrassed about it !

I haven't attended a Friday prayer ever since...

Britexpat said:

I don't know about rubber shoes, but I have been known to experiment with rubber vest, underwear and latex gloves..Oh , and ofcourse the rubber mask ala Robin..

Dammed dude, What are you, a MISTRESS or a Mistross?

Please don't tell no more about your secret fetishes. I might have to arrest you and send you to solitary confinement in Canada with Gypsy as the jail warden.

HEHE

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

Britexpat, I agree, I think tatess is pretty new here. HOWEVER, that doesn't take away from the fact that the villain is this so-called religious scholar.

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We wear dark rain coats , because its easier to flash people with..

I don't know about rubber shoes, but I have been known to experiment with rubber vest, underwear and latex gloves..Oh , and ofcourse the rubber mask ala Robin..

Gypsy..

I'm sorry, but IMHO the messenger did realise what the consequences of the post would be..

Yes, but it's the agenda of whoever cut and paste the youtube video, not tatess.

Secondly. are you 100% sure it's been cut and paste or are you just to scared to stand up to supposed "religious scholars"?

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I got ur point it's right generally, :D)))))))) but Gypsy u r making it worst.

That post is 100% truth and a part of islamic lecture, just u guys didn't get it right+ the truth that it get start wrong, i mean there was a part before starting the post might be missing

"Agenda" loool

I only read "How to "properly" beat your wife....

What heck is that?

No one can beat the hell of me!

RESPECT and LOVE.....

F*ck it!

Britexpat said: We need to keep away from religious discussions, because they always degenirate into mud slinging.

Religious Mud slinging

There is no mud slinging in the streets of your town. Just lots of Dog crap, Pigeon guano and a lot of bull crap going around your town lately in the TV news, enough to fill-up your city public dump.

Know, I understand why those Brits are always wearing dark rain coats, Huge dark Umbrellas and always they are so dull with their sence of humor and smelling always funky.

Is that true that you wear rubber shoes all the time?

Respectfully

Red_Pope

PS

I love instigate and stir-up things once in a while, specially my fellow Brit's of QL.

I hear St. Patrick was an Englishman!"

Canadians suck, they give out universal healthcare

coz I once did a harmless topic about "Good guys finishing last". Some automatically presumed it's sexual in nature...which was unavoidable because I started some topics which are sexual in nature before that....lol

And since tatess doesn't often post in the general forum lately...she was mistaken for a crap stirrer (SHE ISN'T, OF COURSE) because of some poster was creating hate topics couple of days back (remember US and Canada, etc bashing topics)courtesy of heero...lol

the YouTube video link...and in my OPINION:

It seems that said video is NOT a full version thus the interpretation by the viewer may vary....which is what's happening right now...

FOR ME...Wife beating or inflicting pain is WRONG whether it leaves a mark or not. Beating your WIFE (without leaving mark/bruises) is possible, unfortunately...causing her EMOTIONAL/MENTAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL pain is much worst than physical pain.

I would know...coz i grew up with a father who's a WIFE-BEATER and who doesn't spare the ROD in disciplining his children.

The topic was created to be a light topic...but since we are of mixed culture and religion, it would really stir up some emotions and emotional views...

just my opinion....

Azilana, we could post on QL about which brand of popcorn you prefer... and based on the country of origin it could cause a stir :)

I think it is great, everyone so passionate about something (as long as the posts are clean and not insulting... Adey is an expert at that)

Well I'm sorry, stirring up or no, that fact is this asshole is out their making these youtube videos, and people are taking it as 100% truth. Put your anger where it belongs.

Don't shoot the messenger as they say.

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Good on yah Gypsy, I couldnt agree more.

I think it has more to do with people being pissed at tatess because they feel she is trying to stir people up... I welcome the stir up sometimes, and not because I like to cause chaos but we actually get to see different perspectives on things, I just wish the name calling and defense bashing didnt happen.

People, we all not like what others are posting but it is their perogative, if I dont like the post, I go elsewhere...

Man, why should you beat your Wife?? Are that f****ng Gay that you have to do it. This is so F****ng useless tread.

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Heard your wife left you,

How upset you must be.

But don't fret about it...

She moved in with me.

Actually if you do use a Holy book to beat your wife it won't leave bruises. From what I understand you put the book on her and then punch the book, still hurts but no bruises... maybe movies lie though.

