GUYS DO U AGREE WITH THIS???

 I used to care a lot about tears, but i ended up with saying ... go to hell...

Coz, if i was caring for tears anymore, i would have married 10 times..:P

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when they feel they are losing an argument or quarrel.

and who would want to fight with a crying woman. so she wins.

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Sure some women a very emotional and may cry in an argument or whatever but to turn on the water works just to get your own way, is manipulative and childish. I feel sory for the men who have to experience this, like someone above said, its childish, something toddlers do.. 

My wife cries....

What I beleive Its only a matter of two words or little understanding to solve the issues and not to wait until the long, time consuming water flow finish...

Wth husband and wife , nothing there to forget and forgive in a maximum 10 minutes and if someone start to cry ,,, it will take more time..

Try to solve it immediately,,,, as the counter part is your innersoul 

Personally, I can't stand a woman's tears. I can think of few things that make me uncomfortable quicker.  I would take a well-reasoned, well-thought out arguement every day of the week, but tears as a way to get something to to end an argument just make me cold. 

Obviously tears of grief or pain are not the same, but turning on the waterworks over a minor tiff when words would work much better just rubs me the wrong way.  That being said, they are effective because I find myself doing just about anything to make them stop...

 That's what my Father always say...

I may not cry but that doesn't mean I'm not hurt or breaking inside.

You may see me smile/laugh a lot around my friends but that doean't mean I don't have a problem and that's everything is fine with me.

I'm SCARED to cry because it would only mean that MY CUP is brimming FULL and when I'm emotional, i may do/say things that might hurt myself or someone else.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleonor Roosevelt

LOL Ben,,, men are sneaky too, appealing to the mothering instincts?

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I've had a mate who has used these tactics for his advantage.

They weren't always to win an argument but to win them over, if you see my angle.

Emotions can be crazy, especially when you add a little silly juice

"never hide behind closed doors"

Unfortunately...yeah I do. Have seen and been told by women that if they feel they are loosing the arguement all they need to do is turn on the water works then they 'win'. Kinda like a toddler not getting their own way. I agree with Mila, thoughts and how they are use/ presented are the best weapon.

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Do you really think there r women who  use their tears and use game-playing tactics?If u hv come across such ppl, do share.. i'd like to know if such ppl exist outside of soaps..and anybody else,knowing ANY tactics, plz..let on,coz maybe I might finally be able to get hub to do my bidding!!

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I don't agree, a woman is more intelligent than to use tears as a weapon.  Tears I believe is last resport.  At least this is the Truth with my Wife.

I guess she must be Like Mila: she said

my greatest weapon is my thought. nobody can beat that

Disagree...don't believe in game playing

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I  agree, some girl-power, But it won't work for me.

Never go younger by a month, a hard bod is no substitute for wisdom.

my tears  are not a weapon,but guys will be guys and will always think so..Most times the tears r coz i am soooooooo angry and aarrrghhh!!....cant get my point across..but no..i dont think women..or men..start a POA with tears..now, tht the tears DO melt a guy,well, thts another story entirely..)))))

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yeb,,,

besides, when a girl cries and makes their partners soft, her partner can use this tactic in the end and the real cause of the problem is never resolved. your partner would just justify that he can always say sorry but never really mean it.

but i am not saying crying is a weakness. we all hve our own reasons for doing so.

Maybe... maybe emotion becomes so intense your body just can't contain it. Your mind and your feelings become too powerful... and your body weeps. 

- Seth "City of Angels"

yeah better that than go on a rampage............lol

you know sometimes you get so mad that you just want to hit something/someone................... but you refrain coz you know the repercussions so you just hold it back as best you can......>sighs

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

i cry when i'm so pissed..i dont cry to make my partner soft and pity me. it makes me cry coz it seems tiry to make each other understand and agree on one thing. although he knows that he is wrong! most of the time.

but what can i do? boys will be boys, girls will be girls..

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thank you oryx- how you sweety long time no see............

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Always work for me!!! but i dont cry for him to pity me, it's just out of frustration....

Yes I agree with that!!!!

Weapon against a guy? .. YEAH! I Fully Agree madam!

But depends on the guy....  some guys are just demon-posessed. Specially the rapists. the more the girl cries and screams the more they enjoy raping them.

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Well said that was poetic.

I am hurt, I don't want to hurt somebody..... so it comes out in tears.

If im right i'll fight for it, if im wrong i still think im right and keep quiet.

tears are my outlet for an impending eruption boiling inside.

you cant take back whatever you have spitted, so better shed tears than spit a mouthful of words brought by hurt or anger that you can never take back when you calm down

If you believe, you will receive what you ask for in prayer

onsoling the unconsoliable is difficult at the best of times and words may only make the situation worse.

Wait till the storm passes

for some crying is not abt weakness or wanting the other person to say sorry or give in to the situation but instead for me when i do cry/shed my tears is because i am so angry/upset that i want to say things that i am sure is gonna hurt the other person (saying out of anger) but i am trying so hard to control it as once it comes out there is no way of taking it back so to speak. so i am controlling it so hard that instead tears come flowing down, most ppl in an angry state will say things (hurtful things) in the moment of anger and when all has subsided realize that and its too late as it is already said and done with and hence hurts the other person........

my mom once told me the tooth paste story- only take the amt that you need if you were to squeeze too much of out the tube ya cant put it back in =-same goes for things said when in the heat of the moment (does more hurt than good)  

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

my greatest weapon is my thought. nobody can beat that.

Everybody is right everybody is wrong it depends where you stand.

I don't even care if my wife quarrels on silly matters....... I know, that she will come to me with a smiling face after sometime.

UK men are far too cynical to fall for that one...We women get far more respect for standing our corner and not turning on the waterworks...(have you no respect for yourself!!)

Keep Smiling :-) you never know who is looking

u have a stone heart senti! lol

Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN

I dont agree...........................You ladies always cry.......................i dont speak till she dont stop to cry............lol

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