Has your child been sexually abused?

Pajju
By Pajju

Sexual abuse in children is a term used when the offender, who may or may not be a member of the family, uses a child for his sexual gratification. Very young children as well as older teenagers may be victimised.

Sexual abuse can be physical, verbal or emotional and includes:
•Touching and fondling with sexual intent.
•Exposing children to adult sexual activity or pornographic material.
•Having children pose, undress or perform in a sexual fashion on film or in person.
•“Peeping” into bathrooms or bedrooms to spy on a child.
•Rape or attempted rape.

Parents or guardians must be vigilant towards their children since there are certain general behaviour changes that may occur in children if they are experiencing such a problem.

The sexually abused child may not be able to sleep due to fear or shock. If you notice unexplained sleep disturbances in your child, talk to him/her or take them to a doctor.

The child who has been sexually abused may not be able to concentrate properly on his/her studies due to trauma.

If you notice sudden withdrawal of your child from family, friends or usual activities, try talking to him politely and ask the reasons for such a change.

Other problems may include depression, anxiety, discipline problems, drug or alcohol problems, hostility or aggression and in some cases running away.

By gudone• 29 Jun 2010 16:07
gudone

brit... u r absolutely rite,,,

By Elegance• 29 Jun 2010 15:59
Elegance

Parents need to be vigilant on this matter.. My daughter finds me "overprotective", but at this age and her age no other way about it. As a mother this is my no.1 concern in life...

By britexpat• 29 Jun 2010 14:32
britexpat

Sexual abuse is a curse on society and we must all "look out" for signs. The main thing is to be alert and not always "trust" people with children, no matter how well you may know them. Remmber, most abuse is carried out by family members.

By anonymous• 29 Jun 2010 13:48
anonymous

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http://www.qatarliving.com/node/1145664

By Rizks• 29 Jun 2010 13:46
Rizks

loolz Motiver...

By Motiv8er• 29 Jun 2010 13:45
Motiv8er

Hey pajju sadhu - with your recent posting..I hv a strong feeling that you hv just been abused ;-)

By Pajju• 29 Jun 2010 13:29
Pajju

gudone yes we have to :P

By gudone• 29 Jun 2010 13:28
gudone

oh wat a serious thread frm pajju... OMG... its a nice thread 4 parents....shud alwayz b vigilant n carefull...

By choozy_84• 29 Jun 2010 12:05
choozy_84

so what do u think sonaam?lol

By sonaam• 29 Jun 2010 11:55
sonaam

Drmana But I know Bajju is only one there in office.

By drmana• 29 Jun 2010 11:39
drmana

sonaam, that means they share their computers. How silly that you don't know that :-P

By anonymous• 29 Jun 2010 11:39
anonymous

Rizk

last time, if i'm not mistaken, i only touch him gently, i don't know, why he's making issue now ;)

By sonaam• 29 Jun 2010 11:38
sonaam

Bajju but Munna and Pajjus is posting comments from same IP Address. yani waht it mean ?

By Pajju• 29 Jun 2010 11:36
Pajju

nope drmana , he is our old buddy :P

By drmana• 29 Jun 2010 11:34
Rating: 2/5
drmana

Is Munna pajju's ID too?

Scary world with crazy people. Pedophiles need to be identified as castrated ASAP.

By smoke• 29 Jun 2010 11:32
smoke

Gosh Munna bhai has returned with his AK143 :P

By sonaam• 29 Jun 2010 11:29
sonaam

Pajju is posting serious post coz bajju got serious warned from MOD uncle for loling so much

By Munna143• 29 Jun 2010 11:25
Munna143

smoke :)

By Munna143• 29 Jun 2010 11:22
Munna143

Dot. Pajju is a kid

By afrinnabees• 29 Jun 2010 11:21
afrinnabees

pajuu uncle is getting into Serious mode hope so..

By smoke• 29 Jun 2010 11:20
smoke

WTF Pajju? I'm noticing some mood changes in you with this thread...anything i should be concerned about? Anyone touched u this morning?

By Rizks• 29 Jun 2010 11:19
Rizks

Dotty u didnt harassed but Abused him a LOT...:(

u Cruel man.

By anonymous• 29 Jun 2010 11:18
anonymous

Pajju

ever i harassed you?

By soniya• 29 Jun 2010 11:16
soniya

fathimaH, no the case is still ON and the accused is still absconding...This is how our POLICE work..Let that PSYCHO to make another victim of his, and then these LAZY A55es will start working...

By FathimaH• 29 Jun 2010 11:11
FathimaH

More so because its becoming widespread. God protect all our children!

@ Soniya - Thats terrifying! Any leads on the case yet? I hope the psycho is found soon..

By Pajju• 29 Jun 2010 09:11
Pajju

soniya :)

By soniya• 29 Jun 2010 08:57
Rating: 4/5
soniya

pajju,i get surprise to see u on serious mode...u look nice with ur HUMOURS and FUNNY comments..

But its really a wonderful article..I read it few days back somewhere in the newspaper coz of the sudden incident of SERIAL KILLER of children in MUMBAI..That psycho rapes the girl aged below 10yrs and dump their body in an isolated place in KURLA,mumbai...the police are on look out for this psycho who commits this heinous crime on 6th of every month..

By FlyingAce• 29 Jun 2010 08:56
FlyingAce

I don't have a child, but when ever i do, i will surely remember the thread from pajju...... ;)

By asif_khan• 29 Jun 2010 08:54
Rating: 2/5
asif_khan

anyone who abuses children should be give the following punishments:-

1-his balls should be crushed with a hammer

2-his dick should be chopped with a butcher's knife

3- QR 120000 fine

By deepb• 29 Jun 2010 08:51
deepb

Pajju posting serious threads... Isn't that one of the signs of the coming of the Apocalypse?

By yv2r• 29 Jun 2010 08:49
Rating: 4/5
yv2r

Especially Child psychology will be disturbed and some in to depression and many in to Criminal/delequent behaviour.

We must take care Children,treat them as friends

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