I'm always I bit confused by the responses to these threads. Tatess posted a youtube video by an obvious twat, everyone jumps on him saying "THIS ISN'T ISLAM!!!" and start telling him he's religion bashing. Well

A) DUH it isn't Islam

B) It isn't Islam but it's been posted in the name of Islam and the people posting it are twisting Islam for their own agenda

C) instead of getting angry and the doofus who made the youtube video people get mad at tatess, even though he wasn't the one who made the video.

Perhaps, rather then spend all your timing repeating over and over again and being assholes to the non-Muslims who find this crap on youtube that it isn't Islam, you should spend your time telling the morons who MAKE this crap that it isn't Islam and be assholes to them.

In my opinion it would get your point across more.

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Hey Hey you remind me of that mad chick with the dancing fairies that used to post...

always throwing in random bizarre things then spewing off on one if any one complained....

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm time to get the meds altered me thinks.

i cant believe you...

you post this ....then complain???

tasteless

tactless

and actions speak louder than words and you seem to be void of respect

Politics, Culture and Religion with you, i'm not interested and dont read if you are not enjoying, easy as that,damn.

did you drop your brain somewhere?

@tatess, I do think I'm good enough.

I also know how to read.

Here you go.

Politics, Culture and Religion

I will not 'enjoy reading' if you're spreading a message which isn't condoned or supported by 99% of REAL Muslims.

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husbands dont have the right to beat wives and if ever my hubby (which of course he wont do)beat me, thats it ,the end of our relationship.i'll divorce him for sure without second thought.

Tatess-- cool down! =D

For me whatever the situation is MY HUSBAND DON'T HAVE ANY RIGHTS TO BEAT OR HURT ME PHYSICALLY & EMOTIONALLY! Period.....

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.”

I felt so that's why i do explain it was Islamic one, and yes about rules and putting limits in case if beating happen, feel fine it's ok

Wish u a good day

And it is also writting in a "Hollybook" an innocent student also can be killed ????

Maniac ideas for a deppressive heads.nothing else.

QL is getting very dirty and rubbish ideas place.

And the western's calls it is an democracy.

Democracy means being respect to the all kind of ideas.

Be very sensetive and kind before to make all kind of stupid exercises about the other religious believings.

Shame on you....

the lecture was clearly and properly said ,people just have to watch and understand what the man was saying.it's all about beating and he never mentioned any religion.

Neither did I mention something against others belief.

first of all let me clarify one thing, i am not against Islam or any other religion,i am a christian and was once married to a muslim and we have a son so there is no reason for me to insinuate anger as I respect each others religion just like my ex muslim middle eastern husband respected mine.

and what section do you think should i post this? help me then if you think you are good enough but make sure it wont stir up any trouble.

you people should cool down and just enjoy reading.

Okaaaay, here we go again. What a lot of trollop. Physical violence in any shape or form is abhorrent.

We've had a lively debate on QL about this topic...it's welll worth a read (although it is rather long, one of the longest discussions on QL)

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/46026?page=2

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let me explain the post was "Islamic lecture": explaining and putting rules for "if" it happened "and it's not encouraged" and u beat ur wife, what u should and what u shouldn't do. Like not in front of children, not at the face, etc.

Take care

Ridiculing ALL religious ideas, in all their variants and off-shoots, is the Atheist jihad.

"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365

not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the

many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers

were given. Satan - 10."

Dogsrus - great post!

who cares if your 1st post happened to be on my thread.did i mention any religion or any holy books name here.my post was judging from the website of a man saying something about wife beating and i thought to share it here witrhout thinking of insulting you guys or inciting anger as what you are implying for..

you obviously fre*ks out easily, no wonder why your husband beat you in first place .that's a shame.Did you say no educated people wants to hear it?then why are you posting in here.just to upset yourself for something you think is wrongfully written here.

then who has nothing better to do this morning then?

This is a forum and anybody can post freely according to the community guidelines. People like yuo doggy is the one making the bad impressions of some thread thus making someone burst into anger or negative thoughts on the topic.

U r right, I'm Sorry.it was my mistake to post before checking the same, but i get fade up of messing happen here making me hate the place while i didn't join Qatar yet.

but over here in dubai, other expats are rely respectful" and i'll not say more respectful"

better check the video clip! You will realize that the post is "not meant against Islam, but Buddhasim"

You still think it's not about the Quran?

I felt u though they mean Qur’an only, and wanted to be clear it's not. sorry for inconvenience.

I'm a Muslim Egyptian

Regards,

I hope we start from the position where what he's saying is considered outrageous. But it does make me suspicious about the motives for putting up the post.

"Just having a laugh"? Sure, and stirring up a little bit of racial hatred while you're at it. Well done :s

I also said "holy" book, and not "bible"! What's your point?

I do respect women who stand up for their rights!

I still despise that someone makes a joke of other people's religions while discussing incidents like these!

Dear "7asseb tou2a3", "tatess" said Holy book, and not Qur’an.

by the way even in Qur’an it's mentioned it's 3 holy books, so calm down brother.

for "Dogsrus" i'm not adjusting on you but i do give example" how to avoid hurting?" most probably u don't mean the connection, but mentioning ur ex Muslim husband, connect his religion to what he did, which is not true sick men every where do various of (spanking, baddelling, bla bla) the reason being sick and that's it, so it was better saying ex husband and we will still give u clap for what u did.

"tatess" if u picked the holy book "2 words" there weren't any prob. :)

so far the man who wants to beat his wife, should beat him self for his wrong choice “,))

Regards

I realize that this was intended to be posted in humour, and perhaps for the poster to show surprise that this could exist on You Tube. Nevertheless, it is still inappropriate for all of us to react with any reaction but disgust. By joking about it, we are accepting it. By accepting it, we are feeding it and helping it to continue.

This isn't an issue of religion, race, or gender. This speaks to abuse in any form - of children, spouses, strangers - and the degree to which we accept that it is okay.

Even when posted in humour, there is nothing about this that is funny. It's disgusting, degrading and inappropriate to joke about.

hmmm......well chill i don think so dat now a days hubby does beats his wife....n e ways it used to happen before coz ppl were illetrate but now neva a prob goes to such an extend coz u can speak wd him n dat solves da prob ..... :)

should be 'tasteless'. must have been a typo.

obviously you're just a person trying to stir up s hit.

If you really were concerned you'd see that modern GCC countries like Qatar, Bahrain and Emirates do not accept this and don't follow him.

He's just ONE man who interpreted the religion.

Thanks for spewing rubbish.

I suggest you go to my blog and see how Islam understanding is divided and we aren't just in one boat.

You're title OBVIOUSLY is written with that title to stir up trouble.

PLUS this is in the WRONG section of Qatar Living.

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Who tells you that Holy book says that to beat your wife for just as a fun or a regular excercise.

First have a good knowledge of that and then put such postings.

Good for you.. I'm glad you stood up for yourself..

This type of thing should not occur. Period.

my first posting on this web site...and what a shame it had to be a reply to your post...

you should not incite anger over religion, no educated person wants to hear it and judging by the posts it upsets many people so you obviously have nothing better to do this morning...

But for those who are interested in wife beating....my ex muslim husband first did it with his shoe, he was careful not to touch my face but lets put it this way, i could not go swimming for a month.....but the second time I fought back and scratched his bald head and forehead do deep that he had to wear a hat for weeks in the hot summer....and he had to explain to all his friends why the hat...he never hit me again.

so ladies be careful out there...

Violence in marriage is not acceptable, no person has the right to beat another human being for any injustice.

Violence only breds violence, if we want our children to grow up with the same problems and low opinions of wives etc, then do nothing now, and it will happen.

Just got out of the Betty ford Clinic again and I am delighted to see that QL is still managing to irritate people with its dumb letters....................hic! Back to the gin!

lol, I prefer that when my husband beats me he uses an open fist to the head area, the welts wont show and an open fist doesnt leave a welt.

did I say something bad or mention anything bad here about religion or culture?. Why were you bursting in anger and saying things out of context.It's about proper wife beating and not an insult to anybody.relax.

I wasnt commenting either way.... you are very defensive. Meaning of the comment was that there are religious rules of all sorts, we may not agree with them but oh well, sometimes it just isnt our business. Sa?

"Some people blow themselves up in the name of religion"

when an enemy invades your land, takes your home, rapes your females, kill your civilians and insults your religion, then it is very honorable to cause as much as possible damage to the enemy (army or civilians) while you are protecting your religion, land & honor!

The ugliest (un-called for) crime in the history of mankind, so far, happened in Heroshima & Nagazaki

Again things taken out of context..

We need to keep away from religious discussions, because they always degenirate into mud slinging.

One could look at this another way by saying that the guidelines are there to protect the woman.. No bleeding, No bruises, No broken bones and no beatings in front of the children..

lol, what about the expression "rule of thumb"? It actually means that you have to be fair in beating your wife, so beat her with a stick no larger in diameter than your thumb.

Some people blow themselves up in the name of religion, some self desecrate, others circumsize females.

So tatess, do you also wish that we discuss some details of YOUR "holy" book (if ever)?